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Boyfriend not coming back from holiday

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Madnessinblue · 27/06/2024 22:31

Boyfriend had gone on a business trip and extended by a few days to spend time with his friend. He won’t tell me when he’s coming back as he is undecided and says he just needs a break. It started with one extra night to now on day 3.

Now normally this would be understandable. However he has hardly been spending any time with me over the past few months as he has been so busy with work and life.

I asked a few months ago if he would take a holiday with me (it’s next week as I have time off work) and he said he could not spare the time off of his work and that he also could not afford to do it. He does however seem to have the money to fund a trip with his friend and lavish fine dining meals for breakfast, lunch and dinner plus super expensive bars for a few extra days at a luxury destination.

AIBU?

OP posts:
Madnessinblue · 27/06/2024 22:36

We’ve been together 3 years and yes it’s supposed of be serious! We don’t live together but plan to in the future.

OP posts:
19lottie82 · 27/06/2024 22:33

How serious is the relationship? How long have you been together? Do you live together?

BIWI · 27/06/2024 22:33

Sounds like he's not your boyfriend!

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