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Dutch Volleyball player who raped 12-year-old British girl qualifies for Paris Olympics

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MidnightPatrol · 27/06/2024 12:20

A beach volleyball player who was jailed for raping a 12-year-old British girl is set to represent the Netherlands at the Paris Olympics.

Steven van de Velde, now 29, was sentenced to four years in prison in 2016 after admitting three counts of rape against a child, which took place in August 2014.

He was allowed to serve his sentence in the Netherlands but was released after just 12 months.

The Dutch Olympic Committee (NOC) told BBC Sport: "After his release, Van de Velde sought and received professional counselling. He demonstrated to those around him - privately and professionally - self-insight and reflection."

The International Olympic Committee (IOC) said the nomination of individual team members is "the sole responsibility of each respective National Olympic Committee".

https://www.bbc.com/sport/articles/c511yz5ze18o

Should this mean be allowed to compete in the Olympics, given his crimes?

Steven van de Velde

Olympics 2024: Convicted rapist Steven van de Velde to compete in volleyball in Paris - BBC Sport

Dutchman Steven van de Velde, who was sentenced to four years in prison for the rape of a 12-year-old British girl, is set to compete in the Paris Olympics.

https://www.bbc.com/sport/articles/c511yz5ze18o.amp

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Autumnflakes · 29/06/2024 22:09

ComfyBoobs · 27/06/2024 14:16

He is a predator who sought out and attacked a British child. I think it is very much our business.

This from Wikipedia:

In 2014, he raped a 12-year-old child he met on Facebook who lived in Milton Keynes, England. He travelled to her home and, when she was without any parental supervision, gave her alcohol and then raped her several times.The victim would eventually go on to self-harm and take an overdose.

He only got 12 months?!

He is a sick individual.

biscuitandcake · 29/06/2024 22:07

SureJanOK · 27/06/2024 20:05

Yeah I'm annoyed at the Netherlands' rape laws. Esp given they have (imho) good, liberal laws re assisted dying.

hmmmm Why Dutch teenager Noa's tragic death was misunderstood (bbc.com) They say it wasn't euthanasia which is technically true. But she was allowed to just die.

Noa Pothoven's last Instagram post

Why Dutch teenager Noa's tragic death was misunderstood

Noa Pothoven had a desperate mental illness and died of starvation, but her story was wrongly told.

https://www.bbc.com/news/world-europe-48541233

biscuitandcake · 29/06/2024 22:02

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 27/06/2024 15:02

Until very recently sex without consent was not a crime in the Netherlands. For it to be rape it has to be violent.

the Dutch olympics authority seem to be ok with it on the basis that he was convicted under English law (suggesting they don’t see him as having done anything wrong).

its disgusting but so are the Dutch rape law.

This annoys me so much.
If you are in a country, you are subject to the laws of that country. If I travel on the Dutch trams without a ticket and get fined, I can't argue that the fine should be less because I'm British and the fine in London is less.

The Dutch (not all but a significant proportion) bitch and moan about foreigners not following Dutch culture, or traditions. (I mean, they do it a LOT.) But then simultaneously, the Dutch authorities and media genuinely believe its unreasonable to describe Van de Velde as a child rapist just because he was convicted as a rapist according to the laws of the country in which he raped a child. And went out of their way to undermine the UK judges decision. And then were really really smug about the fact they had done so (because Dutch system is more civilised). And then keep saying he served his time when the whole point is he didn't because of the Dutch authorities actions.

Sorry, I know it sounds like I hate the Dutch. I don't, I live in the Netherlands and I get on well with most people as individuals but this case has pissed me of so much. Because most people can't see the hypocrisy.

Whatshappning · 29/06/2024 21:54

This entire story is awful. Look at this article from 2017. He has no remorse and is massively arrogant.

www.bbc.com/news/uk-england-beds-bucks-herts-39292039.amp

MamaGarl85 · 27/06/2024 22:54

Words fail me as to how a country would think this is a person to be celebrated / looked up to as a role model for aspiring young athletes!

MrJollyLivesNextDoor · 27/06/2024 22:49

Aquamarine1029 · 27/06/2024 21:20

He should be launched into the middle of the fucking ocean and never thought of again.

Tied to a large lump of concrete!

WinterInTheAutumn · 27/06/2024 22:46

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Really?! I’m gobsmacked by your reply!

Jeannie88 · 27/06/2024 22:41

I hope the team and public have a say in this! He should be hanging his head in shame and keeping a low profile.

Marblessolveeverything · 27/06/2024 22:38

So if the Olympics were in USA I assume he wouldn't be able to secure a visa. I am sure the Olympic council could adopt an agreed list of criminal convictions that void entry.

Very disappointed to see a country in Europe allow a paedophile to represent them.

Menopaused · 27/06/2024 22:29

Next thing it will be Oscar Pistorius is back running for South Africa.

It's disgusting and shouldn't be allowed.

Willyoujustbequiet · 27/06/2024 22:24

It's fucking horrific

Girls/women don't matter

Well I for one am not going to shut up about it.

Atethehalloweenchocs · 27/06/2024 21:53

i very much hope that the british media will not be covering his games out of respect for the victim. Although when it comes to sport, it seems that being likely to win is more important than being a decent law abiding person.

noctilucentcloud · 27/06/2024 21:51

I'm angry that multiple rapes of a child under 13 only carries a sentence of 4 years and even angrier he only served 12 months. I think sentences for rape and sexual abuse are too lenient and have been wondering for a while if it is a hangover of a male dominated legal system / society that does not recognise the seriousness and long-lasting effects.

I'm also angry that his victim now potentially may see him on TV / in the press / talked about and his achievements celebrated. I also think there's a safe guarding issue wrt any under 18 athletes as a PP said. I'm surprised the IOC has no rules about certain convictions or sentences. And I'm also surprised that his playing partner is ok with it.

GeorgeOrwellsTurningGrave · 27/06/2024 21:37

Disgusting and truly indefensible decision on behalf of the Dutch and Olympic committees. He is a paedophile and a danger to young female contestants.

The poor child he raped. What a message to send.

CaptainOliviaBenson · 27/06/2024 21:31

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The victim isn't Dutch, she's British!

GrannyAchingsShepherdsHut · 27/06/2024 21:27

He's presumably going to be housed in the Olympic Village - with fellow athletes, some of whom will be young teens.

Surely to fuck, at the very least the Olympic committee has a duty of care to not house children with fucking paedophiles?!

DanielGault · 27/06/2024 21:21

BIWI · 27/06/2024 21:18

@BrigadierEtienneGerard

He raped a British girl. Does that change your stupid opinion?

It's amazing what doesn't get deleted around here sometimes isn't it!

Aquamarine1029 · 27/06/2024 21:20

He should be launched into the middle of the fucking ocean and never thought of again.

BIWI · 27/06/2024 21:18

@BrigadierEtienneGerard

He raped a British girl. Does that change your stupid opinion?

StaunchMomma · 27/06/2024 21:16

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Aggressively defending a nonce.

What a great look.

LlynTegid · 27/06/2024 20:54

If there was a men's UK volleyball team in the Olympics, they should refuse to play the Netherlands if he is selected. There is not though.

Having said that, there is a footballer who if the justice system in the UK functioned in a reasonable timescale probably would have faced sex offences charges in court.

Hazyjaneishere · 27/06/2024 20:49

TealDog · 27/06/2024 14:30

I do believe in rehabilitation but I think this is taking it way too far. He has served his time and should be allowed to live a normal life, but he shouldn’t be able to represent his country in my opinion.

He hasn’t served his time. He’s served a year. For repeatedly raping a child.

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 27/06/2024 20:49

Tarquina · 27/06/2024 20:44

I'm so shocked that a man who definitely did a rape and even admitted it and a little child where he drugged her and left her with trauma etc only served 12 months in prison?

That's absolutely ridiculous! You know in the Victorian times a man could be hanged for raping a child of 12.

The problem is the Netherlands didn’t see what he did as rape. It didn’t meet their definition at the time as rape.

it will have been sex with a minor though which is a criminal offence but I don’t have any insight in to how severe they take that.

Tagyoureit · 27/06/2024 20:47

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Hello Steven van de Velde or his mum!!

Prick!

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