Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To find this disgusting?

239 replies

whereisshadow · 26/06/2024 17:15

There’s still a week before bin collection and this is the state of my neighbours.

This isn’t a one off. It’s constantly like this. Both normal and recycling. Sick of living near tramps that don’t care.

To find this disgusting?
OP posts:
AlanBrendaCelia · 26/06/2024 20:22

greencartbluecart · 26/06/2024 17:27

It doesn't look like they squashed stuff down and the slightest wind will have litter over the street

I know our council will provide a larger bin on request

We would just let our neighbour know they can use ours which is rarely full

Our council will give you a bigger/extra recycling bin, but not a bigger general waste bin. In fact, if for any reason your 240 litre general waste bin needs to be replaced, you will only get a smaller, 180 litre bin. They don’t do the 240 litre bins any more.

Bignanna · 26/06/2024 20:20

Despair1 · 26/06/2024 19:29

Hi OP, I don't like the reference to people 'living like tramps'; very derogatory term. 'Tramps' are predominantly people who are without a home and live outside; a nightmare scenario.BW

You don’t like the reference to tramps? So you’re insulting people who, through no fault of their own have ended up homeless?

socks1107 · 26/06/2024 20:20

Yanbu the boxes could be broken down and put in properly. They could also go to the tip, sometimes we have to do this.
One bit of wind, foxes etc it'll be all over the street

fungipie · 26/06/2024 20:20

Needmorelego · 26/06/2024 17:17

What are they meant to do with their rubbish if the bins provided aren't big enough?
You should be angry at your council - not your neighbours.

no wonder the bin is not big enough if they can't be bothered to flatten boxes. It just takes seconds to do.

Agapornis · 26/06/2024 20:19

Some councils allow you to report dirty front gardens, does yours? My former neighbour was similar (didn't have wheelie bins so even worse - lots of food, too) and someone came round to tell them to clean it within 2 weeks.

Needmorelego · 26/06/2024 20:14

@Beekeepingmum not really. Where I live some of the Victorian houses are split into 2 or 3 flats - which sometimes sell for £500 thousand or so.
But because it's a Victorian house there's little outside place for bins - especially if it's 3 lots of bins because it's 3 flats.
So you can be a "nice middle class family" but you still have a terrible rubbish collection system.

plimbow · 26/06/2024 20:13

Heatwave here in the south east, maggots galore for the poor bin men.

They deserve medals.

BobbyBiscuits · 26/06/2024 20:09

It's a full bin. Why are they tramps bc they bought something that comes in packaging?
Why not pull out the contents and start scrutinising that, is some if it...clutches pearls..alcohol!?
Honestly you sound horribly judgemental and very very bored. If that's the worst your neighbours are doing you should really chill out.

RogueFemale · 26/06/2024 20:05

@whereisshadow I'm on your side, YANBU. Wheelie bins are already a blight without overflowing ones. However, if that's the worst your neighbours do, then really consider yourself lucky. My neighbour is a prize cunt and I'd be over the moon if he moved out and I got your neighbour with the overflowing bin instead - my dream neighbour.

LanaL · 26/06/2024 20:05

I’m really shocked that they you have called them tramps for putting rubbish in a bin and I actually think it’s quite nasty .

LanaL · 26/06/2024 20:04

Where else should they put their rubbish ? It’s in the bin ! People can’t help it if they have a lot of rubbish , I also have a lot and sometimes - especially if I have a clear out - my recycling or bin is full early.

Mummy2024 · 26/06/2024 20:03

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

Arnt you the lucky one.... we have 2 weekly collections here. You should really get a hobby. Trolling the neightbours using your cctv is pretty sad tbh....

We're not allowed second bins either by the way... the council regularly go around confiscating 2nd bins. They did it 2 weeks ago, they took the tidy neighbours 2nd illegal bin over the road. They then decided to come and steal mine!!!! They had a lovely tidy garden though!

Leaving a large family with no general waste bin and having to pay for another themselves to keep their own garden nice! They also don't recycle, I know because when I marched over to retrieve my bin back there was no recycling bags in sight, so who's the real tramps? Me with my messy recycle filled garden or them for being thieves?

This family your trolling has a full bin not a mountain of waste in the garden so consider yourself lucky!

PixieLaLar · 26/06/2024 20:01

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

Never mind the bin situation the way you come across on this thread is disgusting. Calling people tramps because they have a different amount of waste to you or maybe don’t compact their waste like they could to utilise the bin space.

That doesn’t make them any less of a person. Why don’t you take you frankly shit photo and report the neighbour to the council if your that upset….or better yet grow a backbone and speak to them directly instead of slagging them off on an anonymous forum.

OpalHedgehog · 26/06/2024 20:00

Wait - people are getting their bins emptied fortnightly? Ours is once a month and the struggle is real!

Rockmumontherun · 26/06/2024 20:00

We have a street WhatsApp for stuff like this - my bin is overflowing has anyone space in theirs they don't mind me using? Most people will say, that's fine chuck it in mine 😀. Could you perhaps offer space in your bin if theirs is overflowing. It would stop the litter blowing down the street.

Beekeepingmum · 26/06/2024 20:00

You can tell a lot about an area by its bins. Nice area = no bins in sight other than collection day, Moderate area bins stored tidily by the house. Rough area = bins everywhere. It is a good indicator of how much people care about their home environment.

Myotherrideisabroom · 26/06/2024 19:57

It's a good job you don't live in the same county as I do...... our bin collectors have been striking since the first week in December, with random and intermittent collections in between. My recycling bin hasn't been emptied for 6 weeks now. Despite numerous runs to the tip, our bins are still overflowing and will probably be expected for some time....

When not on strike, our bins are only emptied once a fortnight (recycling one week, household the following and so on) and we are only allowed one of each bin, we can't even buy another bin & they'd only take one anyway on bin day.

ThisBlueCrab · 26/06/2024 19:56

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

Wow you are an utter delight.

I pity your neighbour's living next door to you if that's how you treat people.

You are being a snob and a particularly vile one at that.

Perhaps get a hobby that isn't policing people's wins and posting about it on the Internet.

Lifeomars · 26/06/2024 19:56

Needmorelego · 26/06/2024 19:49

@Lifeomars do you live in my street 😂

I feel very sorry for you if you do! there are lots of lovely people on my street but we have a fair few who just don't or can't follow the bin and rubbish rules and of course this impacts on everybody.

Annielou67 · 26/06/2024 19:54

I get it. It’s annoying. We all have a responsibility to make our areas as nice to live in as possible, and not to cause a nuisance to our neighbours. A bin like that out for the week would annoy the hell out of me too. There are council rules round here about putting your bin out early and the lid closing. You aren’t specific though. Is that bin in their garden? If it is , you need to screen the area out of your sight. You could always complain about the smell/ rats etc. Or you could be kind and offer them space in your bin, or on your compost heap.

Mummy2024 · 26/06/2024 19:53

Poolstream · 26/06/2024 19:32

There’s lots you can do.
Sort you waste properly.
Compost veg and fruit waste.
Only use minimal packaging.
Recycle more.

We live in a hamlet. The bins are 300 metres down the lane.
We learned very quickly to reduce waste.
We wheel our bags down in the wheelbarrow.

It's My recycling that's the problem it's all over my garden. We're provided with flimsy undersized bags. The council know its an issue they didn't care. They didn't listen to the people funding the town, instead they did what ever they wanted. So my messy garden is their fault and they will be told that if they come knocking, funnily enough they never have though I wonder why...

Any excess general waste I take to the tip, last thing we need is rats, but usually we don't have any excess general waste my bin lid is up though alot of the time. People in my area fly tip in giant mountains across the road from us in 2 areas, we developed a major rat problem due to that. They have to keep coming out and moving the mountains. The rat problem is finally resolved at least.

NoseNothing · 26/06/2024 19:53

I can’t tell if the posters who think this isn’t an issue are themselves also disgusting bin users or are just trying to be “cool and carefree” as seems to be a continuing theme on MN these days.

Not sure why you’re getting such a hard time from people, OP. It’s rank. I would hate having to have to look at/walk past that every day (as I’m sure we all would - hence why I don’t understand why people are defending this). Get better evidence and report to the council or whoever.

Gross.

Needmorelego · 26/06/2024 19:49

@Lifeomars do you live in my street 😂

Plump82 · 26/06/2024 19:49

At least they're using their bins. One of my neighbours just likes to dump it anywhere.

Lifeomars · 26/06/2024 19:46

Come and live where I am, marvel at the fly tipping, gasp at the endless litter, gape in awe at the wheelie bins left out on the narrow pavement for years on end getting in the way of disabled people and parents with buggies. Then cast your eyes over the brown bins that have been packed to the hilt with non-recyclable stuff so that the bin men cannot take them, so there they sit out on the pavement a whole year later stinking to high heaven. When you have done that come and watch me sweeping up fag ends, seed shells and sometimes dirty nappies that have been chucked out on to the street. Now that is disgusting! Oh and while you are at it, spare a thought for me when my neighbours broke into my back yard and took out my green bin to stuff it with their rubbish, but that is part of the joy of living in an area that has been neglected for well over 10 years and where unscrupulous BTL landlords make a fortune by turning two up two terreced houses into unofficial HMOs crammed probably 10 or more adults