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Galwaygirl · 26/06/2024 16:12

Would you go on holiday if covid positive, trying to settle an argument!

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DuoTulip · 27/06/2024 10:06

Wendysfriend · 26/06/2024 16:38

As we have 2 very vulnerable people in our family and still test I would appreciate if someone didn't get on a plane with COVID, but people are basically for themselves now, they don't really care if my dd or DH become seriously ill, once they feel fine then it's my problem to deal with anything DD and DH pick up.

It's not about being "for themselves." I think most people care if someone becomes seriously ill. But it just isn't reasonable to expect that people will forego a much-needed holiday when they feel well enough to go, in case someone vulnerable is on the plane or in the same hotel. I'm afraid that COVID just is part of life now and it is for those with vulnerabilities to decide what they feel comfortable doing. Why should the person with mild COVID symptoms miss out so that someone else doesn't have to? I'm fed up with people pushing the narrative that those who are choosing to live their lives are somehow awful and selfish and don't care about others. Most people care, but COVID is as much a part of our existence now as flu or norovirus or the common cold and we simply have to live with it, with the onus being on those who may become more ill from it to make their decisions accordingly.

CasperGutman · 27/06/2024 10:04

OptimismvsRealism · 27/06/2024 09:59

It annoys me how everyone went tits mental for lockdown and are now all "why would you even TEST, nerd". Arseholes the lot of them.

I'm not calling anyone a nerd, just pointing out what the advice is. Nobody tests to see whether they have flu or any other routine bug that's circulating in the community.

I didn't go 'tits mental' for lockdown either.* I just followed the advice at the time as I do now. The situation has changed and so the advice has changed. My attitude remains the same: I am guided by public health experts who have made a career of determining the appropriate steps non-expert members of the public (like me) should adopt.

*Not sure what this means. Are tits particularly mental? It doesn't sound very complimentary though.

tamaribest · 27/06/2024 10:02

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OptimismvsRealism · 27/06/2024 10:00

People who did not go tits mental for lockdown (all three of us) are entitled to do as we please now, though.

OptimismvsRealism · 27/06/2024 09:59

It annoys me how everyone went tits mental for lockdown and are now all "why would you even TEST, nerd". Arseholes the lot of them.

tamaribest · 27/06/2024 09:58

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nonevernotever · 27/06/2024 09:40

In those very particular circumstances, I would go, masked and sit outside on deck on the ferry, but I can and have cancelled holidays before when one of us was unwell and clearly infectious. We do still test in my family and I had COVID 6 weeks ago so stayed at home. It was the most unwell I have felt for some time , and not improved by the fact that I had it twice in a couple of months.

CasperGutman · 27/06/2024 08:29

Lollygaggle · 26/06/2024 23:11

If you read further on the same page

If you or your child have tested positive for COVID-19:

  1. try to stay at home and avoid contact with other people for 3 days after the day the test was taken if you or your child are under 18 years old – children and young people tend to be infectious to other people for less time than adults
  2. try to stay at home and avoid contact with other people for 5 days after the day you took your test if you are 18 years old or over
  3. avoid meeting people who are more likely to get seriously ill from viruses, such as people with a weakened immune system, for 10 days after the day you took your test

To quote the Spartans' laconic response to Philip II of Macedon: "If".

I'm fully aware that if you or your child have tested positive for COVID-19 then all those advice points follow. But why would you test positive when you're neither advised to test nor given test kits any more?

WiseBiscuit · 27/06/2024 08:27

If I was well enough to travel I would.

I am ill now, possibly Covid but I am out of tests. I couldn’t get on a plane today.

I only test before visiting my very elderly grandmother (97) in her care home as she is incredibly vulnerable. We aren’t required to but most relatives are. And we obviously don’t go anyway with symptoms.

Galwaygirl · 27/06/2024 08:23

A few of her colleagues were suggesting she goes on holidays.as she has 4.days isolation done with no symptoms, I think after her not being in work for the week and of she exercises caution and wears mask etc she should go as she will be day 5

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Galwaygirl · 27/06/2024 08:19

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She had to stay off for 5 days as per government's guidelines. She wasn't required to test but did so before attending her vulnerable patient, as a precaution

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Gcsunnyside23 · 27/06/2024 08:16

Yes but I'd wear a mask just in airport, flight etc

tamaribest · 27/06/2024 07:57

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Lollygaggle · 26/06/2024 23:11

CasperGutman · 26/06/2024 21:55

It's not just that you aren't obliged to test for COVID though. You aren't even advised to test, unless you're a vulnerable person who might be eligible for treatment if the test result is positive.

The advice is here: https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/covid-19/covid-19-symptoms-and-what-to-do/

It does seem a bit circular, in that you're only advised to self-isolate (or rather, "try" to) if you have a temperature or feel too unwell to do normal stuff anyway!

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If you read further on the same page

If you or your child have tested positive for COVID-19:

  1. try to stay at home and avoid contact with other people for 3 days after the day the test was taken if you or your child are under 18 years old – children and young people tend to be infectious to other people for less time than adults
  2. try to stay at home and avoid contact with other people for 5 days after the day you took your test if you are 18 years old or over
  3. avoid meeting people who are more likely to get seriously ill from viruses, such as people with a weakened immune system, for 10 days after the day you took your test
Mossstitch · 26/06/2024 22:31

If she was asymptomatic on the Sunday she wouldn't know if that was day one or whether been positive days earlier 🤷‍♀️ if she's worried she could test again but highly unlikely to be contagious if not sneezing and coughing. Wearing a mask if in close contact with others would reduce the probability of infecting anyone further if she's worried.

CasperGutman · 26/06/2024 21:55

It's not just that you aren't obliged to test for COVID though. You aren't even advised to test, unless you're a vulnerable person who might be eligible for treatment if the test result is positive.

The advice is here: https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/covid-19/covid-19-symptoms-and-what-to-do/

It does seem a bit circular, in that you're only advised to self-isolate (or rather, "try" to) if you have a temperature or feel too unwell to do normal stuff anyway!

nhs.uk

COVID-19 symptoms and what to do

Find out about the symptoms of COVID-19, what to do if you or your child has them and when to get medical help.

https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/covid-19/covid-19-symptoms-and-what-to-do

Lollygaggle · 26/06/2024 21:44

Janehasamane · 26/06/2024 21:39

Sure, but you are also now not required to test, so it is negated.

You are not mandated by law to test for covid , just you are not mandated to test for tb , measles , mumps but they are legally notifiable diseases.

just because you don’t , legally, have to do something doesn’t mean it’s not the morally right thing to do or even the responsible thing to do.

Janehasamane · 26/06/2024 21:39

Lollygaggle · 26/06/2024 21:16

Actually government advice is
If you or your child have tested positive for COVID-19:

  1. try to stay at home and avoid contact with other people for 3 days after the day the test was taken if you or your child are under 18 years old – children and young people tend to be infectious to other people for less time than adults
  2. try to stay at home and avoid contact with other people for 5 days after the day you took your test if you are 18 years old or over
  3. avoid meeting people who are more likely to get seriously ill from viruses, such as people with a weakened immune system, for 10 days after the day you took your test

Sure, but you are also now not required to test, so it is negated.

Willyoujustbequiet · 26/06/2024 21:32

Lollygaggle · 26/06/2024 16:51

As a sufferer of long covid who has just tested positive for covid again , with tests that I paid for , I couldn’t live with myself if someone ended up losing their career and interests , health , if I didn’t isolate whilst infectious , the same way I have , as a previously healthy individual , because of covid .

Im sure the many people I meet in long covid clinic who have also developed it in the last year or two would agree with me.

ps government guidance is you should stay at home https://www.gov.uk/coronavirus

and from guidance
If you or your child have tested positive for COVID-19:

  1. try to stay at home and avoid contact with other people for 3 days after the day the test was taken if you or your child are under 18 years old – children and young people tend to be infectious to other people for less time than adults
  2. try to stay at home and avoid contact with other people for 5 days after the day you took your test if you are 18 years old or over
  3. avoid meeting people who are more likely to get seriously ill from viruses, such as people with a weakened immune system, for 10 days after the day you took your test
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This.

I certainly wouldn't be exposing others. It's not a cold for many. People still die from it.

Lollygaggle · 26/06/2024 21:16

BlueMum16 · 26/06/2024 21:14

There is no such thing as an isolation period for anyone else. It might be a work thing. She's not working.

If she feels well she should travel.

I would.

Actually government advice is
If you or your child have tested positive for COVID-19:

  1. try to stay at home and avoid contact with other people for 3 days after the day the test was taken if you or your child are under 18 years old – children and young people tend to be infectious to other people for less time than adults
  2. try to stay at home and avoid contact with other people for 5 days after the day you took your test if you are 18 years old or over
  3. avoid meeting people who are more likely to get seriously ill from viruses, such as people with a weakened immune system, for 10 days after the day you took your test
BlueMum16 · 26/06/2024 21:14

Galwaygirl · 26/06/2024 21:11

No, I'm not clear! She had to attend patient Monday, tested Sunday as per duty of care, isolated from Sunday. Now she hopes to travel Friday but thinks her isolation period will not be up, she is counting 5 days isolation from the Monday

There is no such thing as an isolation period for anyone else. It might be a work thing. She's not working.

If she feels well she should travel.

I would.

Galwaygirl · 26/06/2024 21:11

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No, I'm not clear! She had to attend patient Monday, tested Sunday as per duty of care, isolated from Sunday. Now she hopes to travel Friday but thinks her isolation period will not be up, she is counting 5 days isolation from the Monday

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Flopsythebunny · 26/06/2024 20:37

Janehasamane · 26/06/2024 17:57

But this makes no sense, over a third of people have no symptoms at all, and something like another 40 percent have very mild symptoms, so wouldn’t know they had it. There is also no testing program, and people are not covered by their insurance if they cancel

sure call people selfish cunts if they won’t give up thousands of pounds worth of holiday, dont test, but you’d need to petition all thr world governments to change that,

or vulnerable people could understand that rhe world did stop to protect them.and now it’s restarted so they do need to protect themselves

The world didn't stop to protect the vulnerable, we were all stuck at home shielding. It stopped to protect the nhs