Ok, I know I am really, but hear me out!
DD plays an instrument (rather well, if I may say so) and she also plays a sport competitively at national level and another county level.
She has started playing football with her classmates at break and it seems she is invariably in goal. I found out when she came home once complaining she'd hurt her hand and I told her it was football and she's supposed to use her feet! I pointed out it wasn't a good idea due to injury risk and she seemed to agree.
Shes just had her last tournament of the season and last concert and one of the first things she said was "oh good I can play football again now!"
I never said she shouldn't play, only that she shouldn't play goalie.
I still don't think it's a good idea, she will be devastated if she injures her wrist.
Is there anything I can do/say/show her to mitigate the risk of injury? Should she bandage her wrists like she does for boxing? Gloves- do they help protect, if so which? Techniques to learn? Or should I tell her she's not to play in goal?
AIBU - to forbid her to play in goal?
YANBU - it's a sensible precaution