So I was one of the wise, confident parents on someone else's thread about their 14 year old, thinking my little one was getting past the obsessed with her looks phase.
Silly me.
She's started wearing fake tan (bought herself with own money: she gets paid 20eur for reffing a match) and I feel a little concerned as I think she's planning on wearing it all the time.
I don't want her getting used to seeing it on herself to the point that she feels she looks bad/pale/sick without it.
I told her she's allowed wear it for special occasions and experiment a little bit beyond that, but no more than once every 2 weeks.
She's sad. Am I being unreasonable to limit fake tan application for a (nearly) 14 year old