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To think this nurse shouldn't have laughed / scoffed at me for asking for a room?

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supertrainers · 25/06/2024 18:20

Last night at 3 am I had to take my DD to a and e as she was struggling with her breathing.

Unfortunately this coincided with me having been up all night already vomiting. Second night in a row. It's not a stomach bug, before anyone says I shouldn't have taken my child to the hospital.

I was feeling absolutely rotten. Two nights of no sleep, worry for my DD. Pain, nausea. Everything.

I'm familiar with the hospital as I have found myself many times in there with one of my children in the middle of the night.

Most of the time, we get offered a room, once we've been triaged. Not always, but more often than not. The room has a bed in it and we just stay in there and the doctors come in and out.

I said to the triage nurse last night that I was also feeling extremely unwell and are there any rooms we could possibly wait in. I said I'm sorry for asking and I wouldn't ask unless I really needed to.

She did a scoff / laugh at me for even asking. 9 times out of 10 we have a room and you scoff at me ? I was taken aback by it and in my horrible state for her to just laugh / scoff at me was super rude. I told her, I understand but I really don't appreciate you laughing at me for even asking. I'm really unwell and I wouldn't ask you. It's not very nice that you laughed.

She denied laughing at me. I left it at that and went and sat on the plastic chairs for 6 hours.

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Bordersgarage · 25/06/2024 18:31

She shouldn’t have laughed, but I imagine working in A&E starts to get to you after a while. I’d cut her some slack.

Needmorelego · 25/06/2024 18:30

All children's A+E's I have been in have a "calm" room which we have sometimes used as my daughter is autistic but it is down to luck if it's available.
If the nurse did laugh that's horrible of her.
Hope you and your child are feeling better 💐

Differentstarts · 25/06/2024 18:29

Rooms are limited and will be given based on patient need you where not the patient so your health is irrelevant in that situation. The laughing doesn't surprise me though some nhs staff are vile.

MissMoneyFairy · 25/06/2024 18:27

Did she laugh at you or the appealing situation the NHS is in, there isn't a medical need for you to get a room though.

supertrainers · 25/06/2024 18:25

Hotpinkangel19 · 25/06/2024 18:23

Unfortunately most people in A&E are ill or unwell, so you shouldn't get priority over anyone else for a room. But no, she shouldn't have laughed.

This was children's a and e.

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Hotpinkangel19 · 25/06/2024 18:23

Unfortunately most people in A&E are ill or unwell, so you shouldn't get priority over anyone else for a room. But no, she shouldn't have laughed.

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