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To be shocked at the cost of family days out?

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holidaaay · 25/06/2024 17:21

My sister was talking to me earlier and she said she’d seen that tickets for x4 to our local zoo are £25 each. As soon as a child turns 3 you pay full price for them. £100, just to get there. I couldn’t believe it!

It got me thinking how everything is just this way now and almost feeling a bit sad about it.

Take a weekend to London. £300 return for everyone’s train tickets (that would be a very good deal, too!) easily £200 per night for the cheapest of hotel rooms a walk out of the centre. If you’re there for two nights that’s already £700, not to mention shows, food, attractions whilst there… I reckon you’re then on at least £1500. I don’t know who’s affording it.

Of course, you could limit or go without those types of activities and spend a lot of time in parks and having fun at home or finding local free things to do at the museum and library. Nothing wrong with those things at all. But nor do I think it’s far fetched to hope some of the more ‘exciting’ activities and trips would be just that little bit cheaper so families can make some memories alongside doing the everyday things. It would be nice to think the zoo and a weekend to a big city weren’t activities reserved for the rich.

We have a few years before we will be paying full price for DD. We are likely going to be one and done, finances hugely influencing this and we don’t earn badly. I just don’t know how families with 2+ children do it- school holidays must cost parents so much money especially if the weather is crap. Never mind then factoring in other costs in the year like holidays and Christmas, any childcare bills you have to pay for monthly.

Has it really always been like this or prices just steadily getting more stupid?

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Fudgetheparrot · 25/06/2024 17:40

Yeah we go to the local farm (which to be fair is fantastic) once a year now- usually Easter so we can bottle feed the lambs!

To be fair with school age kids a lot more time is taken up with hobbies and parties and play dates so we are looking to
fill weekends much less now than when we just had a toddler. DD is 6 and over the summer she’s got her dance show and rehearsals, going to football camp, staying at her granny’s with a cousin, meeting friends in the park, etc.

PollyPeep · 25/06/2024 17:40

Yes those kinds of activities are crazy expensive, which is why for us something like the zoo or the sea life centre is a special birthday trip. We'll do something like that once a year. We go to the theatre maybe twice a year - once during the summer and once at christmas, but not the west end. We have two young kids and over the summer holidays we do maybe one paid event every other weekend, and the rest of the days are spent on free activities. Museums, galleries, libraries, parks are all free, and there are lots of children's events over school holidays that are low cost, you just need to book in advance.

rewilded · 25/06/2024 17:40

Take a weekend to London. £300 return for everyone’s train tickets (that would be a very good deal, too!)

I have bought tickets for £30 for three? This includes underground travel too. Excellent value. We are 130 miles away.

WhitegreeNcandle · 25/06/2024 17:39

Agree. Although there are ways round it - rail cards via Tesco clubcard points. Get your kid a blue Peter card asap - get them into lots of attractions for free. We ask grandparents for days out now the kids are 11 & 9 and not so into toys.

Justwingingit2005 · 25/06/2024 17:36

Holidays too..... alot charge adult prices from 12 or 13. To be an adult is 18.
We have 3 teens, so now anywhere is paying for 5 adults.

FanofLeaves · 25/06/2024 17:35

No it’s gone up massively, but the costs of running anything involving animals for example is astronomical. We used to have some lovely local ish farm parks, a few farm animals, maybe a tractor ride, a small soft play- this was reasonably priced. Now they’re all bells and whistles with rides, entertainment, huge soft plays, big themed events for Christmas etc. And they charge hugely for it, triple what it used to be, from age age 2 upwards- we can’t go anymore. But apparently without the big sparkly rebrand and going more ‘theme park’ they wouldn’t survive. This has happened with so many attractions.

Regularly have stayed in London premier inns in good central locations for £100 a night, though.

There are still some good deals to be had for shows but they’re fewer between. Even a ‘cheap’ meal At Wetherspoons isn’t that cheap anymore.

Ohdosodoffdear · 25/06/2024 17:34

Someone's paying it though, or they'd drop the prices.
Season tickets, Tesco Clubcard deals, Blue light card deals etc can reduce the prices hugely.
But yes, days out to bug attractions are expensive, and always have been.

Dontbeabitterlemon · 25/06/2024 17:33

They are so expensive. We have really cut back on them due to this. It is hundreds for 1 day.