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Being deliberately ignored

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PinkSand · 25/06/2024 14:17

I'm being deliberately ignored by a work colleague. I say hello and she looks away. We've had a few nice chats. This has been going on for over one week now.

AIbu to ignore her too or should I ask what's wrong?

I see her everyday but we work in different departments.

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TomatoSandwiches · 25/06/2024 14:29

It's definitely not you op, she sounds like an imature teenager.
I'd just say good morning to the room in general and ignore after that.

notnowmarmaduke · 25/06/2024 14:27

just say hello and then carry on with your day. Don't react or respond to her stupid behaviour in any way. Don't even notice it

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PinkSand · 25/06/2024 14:25

IncompleteSenten · 25/06/2024 14:23

Do you need to talk to her in order to do your work?

If not just say hi as you walk past and don't even slow down to see if she replies.
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What she's doing only matters if you give a shit about her or what she's playing at. Act as though you haven't even noticed that she's not replying because you are just doing the polite greeting thing but have no interest at all in her reply or lack of one and forget about her the moment you've gone by.

No don't need to talk to her at all. I think it's a good idea to say hello and just keep on walking

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PinkSand · 25/06/2024 14:24

Stoptherideiwanttogetoff24 · 25/06/2024 14:21

Don’t dignify her stupid behaviour by asking what’s wrong just rise above it.

Do you think I should say hello or ignore her? Honestly I'm so triggered by this. It hurts me.

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IncompleteSenten · 25/06/2024 14:23

Do you need to talk to her in order to do your work?

If not just say hi as you walk past and don't even slow down to see if she replies.
A
What she's doing only matters if you give a shit about her or what she's playing at. Act as though you haven't even noticed that she's not replying because you are just doing the polite greeting thing but have no interest at all in her reply or lack of one and forget about her the moment you've gone by.

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PinkSand · 25/06/2024 14:23

Limth · 25/06/2024 14:19

She's a childish, ignorant prick. Don't stoop to her level - a breezy "morning" when you first get in will suffice, then get on with your life and don't give her brain space.

I fear this is the actual case. It's really triggering me. I am extremely sure I've done nothing to warrant her behaviour. I suspect others have actually recently left their job because of her

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Stoptherideiwanttogetoff24 · 25/06/2024 14:21

Don’t dignify her stupid behaviour by asking what’s wrong just rise above it.

Limth · 25/06/2024 14:19

She's a childish, ignorant prick. Don't stoop to her level - a breezy "morning" when you first get in will suffice, then get on with your life and don't give her brain space.

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