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To think food banks aren’t fit for purpose

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ForFirmBiscuit · 24/06/2024 22:35

I don’t need to use a food bank but when I did they gave me tins of soup, a small tin of meat pie, a litre of UHT and a small bag of oats, nothing fresh. I didn’t get much and I was really hungry as there wasn’t enough calories and it was insubstantial. It gave me loads of anxiety to be so hungry. It’s always been like that.
I think food banks should be supplied by the council and given proper budgets for good food, even if they made batches of soup themselves to give out it would be more filling than a tin of soup

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Meetingofminds · 25/06/2024 19:23

cupcaske123 · 25/06/2024 19:18

I never find anything you say amusing. Glad to hear you donate though.

Do you??

cupcaske123 · 25/06/2024 19:18

Meetingofminds · 25/06/2024 19:09

It’s not funny. I can’t believe pp are so entitled to complain about the food offered to them by kind individuals like me. I find it insulting.

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I never find anything you say amusing. Glad to hear you donate though.

cavalier · 25/06/2024 19:15

DanielGault · 24/06/2024 23:18

Be grateful beggar.

That’s not called for. Where do you get this delightful side of your personality from ?

Meetingofminds · 25/06/2024 19:09

cupcaske123 · 25/06/2024 19:08

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It’s not funny. I can’t believe pp are so entitled to complain about the food offered to them by kind individuals like me. I find it insulting.

cupcaske123 · 25/06/2024 19:08

Meetingofminds · 25/06/2024 18:47

And someone to feed it to them with a silver spoon - preferably wearing white gloves.

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OhmygodDont · 25/06/2024 19:01

justasking111 · 25/06/2024 17:51

Our food bank won't take fresh food. Our local supermarket doesn't have a container to put food into any more. I sometimes visit our local co-op in the evening late. The staff clear out bread and cakes which the lad said went to a food bank. So somewhere else must take it.

It will be a mix between fair share food charity and olio. Fair share tend to do the community fridge types and olio is olio.

Asda, sainsburys, Tesco, co-op, Iceland, one stop, the hospitals and some schools plus more like cash and carry’s work with olio for the volunteers to collect from but it’s still called and classed as a charity collection.

BruFord · 25/06/2024 19:00

An organization in my Dad’s area provides low cost cooked meals several times a week and also does Meals on Wheels, which my Dad has.

The food is delicious, but it can’t be a completely free service, because the chef and staff need to be paid, plus the costs of their facilities. I imagine some people receive free meals but I think most recipients pay.

It was set up by a lady who recognized the need and left some money to fund it. They also apply for grants and people donate-I’ve started donating, because it’s such a good service. The money has to keep coming from somewhere to fund it. 🤷

murkyview · 25/06/2024 18:55

Maybe each one is run differently but the one at our church makes sure there's enough for a few decent meals. A single person household gets cereal, two tins of soup, beans, two tins of veg, tinned spuds, some pasta, pasta sauce, tea, sugar, bread, UHT milk, juice and some biscuits (depending on what is in stock).

It's not meant to be your sole source of food but an emergency top up for people who are temporarily in a messy situation.

If your Foodbank was only giving you 2 tins of soup and a small bag of oats, a meat pie and some milk, it's likely that is because that is all they have.

Honestly, the volunteers work so, so hard and yet someone is complaining about the inadequacy of what is an emergency service, stocked up by kind donations and largely staffed by people who volunteer their time.

If you now have better fortune OP, perhaps you should consider volunteering and seeing what it's like from 'the other side'?

Meetingofminds · 25/06/2024 18:47

Blouson · 25/06/2024 18:41

They'll be wanting a tin opener next!

And someone to feed it to them with a silver spoon - preferably wearing white gloves.

Blouson · 25/06/2024 18:41

YellowDaffodilRedTulip · 25/06/2024 17:59

You were starving hungry and are complaining your FREE soup wasn’t hand made?

They'll be wanting a tin opener next!

Meetingofminds · 25/06/2024 18:40

Alli88 · 25/06/2024 18:02

There shouldn’t be a need for food banks for goodness sake. Concentrate on people having enough money to feed themselves rather than what’s in foodbanks.

‘Concentrate on people having enough money’ I think it’s their job to concentrate on getting jobs and working to organise their own shopping and lives. I have sympathy for those that work and need to use them, but they are very much the minority.

Needanewname42 · 25/06/2024 18:31

greencartbluecart · 25/06/2024 15:33

Poor married women would work but the norm wasn't to work after marriage - 1 in5 perhaps

Neither set of my grandmothers worked post children and they were very working class -moved homes as a result slum clearances for example

Housing is the main problem / it used to be 3 times household income as a maximum mortgage and that was fine - that's no longer the case - 3 times 60k doesn't buy much in the south east these days !

Poorer families had council homes / security and reasonable rents ( lower than typical mortgage which was relatively much lower than todays typical mortgage)

From the Institute of Fiscal studies, your 1 is 5 is grossly underestimated.

This is women between 25 and 54.

To think food banks aren’t fit for purpose
Alli88 · 25/06/2024 18:02

There shouldn’t be a need for food banks for goodness sake. Concentrate on people having enough money to feed themselves rather than what’s in foodbanks.

YellowDaffodilRedTulip · 25/06/2024 17:59

You were starving hungry and are complaining your FREE soup wasn’t hand made?

justasking111 · 25/06/2024 17:53

We're in Wales. Son is in a northern city. He says there's an app you can use there to get free food from supermarkets. I don't know what it's called though.

justasking111 · 25/06/2024 17:51

Our food bank won't take fresh food. Our local supermarket doesn't have a container to put food into any more. I sometimes visit our local co-op in the evening late. The staff clear out bread and cakes which the lad said went to a food bank. So somewhere else must take it.

Skyrainlight · 25/06/2024 17:39

TheWayTheLightFalls · 25/06/2024 17:34

I contact the local foodbank because we have an allotment and in the summer we have a surplus of fresh veg, so I offered it to them and they said no, they couldn't handle it and only dealt with shelf stable items. Very odd to me, all they would need to do is have a box of veg that people could help themselves to.

@Skyrainlight we do take that sort of thing but have to be careful about it. If the "box of veg that people could help themselves to" only stretches to 5-6 clients and that leads to an argument from the next 5, or requires monitoring to make sure that one person doesn't take the lot, it isn't so straightforward. I tend to keep back the "help yourself" stuff until the first dozen customers have passed, so the others get a fair crack, and then have it next to me so I can issue a few "I think you have enough there, please move on"s if needed.

That makes sense, I can understand it causing issues. Thanks for sharing.

TheWayTheLightFalls · 25/06/2024 17:34

I contact the local foodbank because we have an allotment and in the summer we have a surplus of fresh veg, so I offered it to them and they said no, they couldn't handle it and only dealt with shelf stable items. Very odd to me, all they would need to do is have a box of veg that people could help themselves to.

@Skyrainlight we do take that sort of thing but have to be careful about it. If the "box of veg that people could help themselves to" only stretches to 5-6 clients and that leads to an argument from the next 5, or requires monitoring to make sure that one person doesn't take the lot, it isn't so straightforward. I tend to keep back the "help yourself" stuff until the first dozen customers have passed, so the others get a fair crack, and then have it next to me so I can issue a few "I think you have enough there, please move on"s if needed.

Skyrainlight · 25/06/2024 17:33

Mrsjayy · 25/06/2024 17:19

They are not saying no to be awkward and ungrateful, can you advertise on
Your local FB and people can help themselves OR maybe a local church can distribute it

Thanks, I emailed one of the local churches last year but never heard back. I did read the local synagogue is growing fresh produce to distribute and teaming up with Waitrose so I may contact them if we have excess this year (although so far it's not looking likely with very little seed germination). Another mumsnetter shared a food sharing app so I'll take a look at that too. I never let the food go to waste, all my neighbours get inundated and when I still have veggies left I knock on the doors of people in the road I don't know (like a crazy person) offering them free veg. I find it embarrassing, but I also just can't throw good organically grown veg away.

Blouson · 25/06/2024 17:31

Fishcake15 · 25/06/2024 17:22

What a Boomer comment!

What a milennial comment. LOL at the hate for boomers. They arent all minted.

NamelessNancy · 25/06/2024 17:30

theuniverseisworking · 24/06/2024 23:16

In 2010 there were 35 foodbanks nationally.
Now 14 years later (under the Tories) there are 1,172 foodbanks.
Just look at that increase & think how many households rely on them.
There shouldn't even be foodbanks.
It's a shocking statistic, and councils can't find them because of all the cuts from central government & they're already cutting services that support those facing multiple-disadvantage.

Please vote wisely on July 4th, everyone.
Get the Tories out.

Totally agree. It's an absolute disgrace. People should be able to afford to feed themselves.

To think food banks aren’t fit for purpose
Fishcake15 · 25/06/2024 17:22

Blouson · 24/06/2024 23:20

A lot of people had fk all in the 1980s. By comparison people today dont know they're born.

What a Boomer comment!

Mrsjayy · 25/06/2024 17:19

Skyrainlight · 25/06/2024 16:58

I contact the local foodbank because we have an allotment and in the summer we have a surplus of fresh veg, so I offered it to them and they said no, they couldn't handle it and only dealt with shelf stable items. Very odd to me, all they would need to do is have a box of veg that people could help themselves to.

They are not saying no to be awkward and ungrateful, can you advertise on
Your local FB and people can help themselves OR maybe a local church can distribute it

Skyrainlight · 25/06/2024 17:16

OhmygodDont · 25/06/2024 16:59

Have you thought about a sharing shelf or cupboard, or posting it on olio.

I had never heard of Olio, thanks for sharing! I've made a note of if although this year I'm not sure we will have excess, out of 70 squash seeds planted only 8 have germinated because it was so much colder that usual.

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