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AIBU to think changing schools may be the right thing to do?

33 replies

BiscuitsForever · 24/06/2024 17:48

Hello, I'm in a bit of a conundrum and would love to hear some views from others.

My dd is 6 and is in Year 1, she likes school, she has lots of friends and is very settled. It used to be so lovely and friendly, however, I have some concerns about her school.

Firstly and most recently, her school sent us a letter on Thursday explaining that there is no money so Years 2 3 and 4 are to be combined. I worry about this as dd is the youngest in the class and will find this overwhelming. I also think combining ks1 and ks2 seems odd.

The school is in a group with 2 others and finances are shared, one other school in the group is the priority for money and resources at the moment due to the impending Ofsted they are due.

I know Ofsted isn't everything, but they've just gone from good to RI.

Dd's head has no idea who she is, she has never met her in 2 years. She never comes to sports days or plays. It is a small school and this just seems to indicate a lack of interest.

They have recently let go of the senco and are not replacing them, therefore there is currently no support in place. Apparently they are training a TA up to help them.

I just feel that none of the decisions being made are in the interests of the children. I understand that budgets are extremely tight, but I just think they are ruining what was a lovely, friendly school.

What do you think? I think it might be best if she moves, but will it be too much for her?

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HopelesslyOptimistic · 24/06/2024 18:00

Absolutely grim. My child's primary teacher stands every & I mean every morning in the playground to great children and families. We have fabulous teachers and one of the best PTA's in the county. It's truly a community, every child matters. This is not meant to sound gloaty, but, perhaps give you some hope. Combining three year groups is intolerable.

jellybeanzzz · 24/06/2024 17:59

I would deffo change schools.

We moved our DD before she started juniors - best thing we did

GL xx

barelyfunctional · 24/06/2024 17:57

“All mainstream schools (including academies and free schools) must have a SENCO. The SENCOmust be a qualified teacher, or the headteacher, working at the school.”

that’s direct from the gov.uk website. I would definitely be looking at other schools

HysteriaOfTheWanderingWomb · 24/06/2024 17:56

She's young enough to adapt well and have a long time at another school.
My kids both attended small village school with mixed age classes, done well it's a good thing, I'm a big fan and I have one child who is oldest in her year and one who is youngest... But mixing key stages is a step too far imo, I don't think that can be done well... So it seems to be a decision if necessity but without the balance of the necessary strategy to make it work.

I'd move her if I could in your shoes.

Decklededge · 24/06/2024 17:54

I can see three good reasons to move in your post.
DD will make new friends easily at that age.

Jeschara · 24/06/2024 17:54

I agree it's bizarre. Look for another School. Hope you find a good one.

Daffodilsugar · 24/06/2024 17:52

TAs can’t be SENCO. You have to be a qualified teacher, there will be someone filling the position even if in just an acting capacity.
I have heard of lots of rural schools (I teach in one) making teachers redundant and merging classes due to falling pupil numbers and lack of funding.

threadingtheneedle · 24/06/2024 17:50

Definitely look into moving - a combined Y2,3,4 class sounds a bizarre idea to me, that's a huge difference in teaching and maturity for a primary school.