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Is it odd?

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Sunflower8710 · 24/06/2024 17:18

Really needing some advice here because I just have a really rotten feeling that I’ve done something to offend a friend.

basically I had a baby earlier this year. I’m in a friendship group with me and 2 others, one friend checks in regularly and has visited a couple of times and keeps up with me on socials. The other friend has visited once, rarely checks in (she’s a mother so knows how rough the first few months are) and I’ve just sat and looked at my social posts of photos of my baby and she hadn’t liked a single photo nor left a comment. I feel it’s petty perhaps on my side but also quite b!itchy from her at the same time.

she has recently had a baby and is being fussed over of course. But I just feel really close to messaging her asking why she doesn’t show any love or attention towards me and my child?

thoughts? X

OP posts:
Isittimeformynapyet · 24/06/2024 17:21

Has she given up social media to live in the real world?

DaughterNo2 · 24/06/2024 17:19

Do you keep in touch via anything that isn’t SM?

RefusingToPlayYourGames · 24/06/2024 17:19

The answer is really simple - leave the group, don't go on any social networks, and just enjoy your baby