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AIBU to go to a hen party but not dress up for the theme?

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ncob · 24/06/2024 10:07

It's a theme I own nothing for already and not keen to splurge on fast fashion for an outfit and accessories that I will never use again. Keen to attend the event though and paid for it already. WWYD?

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ThisNaiceLemonSloth · 24/06/2024 16:01

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Bordersgarage · 24/06/2024 15:47

I’d go and comply with the theme as cheaply as possible, whilst still giving the impression that I’ve put at least some effort
in. I’d feel like a right lemon if I went and I was the only one not joining in (and I hate fancy dress).

Keeperinthecloset · 24/06/2024 15:34

As above ..

AIBU to go to a hen party but not dress up for the theme?
Keeperinthecloset · 24/06/2024 15:30

I have multiple cowboy hats in different colours and accessories , we just had a cow girl theme party I’m happy to send to you PM me
x

freshbluesnow · 24/06/2024 15:02

ncob · 24/06/2024 11:30

Thanks for the suggestions all! Maybe I'm just useless at fancy dress.
Live in a small town and already raided local charity shops- so needs to be bought online. Any suggestions for "glamorous" cowgirl options which I think is more the style?

With all the simple, easy suggestons on this thread you have to buy online now?

Glamorous? Fuck me, put on some eyeliner.

S0livagant · 24/06/2024 14:59

Any suggestions for "glamorous" cowgirl options which I think is more the style?

One of those fancy shirts like Temple Grandin wears?

RitaIncognita · 24/06/2024 14:56

Any suggestions for "glamorous" cowgirl options which I think is more the style?
There is the Rodeo Queen option. Long blingy dress, cowboy hat with a tiara on top. Make a satin sash to wear with Rodeo Queen in glitter.

TheTripThatWasnt · 24/06/2024 14:44

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If you don't care about the environment, what about the slave labour?

It really IS an issue. Just one you're choosing to ignore.

damebarbaracartlandsbiggestfan · 24/06/2024 14:37

Lots of blue denim, suede and lace. A bandana round your neck - bonus points if you can get a fringed one. Also do you have any turquoise jewellery OP?
Mini cowboy hats are fun for stag/hen do's and no worries about size! and if you buy a cheap multipack online, it'll be fun to take them on the night out and give them out to people.

Moveoverdarlin · 24/06/2024 14:25

In fairness, I couldn’t think of an easier theme. It’s just jeans and a shirt. I thought you were going to say the theme was ‘sexy astronaut’ or ‘Beyonce’.

S0livagant · 24/06/2024 14:23

Wouldn't a cowgirl just wear light denim jeans and a checked shirt, like cowboys?

Moveoverdarlin · 24/06/2024 14:22

Jeans and checked shirt, (Just looked on Vinted and there are loads on there for a £1.50, put them straight back on there afterwards) Same with a hat. Two plaits in your hair, draw on freckles.

finallyspringisspring · 24/06/2024 14:20

I was just about to give a hat that fits that theme to a charity shop.
If you are happy to cover postage I can send it to you.
Can take a photo when I'm home if you are interested :)

SapphireSeptember · 24/06/2024 14:19

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Er, there's a hell of a lot wrong with fast fashion, especially if you're then throwing it away afterwards and it's ending up in landfill sites. (Unless you're taking it to charity shops? Mind you they don't want it half the time either.)

RampantIvy · 24/06/2024 14:18

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I'm assuming this is tongue in cheek?

Blinkingbonkers · 24/06/2024 14:16

Skinny jeans with belt, boots of any kind if you have some, white tee shirt or check shirt (does your dad/brother/bf have one would could borrow?) with a hanky/bandana round your neck… if you have long hair stick it in two plaits. Done.

Clarabell77 · 24/06/2024 14:15

YANBU when the fuck did this nonsense start.

WetBandits · 24/06/2024 14:14

Red checkered shirt and a pair of denim shorts and you’re set!

WetBandits · 24/06/2024 14:14

There will be tons of cowboy hats in charity shops and on eBay/Vinted in the next few days after all the Swifties decide they don’t want them anymore!

TudorFrameHouse · 24/06/2024 14:12

Cow girl just needs a cow person bandana
Less than £5 from amazon etc
You can get one with a hat for £10 on amazon

Or just a gingham tea towel could do

Dreamingofthishouse · 24/06/2024 14:11

I did this recently, was reluctant to bug anything! Any big over size shirt, open bar last few buttons and tied at waist , skinny jeans or denim shorts and any heels, a short scarf/ napkin tied at waist, sunglasses, big hair . Across body Side worn bag and if you have to buy anything maybe buy a cowboy hat! Also could skip the shirt and buy a waistcoat instead!

Ponderingwindow · 24/06/2024 14:07

Other option, wear something plain and add a bandana. You can buy one at a craft store. They are cheap.

freshbluesnow · 24/06/2024 14:06

Wear your hair in bunches, paint on freckles, tie your shirt at your waist, and wear blue jeans, or a short skirt. Instant cowgirl. Use your own wardrobe.

Ponderingwindow · 24/06/2024 14:05

This is so easy

jeans
top

find something in your closet that is worn out and you were going to throw away or that you never ever wear and were likely to donate to a charity shop. Cut it down so you have a vest.

EveryOtherNameTaken · 24/06/2024 14:05

Jeans
Shirt tied in a knot at the front (preferably checked)
Two plaits
Neckerchief
Just brown boots if you have them
Plastic cowboy hat

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