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Delivery drivers and take away orders ruin restaurant meals

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contentlycontent · 24/06/2024 08:27

We don't eat out much, maybe once a month or less. When we do go, tends to be local independent restaurants. However our 4-5 most recent experiences are ruined by the revolving door of delivery drivers collecting takeaways and restaurant staff bending over backwards to meet their demand at the expense of those sitting there.

Yesterday we sat directly opposite the kitchen and watched orders for those eating in sit under hot lamps for upwards of 20 minutes whilst they packed order after order to give to the delivery drivers crowded round the door. We waited more than 15 minutes for a waiter to come to take our order, the food arrived at odd times with items missing and a couple of drinks forgotten entirely. The restaurant was at half capacity at this point.

I find it crazy that if I were to order a take away for the restaurant, it would be at my door in 30 minutes but when I am sitting right there, I spend more than half that time just trying to get their attention to place an order.

AIBU to think that the experience of eating out has ben destroyed as a direct result of the explosion of food delivery services?

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Cas112 · 24/06/2024 13:32

Ive never come across this apart from maybe in a nandos

IdealHomeExhibition · 24/06/2024 13:21

LutonBeds · 24/06/2024 11:00

One of my friends did Deliveroo/Uber Eats in Covid. He got an order for a cup of tea from McDonalds to go from Stretford to Sale. I think the drink was 99p and the delivery charge was £6. The mind boggles that people have money to waste like that.

There's someone opposite me who seems to get one coffee delivered all the time it's mad isn't it. I know someone who sees no problem ordering 1 grocrry item then an hour later ordering one more. 🙃

CheeseSandwichRiskAssessment · 24/06/2024 12:53

Argharghargharghargh · 24/06/2024 09:01

Waited 40 mins in a Pizza Express for our order recently. The waitress came over to apologise that the delay was because a large Deliveroo order had come in.

locally we have loads of clusters of scooters and bikes outside a run of restaurants. It's intimidating later in the evening to walk through (there has been fighting and cat calling). I also hate that the riders keep their balaclavas and motorcycle helmets inside. Restaurants don't seem to care that all this makes eating out a less than attractive prospect.

As usual total lack of regulation and unmitigated profit generation by these companies and instant gratification being the norm undermines the social contract of acceptable behaviour. (Lol that escalated from a late pizza! But it does make me cross).

Yes! Groups of masked men are intimidating. I don't think people care about what women might think though.

grumpypedestrian · 24/06/2024 12:51

I agree it’d be annoying. But from the restaurants perspective, they’re getting more business from deliveries than people eating out less than once a month.

CheeseSandwichRiskAssessment · 24/06/2024 12:43

I agree, plus all the e-bikes barrelling down the pavement.

voiceofastar · 24/06/2024 12:42

sheroku · 24/06/2024 12:31

I have the same experience in restaurants round here and I find the obsession with Deliveroo so weird. Unless you're getting a curry, takeaways are so often minging by the time they arrive. Who wants to eat a slightly cold pizza or chips that have gone soggy from the condensation? If I'm going to spend that much money I want it fresh from the kitchen on a proper plate not wrapped up in plastic and bounced around on the back of a bike.

I feel the same. I don't get it. The only place I get takeaways from is the Indian restaurant up the road from me so I walk and collect. I tried Deliveroo during lockdown and it was invariably disappointing. The prices of items are also higher, then you have the service charge and delivery on top. Drivers could never find me despite giving them v specific instructions and what.three.words so it was always cold when it finally arrived, often after much back and forth over the phone to the driver. I can't imagine the appeal of a fried breakfast or fish and chips delivery, or the point of ordering a coffee and pastry from Starbucks. Doesn't the coffee spill everywhere anyway? If you're at home then just make one yourself FFS.

NeverEnoughPants · 24/06/2024 12:39

shearwater2 · 24/06/2024 12:31

It's not an inevitable consequence of higher costs- that would impact on turnover obviously but not necessarily profit.

Thanks for quoting one line, without the explanation - out of context you are quite right

However, with the context (of retaining the same low profit margin percentage) then what I said makes total sense.

Buffypaws · 24/06/2024 12:37

Deliveroo arrives cold as well so what we have here is the worst of both worlds

AncientQuercus · 24/06/2024 12:37

We had a similar experience in a McDs we used to go to. 35 mins wait while more and more drivers piled in. We only got the food then because I complained. Haven't been back since.

shearwater2 · 24/06/2024 12:36

sheroku · 24/06/2024 12:31

I have the same experience in restaurants round here and I find the obsession with Deliveroo so weird. Unless you're getting a curry, takeaways are so often minging by the time they arrive. Who wants to eat a slightly cold pizza or chips that have gone soggy from the condensation? If I'm going to spend that much money I want it fresh from the kitchen on a proper plate not wrapped up in plastic and bounced around on the back of a bike.

Nonsense, the food is beautifully hot and fresh when it arrives, better than I've had in a lot of restaurants, and much hotter than if I picked it up and drove four miles home. And I do put it on a nice plate after it has arrived, it's much more comfortable than a restaurant because it's my house, and the supermarket wine I'm having with it has not been marked up 200%.

sheroku · 24/06/2024 12:31

I have the same experience in restaurants round here and I find the obsession with Deliveroo so weird. Unless you're getting a curry, takeaways are so often minging by the time they arrive. Who wants to eat a slightly cold pizza or chips that have gone soggy from the condensation? If I'm going to spend that much money I want it fresh from the kitchen on a proper plate not wrapped up in plastic and bounced around on the back of a bike.

shearwater2 · 24/06/2024 12:31

It's not an inevitable consequence of higher costs- that would impact on turnover obviously but not necessarily profit.

NeverEnoughPants · 24/06/2024 12:29

shearwater2 · 24/06/2024 12:25

The article talks about profit rises and increased dividends paid to shareholders in a cost of living crisis for its customers.

But that's an inevitable consequence of higher costs.

If you sell the same amount of items at a higher cost (because your costs are higher so you have to) and retain the same low percentage profit margin, your profits will increase and so will the amount available to pay shareholders.

The profit margin is still low.

shearwater2 · 24/06/2024 12:27

mumda · 24/06/2024 11:34

It's a sign of the incredible wealth of the country to see how many people have takeaways.
If you're seeing them from the comfort of a restaurant rather than just looking out of the lounge window then good for you.

It this really a stealth boast?

I don't think it's a sign of "incredible wealth" that people can afford a takeaway.

It's not a race to the bottom, much as some people would like it to be.

shearwater2 · 24/06/2024 12:25

NeverEnoughPants · 24/06/2024 11:40

You know their huge profits are just because the businesses are massive? It's a highly competitive market and they work on much lower profit margins than probably any other business - it's the sheer scale of the business that means they make the big profits.

The biggest reason for the recent price increases has been the increase in minimum wage. A supermarket making between 3% & 5% profit can't absorb a 28% wage increase between March 2022 and April 2024 without increasing prices.

The article talks about profit rises and increased dividends paid to shareholders in a cost of living crisis for its customers.

HappiestSleeping · 24/06/2024 12:22

Marblessolveeverything · 24/06/2024 08:46

It's their management of the activity rather than the business model. Our local restaurant has pretty much a separate kitchen banging out the deliveries. The drivers come to a different entrance.

The owner invested because profits from the deliveries are outstripping the restaurant. The reality is deliveries are here to stay, our expectation to eat good quality meal at home has expanded and to be fair most of the thriving ones near me are on the more healthy offering.

Having food ready not brought to the table is due to bad staff training and probably under staffing.

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ElinoristhenewEnid · 24/06/2024 12:20

woodpecker2 · 24/06/2024 08:47

YANBU we stopped to pick up a fish and chips. Couple of people in the queue thought we’d be home in a few minutes stood there for about half and hour like lemons while they prepared ticket after ticket for deliveroos. Not been back.

Had exactly the same experience last week at my local fish and chip shop - one person in front of me but waited for 20 minutes or so to be served due to delivery drivers.

I then had to wait another 15 minutes while they cooked my order because all the fish had been given to drivers. At least my order was hot and fresh!

Dowhatyouwanttodo · 24/06/2024 12:20

I’ve noticed this too. It’s poor service and very annoying. I would have complained.

NeverEnoughPants · 24/06/2024 12:19

divinededacende · 24/06/2024 12:09

I mean, you can't completely compare profit margin to wage increase without factoring in volume of sales and number of staff into the equation. A 28% wage bill doesn't automatically ruin a retail business running a 5% profit margin when their volume of sales is mammoth. Less profitable doesn't mean not profitable. I mean I'm not deluded into thinking big businesses don't need to increase prices to offset costs, it's just part of the bigger problem with how our world is structured where constant growth is needed at the top while quality of life is sacrificed at the bottom.

Given that I don't have all their accounts information, it's impossible for me to give an accurate representation of why costs have gone up.

There will also be in increases in the wages of the suppliers, meaning the product price will have increased. The increased electricity costs. The increases in raw material costs which have been affected by the issues like Ukraine and Brexit. I could go on.

But the simplest way to illustrate it, with numbers that are actually easy to access, is with wage increases.

Of course, anyone that thinks the supermarket price rises are simply because of profiteering will be able to go to other shops and presumably enjoy lower prices. (Not saying this in relation to what has been said on this thread, but I've seen it said before).

divinededacende · 24/06/2024 12:09

NeverEnoughPants · 24/06/2024 11:40

You know their huge profits are just because the businesses are massive? It's a highly competitive market and they work on much lower profit margins than probably any other business - it's the sheer scale of the business that means they make the big profits.

The biggest reason for the recent price increases has been the increase in minimum wage. A supermarket making between 3% & 5% profit can't absorb a 28% wage increase between March 2022 and April 2024 without increasing prices.

I mean, you can't completely compare profit margin to wage increase without factoring in volume of sales and number of staff into the equation. A 28% wage bill doesn't automatically ruin a retail business running a 5% profit margin when their volume of sales is mammoth. Less profitable doesn't mean not profitable. I mean I'm not deluded into thinking big businesses don't need to increase prices to offset costs, it's just part of the bigger problem with how our world is structured where constant growth is needed at the top while quality of life is sacrificed at the bottom.

hastalav · 24/06/2024 12:08

Be great if there was an innovation whereby a section of the restaurant area is separated (mentioned above also) and you phone in your order like Uber eats or Deliveroo. You go next door to the pub for a pre dinner drink, they phone you when your order is ready and you collect it and sit at the (home style take away sit down) restaurant table and unpack it like at home. Yay!

BYO also for a corkage charge. I hope someone steals my brilliant idea LOL. Wink

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Youdontevengohere · 24/06/2024 12:03

I guess this is a benefit of living in the sticks… we have no Deliveroo or Uber Eats out here so I haven’t encountered it in local restaurants! I can see it would be absolutely infuriating though and would probably put me off eating out.

divinededacende · 24/06/2024 12:00

contentlycontent · 24/06/2024 11:02

@divinededacende I agree the cause is multi factorial and many restaurants will be doing this in order to survive.

From my perspective a meal out is a very occasional treat. It is a time when the children have the chance to look at a menu and pick what they would like, we all get to eat something different to each other (like most working parents, we cook one meal for the whole family), the food is brought to us while we get to socialise and give the children attention. I feel the cost of a meal out is really high - since CoL, it would be rare to get a meal less than £50 for 4 of us and that would be without alcohol. I really begrudge paying this much money for a meal where I am trying to placate children instead of chatting to them because they are getting impatient and the waiter still hasn't taken our order. And in the case of yesterday, we can see some of our meal but noone has the time to bring it to us, then when it does come, the children's food is missing which makes them even more upset.

From reading the responses on here, I am far from alone and it seems these restaurants will either have to adapt their model to separate the take away aspect from the main seating or end up switching to take away only as I doubt we are the only ones that will be voting with our feet

I agree, I think the whole hospitality model is going to change a lot in the next few years. In my city there's a definite trend in new places opening that focus on a specific type of food done well that have a small amount of cafe-style seating but they're mostly geared towards takeaway and delivery.

The fact is that the food marker is oversaturated now and it's going to readjust to the new reality soon with less traditional table service venues overall. I've seen hospitality spread like wildfire for most of my adult life and it probably helped compensate for the loss of retail in a lot of neighbourhoods but I dread to think what happens to these spaces as hospitality shrinks - not really the point of your post though so sorry for the tangent!

rainbowunicorn · 24/06/2024 11:45

OnionPond · 24/06/2024 08:42

I haven’t come across this. What type of restaurants are these?

Pretty much all restaurants in large towns and cities have take away now.