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Did anyone enjoy Taylor but felt at 3.5 hours it…. dragged a little?

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Fromthenotorious · 24/06/2024 07:12

I admit that i’m not her biggest fan and it was a bit of a fluke that i got a ticket to go with friends.

I enjoy her music and think she’s amazing but a dedicated Swiftie… I am not!

I just felt that it could have been at least thirty mins shorter and would have been more enjoyable. Even amongst the hardened Swifties around us, I sensed a little restlessness.

Anyone else agree?

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Sendinsanity · 25/06/2024 07:51

I also don't think a lot of posters on this thread realise that for those 30 and below that stevie wonder, Elton John, Bruce Springsteen etc. aren't huge names to that generation and aren't particularly a relevant comparison. The only one I'd have any interest in as a 31 year old is Elton John and even then I wouldn't sit through a full gig, it's different generations.

Sendinsanity · 25/06/2024 07:49

blarneebeekeeper · 25/06/2024 06:20

I went to Liverpool, and wished it was just one song longer, proper gutted she removed Long Live from the set list.

In all honesty, some part were not my fav, speaking as a fan since her second album, but the point of the show was to highlight all her eras, all chapters of her life. Shes been in the industry for a long time now, it had to be that long. Plus she wanted to showcase albums that she hadnt toured previously, which was a lot of music. There were parts i sat down for, parts i danced like i was 12 for, parts i screamed out like a (rather expensive) therapy session. Thats the joy of the show, even if you are not a hardcore dedicated full career fan, you can still enjoy the songs you do love, and the amazing show that she puts on.

Whether you like her or not, her success in undeniable, she has music people can relate to even if you dont. Plus, the atmosphere at her shows is just lovely. I dont understand the hate she gets. I feel the released songs that become mainstream are often her weakest, and if people gave her albums a chance, maybe they would understand the hype more, even if it isnt their tastes or style of music.

But music is all a matter of preference, theres plenty of music genres i dislike listening to, but i can respect the artists and their successes without needing to slate them, i just chose not to listen to them. I feel TS gets more hate and judgement than is justifiable.

I agree with this. Her most commercially successful music is not her best music, it's just the songs that do best within the mainstream. She knows what does well with charts vs her genuinely excellent music.

blarneebeekeeper · 25/06/2024 06:20

I went to Liverpool, and wished it was just one song longer, proper gutted she removed Long Live from the set list.

In all honesty, some part were not my fav, speaking as a fan since her second album, but the point of the show was to highlight all her eras, all chapters of her life. Shes been in the industry for a long time now, it had to be that long. Plus she wanted to showcase albums that she hadnt toured previously, which was a lot of music. There were parts i sat down for, parts i danced like i was 12 for, parts i screamed out like a (rather expensive) therapy session. Thats the joy of the show, even if you are not a hardcore dedicated full career fan, you can still enjoy the songs you do love, and the amazing show that she puts on.

Whether you like her or not, her success in undeniable, she has music people can relate to even if you dont. Plus, the atmosphere at her shows is just lovely. I dont understand the hate she gets. I feel the released songs that become mainstream are often her weakest, and if people gave her albums a chance, maybe they would understand the hype more, even if it isnt their tastes or style of music.

But music is all a matter of preference, theres plenty of music genres i dislike listening to, but i can respect the artists and their successes without needing to slate them, i just chose not to listen to them. I feel TS gets more hate and judgement than is justifiable.

beguilingeyes · 25/06/2024 05:11

PassingStranger · 24/06/2024 20:21

I feel depressed about both of them
You couldn't have picked two worse people to compare.
Adele is a foul mouthed woman, dragging society down even more and as common as muck. No class. Does she swear like that in front of her son/mother. Deffo no role model.
Elton is the big don't you know who I am type. Remember his outburst at an airport.
Very mediocre too. Appaulling to big for his boots attitude as well.

Mediocre, yeah, right. Elton John is one of the greatest musical talents of the rock/pop era. His back catalogue is up there with Stevie Wonder/The Beatles/Paul Simon.
He behaved quite badly during his drug days which are pretty much behind him now and his well known for his generosity and support of new artists. None of that is relevant to his talent though.

hurlyburlygirly · 24/06/2024 22:57

We're going in summer but have had some good training this year with the foo fighters and Bruce Springsteen. All good value for money and great shows. Smile

EC22 · 24/06/2024 22:54

I loved every minute.

dizzydizzydizzy · 24/06/2024 22:54

DD2 said it was the best day of her life and wants to go again.

FuckTheClubUp · 24/06/2024 22:16

Some people are so bitter and jealous of this beautiful young woman who has incredible success and a massive fan base.

😂😂😂

mercilousming · 24/06/2024 22:12

TheTwirlyPoos · 24/06/2024 21:50

I don't think they were talking about the OP, I think they were talking about the stuff that followed.

Fair enough, I think a lot of the posts are blurring into one at this point!

Apologies @FromBackHome, I misunderstood your post.

colachive · 24/06/2024 22:03

Sue152 · 24/06/2024 07:58

OMG don't tell them that they'll want to kill you!

I was listening to the charts in the car recently when TS had just released her latest 500 songs and the were all completely meh to my ear. I do like some of her big songs but this was like she was just spamming the charts. Do less but better would be my advice - I guess some would say the same about the gig.

'Think what you have just witnessed' - it wasn't the second coming for Christ's sake.

I don’t think she needs your advice 🤣

stressedespresso · 24/06/2024 21:58

mercilousming · 24/06/2024 21:48

The OP literally said that, whilst not a Swiftie, they like TS. They went to her gig with mates, enjoyed it, but thought it was a bit too long.

How did you get from that, to the bullshit quoted above? It's terrifying that this is coming from actual adults. The OP did not say a single unkind word about her - just that the gig was too long for her.

They weren’t talking about OP I suspect. There was one poster in particular who spouted obsessive, negative comments for an hour straight.

TheTwirlyPoos · 24/06/2024 21:50

I don't think they were talking about the OP, I think they were talking about the stuff that followed.

mercilousming · 24/06/2024 21:48

FromBackHome · 24/06/2024 09:26

It’s just really weird, isn’t it? I wonder what’s behind their need to post over and over to be unkind, just because she doesn’t meet their taste in music? Or is there more to it?

Are they unhappy in their own lives? Do they have an issue with successful women? Do they just not like seeing others do well? Are they intolerant of others tastes in general? Do they dislike that someone brings others joy?

Because it doesn’t really make sense to post/talk obsessively about someone who just make songs that you just happen to not like.

The OP literally said that, whilst not a Swiftie, they like TS. They went to her gig with mates, enjoyed it, but thought it was a bit too long.

How did you get from that, to the bullshit quoted above? It's terrifying that this is coming from actual adults. The OP did not say a single unkind word about her - just that the gig was too long for her.

Putting · 24/06/2024 21:42

TTPD is on before the surprise songs, with Midnights ending the show unless it changes again

TheTwirlyPoos · 24/06/2024 21:36

Midnights is my least favourite but I loved TTPD so I will stay for that

HandsDown84 · 24/06/2024 21:31

Putting · 24/06/2024 21:19

I agree with OP - I like Taylor Swift, went to see the concert because I like her music, but it did feel slightly too long (and I actually left a couple of songs before the end, as a lot of people were doing)

For me it was probably to do with the eras I like least being at the end of the show. I’d probably not have found it too long if most of TTPD (and, arguably, some of Midnights) had been replaced by songs from her earlier albums!

Edited

We left in the middle of Mastermind because I don't really like Midnights that much! Got a seat on the train which was lovely. There were at least 3 songs cut which meant I'd have preferred to see the pre-TTPD setlist.

Putting · 24/06/2024 21:30

@TheTwirlyPoos Still some songs from Red! Not sure there’s much, if anything, from Speak Now and Folklore/Evermore has been combined into one era.

TheTwirlyPoos · 24/06/2024 21:24

@putting totally agree - I haven't seen an updated set list but I think I saw Red had been cut or wasn't on in the first place - DH will be gutted!!

Putting · 24/06/2024 21:19

I agree with OP - I like Taylor Swift, went to see the concert because I like her music, but it did feel slightly too long (and I actually left a couple of songs before the end, as a lot of people were doing)

For me it was probably to do with the eras I like least being at the end of the show. I’d probably not have found it too long if most of TTPD (and, arguably, some of Midnights) had been replaced by songs from her earlier albums!

beeloubee · 24/06/2024 21:00

I wouldn't even want to watch ten mins let alone 3.5 hrs wow

TheTwirlyPoos · 24/06/2024 20:53

I thought the comment earlier about entertainment not equalling value was really interesting.

For me tho, as for many many others, she isn't 'generic pop'. I find her lyrics evocative, clever, layered, thought provoking. I respect her talents as a musician, I'm not saying she's a concert pianist but her ability to play a number of instruments as well as write her own songs is a skill in itself.

'genius' isn't actually a thing. Unless you are going by Mensa standards. So then it's down to personal reception.

I'm a huge fan of her music, I have been for eighteen years. It gets a bit wearing with the insinuation that it you like Taylor you must be stupid. Which is what is done time and time again.

SerafinasGoose · 24/06/2024 20:49

Ironfloor269 · 24/06/2024 13:58

I think TS’ talent is creating such a phenomenal hype out of her very mediocre talent and convincing people to pay a fortune for it. Not her singing or performance.

I think the same is true of Madonna. She was a pretty good dancer, didn't have a bad voice, and could throw together an entertaining pop video when those used to be a thing. But a stand-out in any of these capacities? Not really, no.

Something about her just tapped into the mood of the times, particularly given that up until then, women weren't expected to be sexual, independent beings who took their pleasure where they chose to find it. She was a very business savvy, smart, sassy and sexual woman who lived as she liked and worked as she chose. In those times I don't think the world had ever really seen her like before.

Her constant image-changes rescued her for some years from serving up the same old rehashed look and music (in fact, behind the veneer this was precisely what she did do). Back in her more punky looking days - way before the Gaultier corsets - nearly every teenage girl wanted to look like her.

She was a superlative show-woman who packed out her venues and really knew how to put on a show. She was also fearless, bright, and had a real head for marketing. She's the very definition of the triumph of image over substance, and whilst her music might not be to my taste I do think she's one admirable woman and I willingly respect her guts, originality and determination. What a trail-blazer.

PassingStranger · 24/06/2024 20:49

stressedespresso · 24/06/2024 20:40

Why not? Between adults who really cares? It’s not her responsibility to pander to those of an easily offended and overly sensitive disposition.

Nothing to do with being sensitive it's not nice on the ear and it's not necessary, why does she need to do it?
Trying to show off and falling massively.
I reiterate money dosent buy class. My opinion.

stressedespresso · 24/06/2024 20:40

PassingStranger · 24/06/2024 20:34

What's nice about swearing for the sake of it. Why do you need too?

Does she swear like that in front of her child?
She appeared at the Albert Hall one of the nicest venues and classiest venues in the country and she had to be foulmouthed.
The saying money dosent buy class is definitely true.
Nothing to do with living a sheltered life.

Why not? Between adults who really cares? It’s not her responsibility to pander to those of an easily offended and overly sensitive disposition.

User1974 · 24/06/2024 20:34

I once saw Prince play a 3 hour set and then a 4 hour after show party. Stamina is required to be a good star and also a worthy fan 😂