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Did anyone enjoy Taylor but felt at 3.5 hours it…. dragged a little?

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Fromthenotorious · 24/06/2024 07:12

I admit that i’m not her biggest fan and it was a bit of a fluke that i got a ticket to go with friends.

I enjoy her music and think she’s amazing but a dedicated Swiftie… I am not!

I just felt that it could have been at least thirty mins shorter and would have been more enjoyable. Even amongst the hardened Swifties around us, I sensed a little restlessness.

Anyone else agree?

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Terea · 24/06/2024 08:37

@Mitsky we also saw Foos and DG was his usual extraordinarily energetic self (not sure TS could do what he did)

CurtainsOfSparta · 24/06/2024 08:37

FromBackHome · 24/06/2024 08:34

I don’t think most fans would care if you said ‘I’m not into her music’. But it rarely stops there.

Also, it’s strange that so many people start threads because they ‘just don’t get her’.

Personally, if there was any thread about Beyoncé, Adele, Harry Styles or Bruce Springsteen, whether positive or negative, I wouldn’t comment. I’m not into those people, so why would I feel the need to write anything. So many people go on Taylor threads just to tell us how rubbish she is. 🤪

I don’t think she’s rubbish, lots of people have said she’s a good gig and that’s great. It’s just not my thing. But I have said that in public and received unbelievable backlash. So I’m not criticising her at all, but her crazy fans?! I’ll criticise them all day long. Their behaviour is ridiculous and often downright abusive. Same as 1D and Bieber fans back in the day, giving out death threats or trying to shut anyone else down for their opinion - in this case that they felt the gig was a little too long - is never okay.

SerafinasGoose · 24/06/2024 08:37

All I can think of when I see media images of Taylor Swift's stage costumes is Adelaid Adams from Calamity Jane.

Says Doris Day: 'Why, she ain't got nuthin' on but her underwear!'

I must be getting old ...

Did anyone enjoy Taylor but felt at 3.5 hours it…. dragged a little?
CracklingLogsGalore · 24/06/2024 08:37

There’s an awful lot of posts by people who “somehow managed to get tickets but I’m not really a fan”. Beginning to think there’s some folk at play that are trying to downplay TS’s fame. And I say that as someone who isn’t a fan and didn’t get tickets.

randoname · 24/06/2024 08:36

TheTartfulLodger · 24/06/2024 07:54

Yep, inspiring a whole generation of girls to parade about in ridiculous outfits getting laughed at...

Which says everything about the laughers and nothing about the girls. I was there last night. Everyone in home made and customised outfits, 3+ hours of pure joy and such high energy. The stewards were dancing, free water flowing and being passed along the crowds. Amazing atmosphere sustained on the walk back to the tube and on the trains with Wembley staff swapping bracelets and saying what a great crowd and looking forward to the August dates.

Negangirlxx · 24/06/2024 08:36

Yeah, I wouldn’t be able to do 3/3.5 hours.

1.5-2 hours is plenty long enough for a gig, especially when they go on until 10:30/11pm and then you have to factor in time for travelling home afterwards.

WhatsUpNowThen · 24/06/2024 08:35

Bruce Springsteen does equally long concerts

Nobody can beat the late Ken Dodd for staying power.

Alwaysthesun24 · 24/06/2024 08:35

FromBackHome · 24/06/2024 08:34

I don’t think most fans would care if you said ‘I’m not into her music’. But it rarely stops there.

Also, it’s strange that so many people start threads because they ‘just don’t get her’.

Personally, if there was any thread about Beyoncé, Adele, Harry Styles or Bruce Springsteen, whether positive or negative, I wouldn’t comment. I’m not into those people, so why would I feel the need to write anything. So many people go on Taylor threads just to tell us how rubbish she is. 🤪

It's called expressing an opinion.

CurtainsOfSparta · 24/06/2024 08:34

SerafinasGoose · 24/06/2024 08:34

You'd think Stevie Nicks and Madonna never happened.

Now Nicks, I would pay to see. 76 years old and she still has it!

I wanted to see FM on their last tour but no way could I afford the ticket prices!!! Converts are so expensive these days!

BeingATwatItsABingThing · 24/06/2024 08:34

stressedespresso · 24/06/2024 08:30

Your DD may need to grow up a bit for the sake of her own DD. A so called parent that can’t even allow her poor child a bit of harmless enjoyment?

Yes, I agree with this.

FromBackHome · 24/06/2024 08:34

CurtainsOfSparta · 24/06/2024 08:28

Nope, not the same thing. People don’t defend her, they go wild. The two current Taylor Swift related threads on trending are perfect examples of that. Two people have posted threads not saying they didn’t like her music but that they thought the gif was a bit long or that the tickets weee difficult and the responses have been utterly out of context from fans. It’s insane. You’re not allowed to say ‘Oh she’s not for me’ which is the extent of my feeling on it without being told you’re wrong or you’re ‘attacking Taylor Swift’ or you’re a misogynist. It’s extreme.

I don’t think most fans would care if you said ‘I’m not into her music’. But it rarely stops there.

Also, it’s strange that so many people start threads because they ‘just don’t get her’.

Personally, if there was any thread about Beyoncé, Adele, Harry Styles or Bruce Springsteen, whether positive or negative, I wouldn’t comment. I’m not into those people, so why would I feel the need to write anything. So many people go on Taylor threads just to tell us how rubbish she is. 🤪

SerafinasGoose · 24/06/2024 08:34

Ndd135632 · 24/06/2024 07:44

@Alwaysthesun24 I love to see women thriving and inspiring and holding it together. She is a resilient successful woman who is inspiring a whole generation of girls. That’s what she stands for. Can’t you see that ? I don’t even like her music but I see that.

You'd think Stevie Nicks and Madonna never happened.

Now Nicks, I would pay to see. 76 years old and she still has it!

Nightyellowflower · 24/06/2024 08:34

I guess if you are truly fan, 3 hours will go very quickly and you always wish the concert was longer, you always want more, you said you are not, so I understand how you feel, I have attended concerts with my husband where the band was not my favourite and I was bored after an hour

CurtainsOfSparta · 24/06/2024 08:32

If you’re so offended @FromBackHome , maybe this isn’t the thread for you and you shouldn’t read it?

Iaskedyouthrice · 24/06/2024 08:32

stressedespresso · 24/06/2024 08:22

This adult human couldn’t really give a shit about TS - projecting much @Iaskedyouthrice? I am however very sympathetic to the 1000s of parents and young girls being scammed out of ££££ as they are so desperate to get tickets. If you don’t want to see her then just don’t go, leave it to someone who actually wants to be there.

Yeah, this response was even healthier. Some people got tickets and some didn't. I know a huge group that managed to go who werent bothered either way, they just like going to gigs. The lass can't tour forever, bet she's knackered.

minipie · 24/06/2024 08:31

FromBackHome · 24/06/2024 08:29

The thing is OP, you know she gets a lot of negativity here by people that just love to hate. It seems very odd that you would start a thread that would inevitably attract those sorts of people if you actually like her. So I’m calling bullshit.

So people can’t start a thread expressing a moderate view in case it attracts more extreme views? Come on.

BeingATwatItsABingThing · 24/06/2024 08:31

FunIsland · 24/06/2024 08:26

I’m not a fan but found out at the weekend that my granddaughter is, so we spent the weekend singing and dancing to Taylor Swift. (For context her mum likes metal / rock so would never willingly admit that her daughter likes TS as it’s not cool 🤣). We had such a lovely time while maungy DD sat with a cats bum face 🤣

Even if I’d known in time that she was we wouldn’t have been able to get tickets, I’ve been looking for tribute acts to take her to. I reckon she’d love it. Has anyone seen any good ones?

Not seen yet but I’ve got tickets for Taylormania which gets good reviews.

CurtainsOfSparta · 24/06/2024 08:30

FromBackHome · 24/06/2024 08:29

The thing is OP, you know she gets a lot of negativity here by people that just love to hate. It seems very odd that you would start a thread that would inevitably attract those sorts of people if you actually like her. So I’m calling bullshit.

🙄

Of course, someone can’t start a thread saying they had a great time but it was a bit long for them as it’s longer than a standard concert without it being goady and ‘bullshit’ - this is exactly what we’re talking about. You can’t have a single criticism without it being a deliberate attack or trolling.

You fans need help.

Fromthenotorious · 24/06/2024 08:30

FromBackHome · 24/06/2024 08:29

The thing is OP, you know she gets a lot of negativity here by people that just love to hate. It seems very odd that you would start a thread that would inevitably attract those sorts of people if you actually like her. So I’m calling bullshit.

because i wanted to know whether anyone thought the same? it was superb and fun but i just felt it could have been cut by thirty mins and been even better

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Alwaysthesun24 · 24/06/2024 08:30

FromBackHome · 24/06/2024 08:29

The thing is OP, you know she gets a lot of negativity here by people that just love to hate. It seems very odd that you would start a thread that would inevitably attract those sorts of people if you actually like her. So I’m calling bullshit.

It's attracted a lot of overinvested fans too though.....

stressedespresso · 24/06/2024 08:30

FunIsland · 24/06/2024 08:26

I’m not a fan but found out at the weekend that my granddaughter is, so we spent the weekend singing and dancing to Taylor Swift. (For context her mum likes metal / rock so would never willingly admit that her daughter likes TS as it’s not cool 🤣). We had such a lovely time while maungy DD sat with a cats bum face 🤣

Even if I’d known in time that she was we wouldn’t have been able to get tickets, I’ve been looking for tribute acts to take her to. I reckon she’d love it. Has anyone seen any good ones?

Your DD may need to grow up a bit for the sake of her own DD. A so called parent that can’t even allow her poor child a bit of harmless enjoyment?

FromBackHome · 24/06/2024 08:29

Fromthenotorious · 24/06/2024 08:26

is this aimed at me?

someone who enjoy taylor’s music, think she’s great but just became a bit restless towards a more than 3 hour set?

The thing is OP, you know she gets a lot of negativity here by people that just love to hate. It seems very odd that you would start a thread that would inevitably attract those sorts of people if you actually like her. So I’m calling bullshit.

GingerPirate · 24/06/2024 08:29

Hmmm.... Taylor.
A good performer, perhaps.
The music doesn't do anything for me and
I wouldn't attend such a concert if it was me getting paid.
😁

CurtainsOfSparta · 24/06/2024 08:28

FromBackHome · 24/06/2024 08:23

I think it’s the fact that if people aren’t a fan of her music, they seem to have to tell you and then they often start saying more and more and it ends up in an attack. Why is that? Obviously then, some fans will defend her because it feels very nasty.

I’m not into lots of people’s music, but I don’t feel the need to tell everyone, ask how others can possibly like them, and attack everything the artist does, including attacking their fans.

Nope, not the same thing. People don’t defend her, they go wild. The two current Taylor Swift related threads on trending are perfect examples of that. Two people have posted threads not saying they didn’t like her music but that they thought the gif was a bit long or that the tickets weee difficult and the responses have been utterly out of context from fans. It’s insane. You’re not allowed to say ‘Oh she’s not for me’ which is the extent of my feeling on it without being told you’re wrong or you’re ‘attacking Taylor Swift’ or you’re a misogynist. It’s extreme.

Alwaysthesun24 · 24/06/2024 08:28

TheTwirlyPoos · 24/06/2024 08:25

It's just become so tired. I see no other threads on here constantly questioning another artist like they do Taylor, and then roll in tne 'oh I vent listen to three minutes!' it's just so dull.

Perhaps because there's so much hype about her, her concerts, concert tickets, her outfits, how she's such a role model etc etc.

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