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Did anyone enjoy Taylor but felt at 3.5 hours it…. dragged a little?

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Fromthenotorious · 24/06/2024 07:12

I admit that i’m not her biggest fan and it was a bit of a fluke that i got a ticket to go with friends.

I enjoy her music and think she’s amazing but a dedicated Swiftie… I am not!

I just felt that it could have been at least thirty mins shorter and would have been more enjoyable. Even amongst the hardened Swifties around us, I sensed a little restlessness.

Anyone else agree?

OP posts:
Alwaysthesun24 · 24/06/2024 09:06

biscuiteer · 24/06/2024 09:02

What cult?

The ones who are obsessed and shut down anything that is not TS adoration, even from actual fans. They, and they alone, decide who real fans or who is actually deserving of concert tickets.

Devonbabs · 24/06/2024 09:04

Sendinsanity · 24/06/2024 07:19

We were there last night. Couldn't see anyone flagging and there was enough energy to make Wembley shake with the surprise songs. Only Taylor Swift can pull off a 3 hour show like that.

Lots of artists with significantly more talent have historically done as long or longer sets.

I don’t get all this Taylor Swift stuff, just another disposable pop star who is only as good as her marketing department

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 24/06/2024 09:04

I don’t really see the hype myself.

But then I think of when I was a teenager and how much I wanted to go to see Oasis at Knebworth that I did anything to make it happen.

So I guess it’s just the same for those who really like TS.

Not that was a long day!

Alwaysthesun24 · 24/06/2024 09:03

biscuiteer · 24/06/2024 09:01

Nope, I’m not a fan of TS or a cult fan or want to ban anything, so fucj that response. Everyone who wants to go to her concerts does deserve equally to go yes.
I answered op with my opinion on their post. I don’t see the point of the post when everyone knows these tickets were in huge demand. What’s the point? It’s like a conversation you might have at the hairdressers.

Most of MN, especially AIBU, is a bit like hairdresser chat though?
(Nothing against hairdressers, they are mostly wonderful people).

biscuiteer · 24/06/2024 09:02

What cult?

Alwaysthesun24 · 24/06/2024 09:01

Everygrain · 24/06/2024 09:00

I got the impression from OP that she enjoyed it but just thought it was a little long and the thread was about discussing the concert length.

@Fromthenotorious dared to be even slightly critical and the cult swoops in....🤣🤣🤣

biscuiteer · 24/06/2024 09:01

Alwaysthesun24 · 24/06/2024 08:53

Nobody deserves a ticket more than anyone else.

OP got a ticket.
OP went to concert.
OP enjoyed concert but had one criticism.
OP gets abuse from 'real' fans and told folk 'more deserving'.

Cult fans want to ban any opinions other than TS worship, no normal fans or non fans allowed an opinion.

Nope, I’m not a fan of TS or a cult fan or want to ban anything, so fucj that response. Everyone who wants to go to her concerts does deserve equally to go yes.
I answered op with my opinion on their post. I don’t see the point of the post when everyone knows these tickets were in huge demand. What’s the point? It’s like a conversation you might have at the hairdressers.

FromBackHome · 24/06/2024 09:01

CurtainsOfSparta · 24/06/2024 08:55

Someone at work was talking about her and asked what my favourite album was and I said I’m not a fan and they proceeded to say things that weren’t nasty, but weren’t acceptable. I have also seen an insane amount of online stuff which is beyond disgusting.

But no, I don’t wander around starting conversations about Taylor Swift just to upset people. I don’t dislike her. Her music isn’t for me, that’s the depth of it. I do take I bridge with her fans. Same as 1D and Bieber fans back in the day. And Selena fans attacking Hayley Bieber and such - none of it is acceptable. Ever. It’s not okay to be unpleasant to another human purely because you have different musical tastes.

And quite frankly, it’s a good thing as if there were even more things then people would have even less chance of getting tickets.

If that’s true, then your work colleague is weird. I know lots of big fans of Taylor, they don’t care if others don’t like her, as long as they’re not being nasty. Most people understand people have different tastes.

Then again, look at the weirdos on mumsnet. They can’t even ‘understaaaaand’ that not everyone like the same weather as them. There’s insults that have to be deleted if anyone dares say they like cooler weather.

It’s not the majority.

ExitChasedByCars · 24/06/2024 09:01

Swifties do not like any criticism of Taylor Swift, no matter how mild. They’ll somehow manage to twist it.

Having said that, credit where it’s due, it wasn’t Taylor, the billionaire, who helped the fan’s family reunite with their daughter who had sadly passed away due to hear exhaustion at a concert, it was the Swifties. It was only after Swift received criticism, she sent a donation days after. But as soon as she did that, the majority of the web results about criticism from the fan’s family was instead filled with how magnanimous she was inviting the deceased fan’s family to a concert and her “private” donation.

MrsElijahMikaelson1 · 24/06/2024 09:01

WhatsUpNowThen · 24/06/2024 08:27

Stop gloating on here and think of what you've just witnessed

😂

Must be the second coming 💀

stressedespresso · 24/06/2024 09:00

Alwaysthesun24 · 24/06/2024 08:58

The irony of you thinking that was a valid contribution.
Moving on.

Very dedicated to posting about her for someone that claims to hate her so much… Doth protest too much me thinks

SanctusInDistress · 24/06/2024 09:00

I do agree with the posters that in a sea of hypersexed vulgar erotic acts she’s at least not swearing and covers up (of sorts). But there are so many other artists doing the same who don’t get this type of cult following. It’s a whipped up frenzy at the moment.

Everygrain · 24/06/2024 09:00

I got the impression from OP that she enjoyed it but just thought it was a little long and the thread was about discussing the concert length.

OnAndOnAndonAgain · 24/06/2024 09:00

It's all the bloody hype , people have been going on about trying to get tickets for the last year . It all seems like a bit of a drawn out process to me , buy an album, get access to tickets, register somewhere and you might be lucky enough to get a code at some point in the next year

Hadjab · 24/06/2024 08:59

KitKatChunki · 24/06/2024 07:33

Goodness - you get tickets to the gig of the year then slag it off?
Stop gloating on here and think of what you've just witnessed. So many people were desperate to see her and have your experience and you sound thoroughly ungrateful.

It's Taylor Swift, not the second coming of Christ!

KitKatChunki · 24/06/2024 08:59

Alwaysthesun24 · 24/06/2024 08:55

@Fromthenotorious doesn't hate her though, she simply passed comment on the length of the show.

Well it's all keeping her name current I guess!
Knock yourselves out guys!

Alwaysthesun24 · 24/06/2024 08:58

stressedespresso · 24/06/2024 08:57

@Alwaysthesun24 The irony of someone claiming not to care about TS posting about her for half an hour straight🤣 Do you really have nothing better to be getting on with?

The irony of you thinking that was a valid contribution.
Moving on.

Alwaysthesun24 · 24/06/2024 08:58

FromBackHome · 24/06/2024 08:54

And yet they do. Look at all the threads on here along the lines of ‘I don’t get her’. thst get filled up with posters telling us she’s rubbish. There’s often multiple threads a week. It’s bizarre.

The cult following is the most bizarre of all.
Normal fans - fine.
Normal non fans - fine.

stressedespresso · 24/06/2024 08:57

@Alwaysthesun24 The irony of someone claiming not to care about TS posting about her for half an hour straight🤣 Do you really have nothing better to be getting on with?

Alwaysthesun24 · 24/06/2024 08:55

KitKatChunki · 24/06/2024 08:54

Because the people who hate her are so obsessed they can't stop creating threads about her?
Like this one?

@Fromthenotorious doesn't hate her though, she simply passed comment on the length of the show.

Quartz2208 · 24/06/2024 08:55

I am not a big Taylor fan, don’t mind her but not a massive concert goer but was the designated adult for 3 teenagers 2 who loved her one who was just along for the ride and it went much quicker than I thought , it was very well done and managed to stand fir a lot of it. Really liked Wembley as well and the free water etcand had a good time. Thought they managed the leaving well as well and got the last train home

CurtainsOfSparta · 24/06/2024 08:55

FromBackHome · 24/06/2024 08:48

So someone was telling you how much they loved Taylor. You said you’re not really into her. Then you got lots of backlash??? Who were they? Family, friends, work colleagues? I call bullshit if it happened that way, or you hang out with some odd people. I don’t know anyone that would do that.

Or did you deliberately start a conversation to tell someone who liked her, that you didn’t like her. Because that’s a weird thing to do.

Someone at work was talking about her and asked what my favourite album was and I said I’m not a fan and they proceeded to say things that weren’t nasty, but weren’t acceptable. I have also seen an insane amount of online stuff which is beyond disgusting.

But no, I don’t wander around starting conversations about Taylor Swift just to upset people. I don’t dislike her. Her music isn’t for me, that’s the depth of it. I do take I bridge with her fans. Same as 1D and Bieber fans back in the day. And Selena fans attacking Hayley Bieber and such - none of it is acceptable. Ever. It’s not okay to be unpleasant to another human purely because you have different musical tastes.

And quite frankly, it’s a good thing as if there were even more things then people would have even less chance of getting tickets.

SanctusInDistress · 24/06/2024 08:55

Ndd135632 · 24/06/2024 07:44

@Alwaysthesun24 I love to see women thriving and inspiring and holding it together. She is a resilient successful woman who is inspiring a whole generation of girls. That’s what she stands for. Can’t you see that ? I don’t even like her music but I see that.

Inspiring girls to do what exactly? Pine after teenage crushes? As that what she seems to be all she is about. Isn’t the rivalry with katy Perry because they are both competing for the same tranche of teenagers?

Alwaysthesun24 · 24/06/2024 08:55

Funkyslippers · 24/06/2024 08:53

A patronising expression, yes

As for the costume changes, maybe she changes so her & her dancers are wearing a similar theme for a particular section of the show? Maybe the costume is in line with the particular 'era'? It's an awful lot more than just listening to her songs, you could compare it to a West End musical where the costumes are all part of the show

'Eh?' is an expression. If you project more into it then so be it.
Also, TS is nothing like a West End show. 🤣🤣😬🤣

KitKatChunki · 24/06/2024 08:54

Alwaysthesun24 · 24/06/2024 08:42

Where actually are the threads about other artists though?
MN is TS thread a-plenty.
😬😬😬

Because the people who hate her are so obsessed they can't stop creating threads about her?
Like this one?

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