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Is this a red flag on a first date?

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Iknowaguywhostoughbutsweet · 24/06/2024 06:51

Went on a date with an old classmate from literally 17 years ago.
He asked me who I'm still in touch with, and I said I'm still good friends with Sarah.
He said "Oh yeah Sarah's really pretty."

He then started talking about another woman called Harriet who is now one of those Instagram models and saying how she is really pretty but that she's so fake online and uses tons of filters.

Like I'm not jealous I don't care that someone thinks other women are attractive it's normal, but spending your first date rating other women we know 🤔

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Iknowaguywhostoughbutsweet · 24/06/2024 06:56

Funnily this guy called me ugly at school 🤣 but we were only 14 so I decided to let it go.

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AGodawfulsmallaffair · 24/06/2024 06:53

He’s a bore, far too invested in checking out women on IG by the sounds of it, yuck.