Just found out I’m pregnant I must be over 30 weeks I am scared!

I'm glad that you are getting seen. Good luck 🤞 x

Yes,and?
I am addressing the multiple inappropriate posts recommending ED. Only go ED in an actual emergency .

Good luck OP

Op has already said she's on her way to the antenatal assessment unit once her sister gets to her.

NO. don’t go ED it’s not an emergency. ED is full and over capacity
See your GP and chase up urgent maternity referral

It is possible, my second pregnancy, many years ago, I fainted and was asked by medical staff if I could be pregnant.
I had regular periods and maybe looked like I had a large lunch .. that's it ! Didn't go up a size in clothes nor felt ill . I was 30wks !
But of a shock to say the least !

Glad you are been seen today ..

I had hyeremisis so actually lost weight when i was pregnant baby is 6ft now

My dd found out about her 2nd dc at 28 weeks, she had split up with her partner and only took a pregnancy test after she passed out at her friend's birthday meal. Once she realised she was pregnant her belly popped out, until then she thought her slight weight gain was due to stress eating pizza etc.
She too drank throughout her pregnancy - never to excess but definitely at least 3 units per week and occasionally definitely more. Her dc was born at 42 weeks plus and was, and is, perfectly healthy - no signs of foetal alcohol syndrome - as suggested by a pp. My dd worried about this but was reassured by her midwife pre-birth.
Yes she was too late for the Down's syndrome test (as raised by the same pp) but she didn't have it with her1st or 3rd child either(both of whom she knew about virtually as soon as she got pregnant and with whom she had the usual ante natal care) because she was keeping her babies regardless!
I'm glad you are being seen today OP and that you have family support - good luck.

Hope it all goes well @Goldflamingo

I'm a 10/12 and didn't get a bump until 34 weeks, my colleagues kept asking if I was sure I was really pregnant, and I had to have all sorts of scans because bump was measuring so small. I was still in my regular clothes.Even at 39 weeks when baby came, I just looked like I'd eaten a few too many cakes and had to leave the button on my normal jeans undone.

Baby was born bang on the 50th centile for weight and length, albeit very scrunched up for the first few weeks as I guess they'd not been used to having room to manoeuvre. Interestingly he quickly shot up to 90th centile for height, and has stayed there ever since.

I hope it goes as well as it can OP X

Sending hugs op, deffo just potter down to the unit and explain, they will take care of you, scan, ctg etc and make a plan. Maybe take yourself an overnight bag just in case, from a mum of two premmies

Sending you all the love and best wishes in the world. I am glad your sister can come to be with you and that your BIL will look after your daughter.

Breathe, take each moment as it comes and let it go, when it is gone. Whatever helps to allow you stay calm, whatever comes - try that.. without practicing, it might be too difficult to listen to someone else guiding a relaxation, if you don't already do something like that.. but something simple like this:
youtube calm guided breathing... might help.. if it wouldn't - don't stress by trying - maybe watch something distracting on Netflix.

Don't worry what others might think, including the midwives - in the highly unlikely event that you come across someone who is awkward - get your sister to interrupt and say - 'I don't think that is helpful at this moment - I think my sister would like to know if she or the baby is in any immediate risk... everything else can be dealt with once we know that'

Deep pelvic area?
Position of baby?
Baby may be on the smaller side?
It's really not as unusual as you may think.

As I said my 8lb 2 oz DD2 I put on 3lbs in total and I was 9.5 stone when she was born and no real bump. So not obese ( I'm 5ft 6) and could wear my jeans extended by a hairband at the waist.

Some of the advice on here is ridiculous, and downright dangerous.

Calling the assessment unit was the right idea, OP.

Hope all goes ok.

@Exactlab what a nasty post. You should be ashamed of yourself.

PPS my extremely slim friend when 30 weeks pregnant still looked slim - no bump at all. It was insane! But baby was all good.

My thoughts too. Unless OP is obese?

Good luck, and try not to worry. It seems unbelievable to you but the medical staff see unbelievable things on a regular basis so they won't judge you, fingers crossed. Here's hoping for either a big misunderstanding for some innocuous reason (though seems unlikely!) or a happy, healthy baby.

My mind is boggling at how any woman can not have a massive belly in her third trimester.

I was showing in my first trimester 🙄
Not saying I don’t believe OP I just cannot fathom it.
How is it physically possible to fit a baby in there and not have a bump?

In my experience a walk in centre can arrange things with the hospital directly.

Thinking of you OP…don’t feel bad… being unaware late pregnancy is surprisingly common.
I am glad that you have support in person and a plan.
Very best wishes.💐

What a huge shock! I hope everything goes well for you.

Ok, I did ask where OP had mentioned alcohol.
It's still quite a leap from 'a bottle of wine/few units' over a weekend to the OPs an alcoholic so baby will be too!!