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Not sure what to make of this behaviour at a concert?

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Skeletonsandsidewalks · 23/06/2024 07:16

From the guy I'm dating. He was maybe slightly tipsy, not drunk as he'd only had 2 pints.
Anyway we were at a gig, I had to leave slightly earlier as I had work the next morning and didn't want to be too tired.
He wanted me to stay which is sweet, but he physically wouldn't let me go. It was a seated gig and I had to wrestle him off of me.
It went on for about several minutes, he thought it was funny but he would not let go of me and he's stronger than me. The woman sitting next to him was eyeballing us for a good while and I said to him, "Stop, people are looking."
I got free and he said to this woman "Oh she has work tomorrow."
Just looking back, not sure if it was just playful or not?

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ImCamembertTheBigCheese · 23/06/2024 07:18

Massive red flag. I'd be ending the relationship. Physically trying to force me not to leave? That's not on.

DustyLee123 · 23/06/2024 07:17

He sounds like a wanker.

trippily · 23/06/2024 07:17

I would hate that