On a dating app. I know it probably sounds like I am being really picky, I'm just so done with men ATM and can't trust them.
Anyway I've been talking to a guy and he asked what languages I speak. I said English and then that I'd studied X language at uni and taught myself some of Y language too.
He's replied 'Wow, look at you teaching yourself a language, how proactive of you, well done!"
Like I'm sure it's well-intentioned but it just feels slightly patronising and a bit like, oh look a little woman teaching herself something and using her brain, wow isn't that impressive.
Not sure I'm overthinking it?