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Caught Cleaner clipping her Nails in our Bathroom..

269 replies

Naliny · 21/06/2024 13:42

…with my nail clipper.

AIBU to fire her over this?

(Also - have never done an AIBU before and can’t figure out how to do the poll).

OP posts:
pollymere · 23/06/2024 10:32

I remember the first time I used DHs razor ... He freaked out about germs and blood and s variety of other things. Then he remembered he probably did other things where he came into contact with those anyway 😂

Seriously though. He had a point. Sharing clippers isn't safe or hygienic. If you go to a salon they're disinfected and sterilised between clients due to the risk of infection.

Your cleaner shouldn't be using your nail clippers especially when she should have been working. It's probably worth a chat rather than sacking her though.

Ethylred · 23/06/2024 10:28

She's not some kind of subhuman. OP, you're better than this.

Jayne35 · 23/06/2024 10:23

If she definitely was clipping nails I would be a bit annoyed as you go to work to work and this is just odd. I wouldn’t do personal things like that in my office.

jillb55 · 22/06/2024 23:06

Caravaggiouch · 21/06/2024 14:01

WTF? I’m amazed at these responses, I couldn’t care about this. It’s a nail clipper, she’s not wiping her arse with your toothbrush.

Absolutely. Sounds really petty to me.

MoonWoman69 · 22/06/2024 22:27

I think the OP was, in fact, actually fishing to see if this brazen infraction can be used as a reason for the cleaners dismissal, given the update about her plan to get rid of her anyway! Don't you just love a drip feed?!
I'm actually surprised that OP didn't don two pairs of Marigolds and root through the bins, to locate the offending clippings, then stick them to a piece of card to present to the cleaner, along with her P45! But she's still ok as an emergency babysitter though eh?!
Some people... 🙄

sunshinestar1986 · 22/06/2024 21:05

Funniest comments
Of all the things you fire someone for haha
Really not that deep

CRD67 · 22/06/2024 20:59

Gift her some so she knows you know and she gets the message not to use yours :-)

DaffydownClock · 22/06/2024 20:00

Caravaggiouch · 21/06/2024 14:38

Personal items? They’re nail clippers, it’s not a vibrator. To me this is akin to her using my scissors to cut off a tag or a scratchy label. So much of a non issue I can’t believe I’m even responding to this thread.

My thoughts too!

NotAJammyDodger · 22/06/2024 20:00

Gross. this is someone you employ.
I will just sit in my workplace washroom and do the same.
Words fail me

Clauz · 22/06/2024 19:45

I couldn't cope with this! If she had asked or had been open about it and not tried to hide it so you could have said something that would have been different but tbh I'd be grossed out if a family member decided to save clipping their nails for a visit to my home.. and didn't say anything... let alone someone who should have boundaries in your personal space.

Will you continue to have any sort of relationship with her even if she doesn't clean for you anymore? If so I'd be tempted to let her go and just say you're going to try keep on top of it yourself or something so you don't have to bring it up. That way no hard feelings and it's not like she was sacked. It sounds like you have genuine affection for her but you would just be saying you don't require cleaning services.

LalaPaloosa · 22/06/2024 19:41

I had an agency send a cleaner who brazenly took a shower in my en-suite bathroom and was doing her make up in my mirror when I arrived home. She just continued as I stood there. I didn’t know what to say. I should I told her to get out. She left once she had finished and I called the agency and said I wouldn’t have her back for that reason. Nowadays I would be more assertive. I was young then.

exaltedwombat · 22/06/2024 18:50

Sorry, you've lost me here. Are nail clippers considered a particularly intimate item? Any nail clippers in my bathroom are simple 'the nail clippers', for general use.

Ilovecleaning · 22/06/2024 18:48

Hb7x3 · 21/06/2024 13:47

I wouldn't have her back personally. If she's happy doing that she could be doing other things too

Exactly what I was going to say.

TellMeWhoTheVillainsAre · 22/06/2024 18:41

ClipperGate · 22/06/2024 14:28

Fungal infections are the most likely risk, but also warts etc. Let's face it, a lot of people don't wash their hands well enough and harbour dirt and germs under nails, and children often bite their nails! In our own house we are actually relaxed and DH and I share nail clippers ourselves (on the grounds we share other bodily fluids Grin) but in a professional setting it's inappropriate, especially when it's an actual cleaning job!

Cleaners are the very people who should know this. DH would never do it and would expect to be sacked if he did. Whatever people think about the invasion of privacy/cleaners using clients personal items, it just shows a total disregard for the basics of the job - cleanliness. (He is a very good cleaner and in high demand with agencies if he wants extra hours Smile)

<Delete> just realized I wasn't replying to OP!

sidebirds · 22/06/2024 18:18

Caravaggiouch · 21/06/2024 14:01

WTF? I’m amazed at these responses, I couldn’t care about this. It’s a nail clipper, she’s not wiping her arse with your toothbrush.

😂🎯🎯🎯

Growlybear83 · 22/06/2024 17:50

All the nail clippers I've ever come across have been made from metal. If people are so paranoid about the very unlikely possibility of the cleaner passing on an infection from her very clean hands, surely you can just give the nail clippers a squirt of anti bacterial cleaner and a wash?

TellMeWhoTheVillainsAre · 22/06/2024 17:29

Fungal infections are the most likely risk, but also warts etc. Let's face it, a lot of people don't wash their hands well enough and harbour dirt and germs under nails, and children often bite their nails!

Your cleaner is probably the person in your household with the cleanest hands and nails, seeing as she works with water and cleaning products.

If you think she's so manky as not to be allowed use a nail clippers I'm confused why you'd ask her to look after your children occasionally.

SallyWD · 22/06/2024 14:37

I really couldn't care less. Not like she used your tooth brush. We have lots of visitors come and stay and people have often asked to borrow my nail clippers. No problem! And I've borrowed nail clippers at other people's houses.
I feel uncomfortable when my nails get too long. It's likely she was cleaning, felt like her nails were getting in the way and quickly cut them. Maybe she's lost her own or something.
If she's a lovely person who's helped you out with emergency babysitting, I can't believe you'd eve consider sacking her over something so inconsequential.

ClipperGate · 22/06/2024 14:36

I don't go to nail salons, but I'm assuming scissors/clippers and whatever other tools would be cleaned between clients? Interested to hear from people who use salons.

On that note apparently cuticles shouldn't be pushed back/clipped as they are there to provide a "seal" between nail and surrounding skin. (It seems a good cleaner will also be slightly obsessive about their hands - DH does have beautiful hands to be fair Grin) I have a tendency to nibble my cuticles Blush

ClipperGate · 22/06/2024 14:28

TellMeWhoTheVillainsAre · 22/06/2024 12:37

I'm genuinely curious to know what the problem is with someone clipping their nails, with a nail clippers?

What do you think is the cross contamination here?

I'm sorry but I really am struggling to understand the outcry!

I don't have a cleaner, but the amount of threads here from people wanting to sack their cleaner for the most innocuous things blows my mind. Why do you think so little of your cleaners? The people cleaning your houses. Doing the work that you don't want to do yourselves?

It's a fking nail clippers. That's what it's supposed to do.

Fungal infections are the most likely risk, but also warts etc. Let's face it, a lot of people don't wash their hands well enough and harbour dirt and germs under nails, and children often bite their nails! In our own house we are actually relaxed and DH and I share nail clippers ourselves (on the grounds we share other bodily fluids Grin) but in a professional setting it's inappropriate, especially when it's an actual cleaning job!

Cleaners are the very people who should know this. DH would never do it and would expect to be sacked if he did. Whatever people think about the invasion of privacy/cleaners using clients personal items, it just shows a total disregard for the basics of the job - cleanliness. (He is a very good cleaner and in high demand with agencies if he wants extra hours Smile)

TellMeWhoTheVillainsAre · 22/06/2024 12:37

I'm genuinely curious to know what the problem is with someone clipping their nails, with a nail clippers?

What do you think is the cross contamination here?

I'm sorry but I really am struggling to understand the outcry!

I don't have a cleaner, but the amount of threads here from people wanting to sack their cleaner for the most innocuous things blows my mind. Why do you think so little of your cleaners? The people cleaning your houses. Doing the work that you don't want to do yourselves?

It's a fking nail clippers. That's what it's supposed to do.

ClipperGate · 22/06/2024 09:23

I normally absolutely hate "I asked my DH" responses, but I did ask my DH because he actually is a cleaner Wink He would never consider this because he is a cleaner! He has fucking standards. A cleaner who would use a client's nail clippers does not have acceptable standards to be a cleaner (and you've actually said she's not up to scratch).

DH works in the commercial sector now and you'd be amazed how many companies/institutions are so badly cleaned and actively unhygienic Envy (that's a vomit face). Things like cleaners not adhering to the coloured cloth systems so the toilet cloth is used for other areas straightaway. Some of these are large companies that provide premium/expensive services.

I don't think it really matters whether individuals think it's OK or think it's minging - a good and professional cleaner (whether in commercial or private households) would know it's wrong someone else's nail clippers, and if they wouldn't they're in the wrong job. They should also automatically have good hand hygiene already. DH wouldn't break a nail on a job as they're always kept short and well maintained so he can do his job.

MadameMassiveSalad · 22/06/2024 06:48

Seriously I'd be mire annoyed she's a bad cleaner. Not because of the nail clipping.

Have you told her what she's not doing properly op?

MadameMassiveSalad · 22/06/2024 06:44

Caravaggiouch · 21/06/2024 14:01

WTF? I’m amazed at these responses, I couldn’t care about this. It’s a nail clipper, she’s not wiping her arse with your toothbrush.

😆

Opinionwontchangeluv · 22/06/2024 01:15

She's crossing boundaries. She not there to clip her nails wtf