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Why r some men so disgusting

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Andtheworldwentwhite · 21/06/2024 11:51

Twice in the last month have come across men pleasuring themselves in public.

one when I was walking the dog. And was facing the pond and having a go. And just now. Some man laying on the grass on the side of the road. Hand down his pants. Just laying their pleasuring him selves. What is it.

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pocketheart · 21/06/2024 13:00

@TheShellBeach that's that ridiculous, snobbish comment put to bed - well done you!

Tiredkittens · 21/06/2024 12:58

Where are you OP? I've only experienced this once, saw a man having a wank on a train in south London, reported him to British transport police and he was caught, prosecuted and convicted. It wasn't his first offence.

You can tell the police and they will take it seriously. Don't just roll your eyes and accept it.

HcbSS · 21/06/2024 12:53

I remember living in Spain and there was a resident flasher in the town where I worked. The police were aware of him, everyone knew who he was but they said their hands were tied unless he was doing it within a certain distance of a school, kids playground, etc or if he actively goes to touch someone. Nice! So we just had to put up with the sight of his willy on our daily commute!

Combattingthemoaners · 21/06/2024 12:52

Or move to the Cotswolds. That sort of thing doesn't happen here.

😂 peak Mumsnet response.

TheShellBeach · 21/06/2024 12:49

I have just been exposed to a full porn photo on this site!

Dammit, I must've missed that.

GreenTeaPea · 21/06/2024 12:48

I used to live in a block of flats with a grass verge just outside my living room window that seemed to be a favourite wanking spot.

I took pictures and reported it to the police several times but it didn't seem to do much - and this was in the days before sexual assault and violence was basically decriminalised.
So I started chucking buckets of water out the window at them. It was actually really fun, especially in winter 😛

TheShellBeach · 21/06/2024 12:47

HereComesColinFrissel · 21/06/2024 12:46

Graphic descriptions?? Did I miss something? Where has anyone put anything graphic? How else is what they're doing supposed to be described?

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Quite.

HereComesColinFrissel · 21/06/2024 12:46

WayOutOfLine · 21/06/2024 12:04

I have just been exposed to a full porn photo on this site! I'm going to report this thread as well, perhaps you are just wanting to chat about the disgustingness of men, which they are, but the graphic descriptions are making me think we are being invaded by men who want to talk about their fantasies, and put porn on this site. If that's not the case, then you can tell this to Mumsnet.

Graphic descriptions?? Did I miss something? Where has anyone put anything graphic? How else is what they're doing supposed to be described?

TheShellBeach · 21/06/2024 12:45

Shan5474 · 21/06/2024 12:20

Thankfully I’ve only come across this once in my life on the beach. The police took it very seriously and he was arrested and sentenced. Awful behaviour! Why can’t they control themselves??

They can control themselves.
They don't do it because they get a sudden urge to have a wank.
They do it to shock and horrify passers by.

It's a control thing.

Beautifulbythebay · 21/06/2024 12:42

Dogging isn't a thing... It's hedgehogs in shrubbery....
😂

downwithmaterialistdogma · 21/06/2024 12:39

Grim. Men seem to be regressing.

FatFilledTrottyPuss · 21/06/2024 12:35

I walked past a barbers on the main high street the other day and there was a young man stood in the window with both hands down his pants having a good fumble. Absolutely gross.

Yoyodiet · 21/06/2024 12:35

I saw a man doing it sitting at a fast food table restaurant a couple of weeks ago. Couldn't believe it. Nice town, middle of the day.

Disturbia81 · 21/06/2024 12:33

Men can be so grim.

Shan5474 · 21/06/2024 12:20

Thankfully I’ve only come across this once in my life on the beach. The police took it very seriously and he was arrested and sentenced. Awful behaviour! Why can’t they control themselves??

WhyDoesItAlways · 21/06/2024 12:16

ByCupidStunt · 21/06/2024 11:54

Take a photo and report to police.

Or move to the Cotswolds. That sort of thing doesn't happen here.

It absolutely does! Dogging too.

GiddyGingernut · 21/06/2024 12:04

Oh no don't waste perfectly good coffee!

Response for PP. Removed my quote by accident.

WayOutOfLine · 21/06/2024 12:04

I have just been exposed to a full porn photo on this site! I'm going to report this thread as well, perhaps you are just wanting to chat about the disgustingness of men, which they are, but the graphic descriptions are making me think we are being invaded by men who want to talk about their fantasies, and put porn on this site. If that's not the case, then you can tell this to Mumsnet.

Alicewinn · 21/06/2024 12:03

God I had a phase where this happened to me like twice in a month. So deeply unpleasant. Yes report.

OneTC · 21/06/2024 12:03

A boiling cup of coffee would have been handy

TheShellBeach · 21/06/2024 12:02

Take a quick picture and then tell the police, OP.

It's disgusting behaviour.

TheShellBeach · 21/06/2024 12:01

<just waiting for a long series of posts telling the OP that it's "lying" not "laying">

Beautifulbythebay · 21/06/2024 12:01

Omg a local man was caught wanking in a local frozen food supermarket!! Bloody grim.. Thankfully he was arrested...
But same man flashed at ds and his mates a few weeks ago.

Where is Mrs Bobbitt when you need her?

GiddyGingernut · 21/06/2024 11:59

I can only hope no little ones were around at the time.

Horrible behaviour

Sadsadworld · 21/06/2024 11:59

So gross.
We used to laugh this off but I think there is evidence now that this behaviour can escalate to sexual assault so good idea to always report.

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