Why r some men so disgusting

It doesn't matter where you live, it can happen anytime, anywhere. If all the sex offenders were in one place, it would be much easier to manage them. Instead, they are neighbours, colleagues, random people in the supermarket, vans, parks, trains, they are police officers and people from every profession you can imagine. Report them every single time, there are multiple studies and case studies showing how this behaviour can escalate to much more serious crimes.

I have seen men lying down masturbating in the Cotswolds on many occasions.

So that's what a posh wank is.

Part of the solution would be to ban the elasticated waistband. It's such an enabler.

I work with teenage boys and regularly ask them to wash their hands before taking a drink, using a pen etc. "What? Why?" "because you keep touching your penis and testicles and it is very unhygienic" A lot genuinely don't seem to know they are doing it or think it is ok.

Teenage boys walked around with hands in their trousers when I was high school. And while sitting in class. I don’t remember anyone telling them to stop. I once joked to one sat with hands down his trousers about what he was up to and got told to fuck off/ mind own business, like it was reasonable of me to make him feel awkward about him masturbating a desk over from me in a history…

I don’t think the poster actually finds it’s funny. It’s laughing at how shit and creepy it is as it’s so awkward.

This is honestly unbelievable! I’m either very naive or just completely missed this happening around me!

A few years back I was walking to Tesco on my lunch break, so around mid-day, fairly busy street, man walking along wanking, just blatantly, in front of everyone, including kids. Most dogs behave better.

I was flashed 4 times in one year when I was a young girl.

fucking grim

Tbf, the poster who witnessed this incident is the victim (whether she sees herself that way or not) and entitled to percieve it as she wishes. When I was a teen there was a regular flasher in the park. The girls who had been victims of him, myself included, all turned it into a joke amongst ourselves. It was a way of dealing with something unpleasant and disturbing that took back control and belittled the man as an object of ridicule. I agree entirely it shouldn't be minimised as 'harmless fun' but to laugh AT these men is a valid response.

Yes think so🤣 I live in an affluent part of London , saw man sitting in jag spanking the donkey in v busy area recently 🤪 just parked there with tons of peeps walking past

I think posts of this type are incredibly unhelpful.

There's is nothing, NOTHING funny about men doing this. To suggest that there's anything remotely humorous about this is also potentially harmful.

Grow up.

Exactly this. If they didn't plan it but couldn't control the urge then they'd use a closed cubicle in a mens toilet. Not that is right either but standing in public is what they get off on.

I lived in a first floor flat above some shops and couldn't believe the number of times men pulled up and had a bash while sitting in their car outside the shops. Gross 🤢

My elderly and very proper looking mother was once "accosted" by a flasher. She told him she'd seen bigger earthworms. She reported him to the police who seemed to be trying very hard not to laugh when she was questioned about what she'd said to him. They did take it seriously though as they said they tended to escalate.

Saw a man masturbating at the traffic lights before was on the bus

I walked past a man in a parked car having a wank. He had a smirk on his face when he realised I had seen him.

There's different types. The old style flashers who've upped the ante. The deliberately sexually aggressive (hands down joggers, look you in the eye and smirk) and the ones who before social care went down the toilet, wouldn't have been on the streets at all. Lying down on the grass verge by traffic lights is probably type 3.

They are so fucking gross. Even the respectable ones are basically deviants!

Monkey🤭

Same! I live in Uk. Never had it here just a couple of times in France…
Nowhere else in the world either

Thought it was just me that thought the French were wan*ers

Should it not be "On many occasions whilst in the Cotswolds, I have seen masturbating men lying down"? 🤔

Me neither.

There are many comments on here about these men doing this because they are seeking to dominate etc. which I think is plausible. But there many other ways the men can feel powerful, and not all men masturbate in public. I would go as far as to say it is an extremely small proportion of men. Is it possible that this minority of men is mentally unwell? Does anyone know any of the criminology/psychology of this phenomenon? I’ve witnessed it probably twice in my life: on both occasions the men were evidently at the edge of society. I’m not asking about this in a moral sense; should a man do this out of choice (ie in the total absence of any mental illness) then it absolutely is abhorrent. But if it’s a symptom of a psychiatric disorder, should they not be treated rather than being violently assaulted as some posters on here have suggested?