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To think women with 3+ kids should pay less taxes

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WhatTodoALL · 21/06/2024 10:44

All parties will have to deal with the increasing number of old people and low fertility rate. They use this fact to justify big numbers of net migration. I was wondering if we as a country should actively provide economical benefits for women to have more than one child? In some countries like Singapore there are a lot of economic incentives to have more than 2 kids. I have 3 kids myself and I don't know anyone in my friendship group who would have more than 2. In fact, most don't want to have even one child citing economical reasons.

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Singleandproud · 21/06/2024 11:49

We don't need incentives to produce more people in the world, it's over populated enough

Sharing our the worlds population and encouraging migration and education so migrants can became productive members of the economy would be a far better practice.

Investing in mental and physical health services and adapting work so that currently unproductive members of society are able to access work and become financially beneficial to society.

More babies are not the answer

parkrun500club · 21/06/2024 11:45

Just the opposite. The world has too many people, so we need to incentivise people to have fewer children, not more.

However, I do think childcare should be tax deductible.

SpringerFall · 21/06/2024 11:45

Having children is choice, no one needs to keep on breeding especially they can't afford it

socks1107 · 21/06/2024 11:45

No I don't someone's choice to have three children subsided. Better use would be after school care for all schools and all children

Didimum · 21/06/2024 11:45

No, terrible idea.

AthenaBasil · 21/06/2024 11:43

I don’t think a tax break would do much. Tax breaks give more to the wealthy who could have more kids if they wanted in most cases. I do agree that it’s better for countries to support and train their own populations so they’re not causing societal issues and brain drains in other countries.

I think we need more affordable childcare as it’s so difficult having more than one child in nursery. I have an 2.5 age gap which is often seen as ideal but not for nursery. Often the advice is to space out children and wait until one goes to school but that will lead to smaller families as some just don’t go back to having children. There are lots of factors at play that make it hard to address.

Leah5678 · 21/06/2024 11:43

It's a good idea and is already the case in a lot of other countries. But Mumsnet will hate it 😂

Bigboysmademedoit · 21/06/2024 11:43

I have 4 kids - my choice, my responsibility. My DH and I work full time and received no tax credits but that’s fair enough because, and I can’t stress this enough, I chose to have 4 wonderful children and I don’t expect others to pick up the tab.

SpringKitten · 21/06/2024 11:36

It’s interesting that it is not ONLY low birth rate, it’s the wider generational spacing - so if my great gran had 2 kids average maternal age 25, then those kids had their own 2 kids average maternal age 25, then 50 years or so after great gran got married there are 8 great grandkids and two working age grandchildren.

Whereas nowadays you might have your first kid age 35 and your second aged 40. And ditto as the generations progress.

So maybe you want to support YOUNG people to be financially able to afford kids rather than waiting until they can afford it age 40, as then a woman aged 80 has maybe only 4 young grandkids and 2 adult children, as opposed to being a great gran with 8 great-grandchildren, 4 adult grandkids and two adult kids.

MrsSunshine2b · 21/06/2024 11:31

LewishamMumNow · 21/06/2024 11:29

You get healthcare, education, school meals, child benefit.
Well plenty of parents don't get school meals or child benefit at all. And everyone gets healthcare, and if you were brought up in Britain everyone got education. Not sure OP is really rolling in all these benefits at all.

Every KS1 child in state school gets free school meals. regardless of parents' income. Everyone gets healthcare and education, and for her, that everyone includes 3 dependents.

LewishamMumNow · 21/06/2024 11:29

You get healthcare, education, school meals, child benefit.
Well plenty of parents don't get school meals or child benefit at all. And everyone gets healthcare, and if you were brought up in Britain everyone got education. Not sure OP is really rolling in all these benefits at all.

AGodawfulsmallaffair · 21/06/2024 11:29

Would you like a 4 bed house as well?

Metempsychosis · 21/06/2024 11:28

Grumpy12345 · 21/06/2024 11:23

No. The world is over populated enough as it is. What we need is a slowly declining birth rate across the globe. Yes this will create difficulties for a few generations as we have more old than young people. But after a few generations it will even out. Otherwise the human race becomes a huge pyramid scheme.

I'm not in favour of the ponzi scheme approach, and I do think that a gradually declining population is generally desirable.

But why do you think that "after a few generations it will even out?" The maths doesn't give you that at all. It can only be based on a pure guess that people will suddenly start having 2.1 children again for some reason.

MrsSunshine2b · 21/06/2024 11:26

You get healthcare, education, school meals, child benefit. Anyone with 3+ kids is already taking out more than they are putting in. Yes, we will need more migration as time goes on to replace an aging population. There are plenty of people who want to come.

AnneLovesGilbert · 21/06/2024 11:25

The Nazis did that.

SlebBB · 21/06/2024 11:24

CheshireCat1 · 21/06/2024 10:48

The more children you have will create more future tax payers.

Or more scroungers?

MidnightPatrol · 21/06/2024 11:24

DexaVooveQhodu · 21/06/2024 11:19

We can if we fill the workforce gaps with immigrants who are hsppy to come here and very willing to work hard and pay lots of taxes.

I think it pretty crazy as a nation to encourage large-scale immigration from other counties vs actually just making it more affordable for people to have families.

I’m not averse to immigration, but it’s a pretty depressing outlook for the UK to promote immigration from third world countries over helping our own people to flourish.

Metempsychosis · 21/06/2024 11:24

SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice · 21/06/2024 11:01

Low birth rate is a good thing, it isn’t a bad thing that needs to be fixed. We need global population to stabilise and if we leave well enough alone, we will be at zero growth by 2100 per the UN population projections.

We don’t need governments to dictate the number of children or incentivise/disincentivise childbearing. The only governments doing that are very conservative, right wing governments in global minority countries worried their ethnicity will be slowly made extinct due to really outlandish conspiracy theories.

Very right wing governments like France?

The UK is the only government in the G20 where someone supporting 2/3/4/5 people on a single income pays exactly the same tax as someone with no dependents (apart from the transferable marriage allowance which is very limited).

You may feel that this is obviously correct, and that having children is a purely personal decision which should no more concern the taxman than any other expensive hobby. But the other approach is not an extremist position: it's the norm.

Grumpy12345 · 21/06/2024 11:23

No. The world is over populated enough as it is. What we need is a slowly declining birth rate across the globe. Yes this will create difficulties for a few generations as we have more old than young people. But after a few generations it will even out. Otherwise the human race becomes a huge pyramid scheme.

RobinHood19 · 21/06/2024 11:20

In the (European) country I come from, you have “large family” status if you have 3+ children, with additional benefits from 5+. This is not only reflected on taxes (minimally) but on administration fees, cost of extra-curriculars (as most are state-run), public transport eg train fares, and a long list of etc. There is no such thing as child benefit though, for anyone. 3+ children gets you a 50% discount on those state fees whilst 5+ children makes it free of charge. So for example in gymnastics / music / ballet schools, children from a family with 5 siblings don’t pay anything to attend.

Childcare is also state-run and funded from the age of 4 months, although the newly improved parental leave system means most families can stay at home with the baby at least until the 8-9 month mark. It cannot be solely the mother though (unless a single parent).

Edit to add - the birth rate is still falling though. One of the fastest dropping rates in Europe.

Roundeartheratchriatmas · 21/06/2024 11:20

Environmentally speaking we need to breed less not more.

We certainly will need a strategy for the aging population but I’m not convinced more people is it.

DexaVooveQhodu · 21/06/2024 11:19

MidnightPatrol · 21/06/2024 11:14

It quite literally is a bad thing.

We cannot afford to support our elderly population if people aren’t having kids at replacement level or above.

We can if we fill the workforce gaps with immigrants who are hsppy to come here and very willing to work hard and pay lots of taxes.

DexaVooveQhodu · 21/06/2024 11:18

Boosting the birth rate is only desirable if you want to clamp down on immigration but can't because you need the immigrants for your workforce.

Therefore the extra babies generated by such an initiative would be destined for low pay low status jobs that currently recruit heavily from other countries.

EthanofAthos · 21/06/2024 11:17

Your starting point is that immigration is bad. I don’t agree. Birth rates in the global west are falling, that means populations can move around from overcrowded countries to come here. That’s fine. Overall global population needs to fall.

MidnightPatrol · 21/06/2024 11:14

SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice · 21/06/2024 11:01

Low birth rate is a good thing, it isn’t a bad thing that needs to be fixed. We need global population to stabilise and if we leave well enough alone, we will be at zero growth by 2100 per the UN population projections.

We don’t need governments to dictate the number of children or incentivise/disincentivise childbearing. The only governments doing that are very conservative, right wing governments in global minority countries worried their ethnicity will be slowly made extinct due to really outlandish conspiracy theories.

It quite literally is a bad thing.

We cannot afford to support our elderly population if people aren’t having kids at replacement level or above.