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To be concerned about a new fresh hell for female school pupils?

157 replies

Villamariawine · 21/06/2024 09:57

I’ve name changed for this as I don’t want the assumption to be I am one of the parents. I’m not. But I am the mother of a 6th former DD.

From The Times today - it is behind a paywall so I’ve included some of the salient points. I’ve removed the poll because frankly I’d be aghast if anyone thinks I am being unreasonable.
Two private schools are at the centre of a criminal investigation into the alleged making and sharing of deepfake pornographic images. Police are investigating claims that the deepfakes were created at a boys’ school by someone manipulating images taken from the social media accounts of pupils at a girls’ school.
The schools are in the same area of the country. Detectives became involved seven weeks ago when staff at the girls’ school alerted police and social services to reports that deepfake images and videos were in circulation at the boys’ school. About a dozen girls are thought to have been victims.

The report goes on to say:

Both schools are spending tens of thousands of pounds on crisis management PR firms and London law firms to manage the fallout. It is understood police asked the schools not to undertake internal inquiries or disciplinary measures during their investigation.

And

Police declined to comment on claims that they had been unable to recover phones and computer equipment of potential value to the investigation.

And

A spokesman for the boys’ school said: “Were any allegation to be received, the school would always take all appropriate steps to ensure the matter was fully and thoroughly investigated, including through making reports to, and taking advice from, the relevant external agencies and authorities. The school will always fully co-operate with any police investigation or directions.”

I’m not interested in which schools these are (The Times has not named them) and for the sake of the girls, please don’t name them. I’d wager that the lack of progress into some sort of justice for the girls is why The Times knows about the situation.

My AIBU is that this apparently happened at the start of May. Exams will have taken place, pupils will have left, important choices will have had to be made and these poor girls have had to deal with this on top of everything and the perpetrators are seemingly facing no consequences almost two months on. The Police have moved very quickly on other matters, why not this one? It is a criminal offence to even make deepfake images of a child, let alone distribute them. If there is nothing amiss, why are PR firms and Law Firms involved? Why would the girls school need to hire them? Surely their first thought is for the welfare on their pupils who are involved through no fault of their own? These images could follow them around forever if they were created of the girls when they were over the age of 18. Was nothing learned by schools after ‘everyone’s invited?’ about trying to cover up bad behaviour?

I’m dismayed that girls and their parents are being subjected to this new fresh hell.

OP posts:
bombastix · 21/06/2024 10:32

Yes it’s disgusting; is it the school or the parenting of these boys. It’s the parenting. I suspect that there are some serious criminal offences being done by these boys and I would throw the book at them.

araiwa · 21/06/2024 10:30

Of course they would hire a law firm. Not sure what the problem is with that

TipsyKoala · 21/06/2024 10:29

These reports are becoming ever more common and it’s terrifying.

Poodlean · 21/06/2024 10:28

I think it’s too early to criticise the boys school. The police are investigating whether this is where the pictures originated, so I’d rather not jump the gun and point the finger at them just yet.
It is a horrible new trend and will undoubtedly not go away

SomewhereOverTheHill · 21/06/2024 10:24

The 3 things that anger me about this are 1. The technology is freely available for the general public to use to be able to create deepfakes in the first place. 2. That boys with this much privilege have decided to do this. 3. The fact the schools have called in PR companies and lawyers which shouts that they are trying to cover it up and possibly start whipping out NDAs to shut it down.
I fear for my daughter in this shitty world.

ApoodlecalledPenny · 21/06/2024 10:13

It’s very disappointing that it seems the boys school has gone into protect mode rather than supporting an investigation and punishment.