DD is 15, she gets dropped off and picked up from school most days, she can get the bus and train home if needs be but I usually pick her up, she has had to make her own way home maybe twice this year if I have been working but gets dropped off every morning regardless.
I usually drop her off at school but sometimes my OH will for me if I have to be in work early or have a call I need to be back for. My issue is that my DD pulls a face every time he is taking her, I have asked her why and her response is that I drop her off at the gate but he drops her off at the top of the road and she has to walk down, I'm literally talking a 2 minute walk if that and the reason is all the buses stop on this road so it can become really congested with traffic.
AIBU to find this really disrespectful? Yes she would prefer I took her but sometimes that's not possible so I have made alternative arrangements so she can still be taken to school, the alternative is that I drop her off at the bus stop on my way into work which would mean that she would have to leave the house 30 minutes before we usually do. I've told her this is her other option but she doesn't want to do that either.
I'm finding her really hard work and negative at the moment and it just feels like all's she does is complain all the time. I tried to have a conversation with her the other day about school and what she wanted to do after she finished and she said she doesn't want to work, she hates people, I'm just at a loss with her lately. I know this is a difficult age but I still expect manners and respect.