6 year child - stranger talking about her penis

Your reputation, but not willing to safeguard other peoples children?

There is nothing in your post that makes me think your child, or any other child, is at risk. BUT, you aren't willing to mention it, off record, to a manager to safeguard other peoples children. I find that pretty offensive. You knew you were starting a thread that would descend into transpeople being described as sexual deviants, perverts etc etc. Speaking to a manager, and asking them to speak to the transwoman about boundaries could prevent other people being in your situation. But you're not willing to do that, because - well, I can't work it out, as like I said, not even Stonewall would take offence at what you said.

@Cailin66 Truly shocking. This really has all run away with itself

This wouldn’t bother me, I can’t believe some of the responses.

It leaves you with a life altering decision that there is no going back from. They are called detransitioners. There numbers are growing because many that believed themselves to be trans, having been swept up in the idea while very young and biddable, are now reaching proper adulthood in their mid twenties and realising that the drugs and hormones, plus surgery were wrong and that they are now incapable of having children. Even worse is they have destroyed their bodies and will need life long medical care. And because of the destruction of their bodies find it very difficult to attract sexual partners.

I think it's beyond borderline.
He got a kick of some description out of it.
I would not trust this person as far as I could throw them. And certainly wouldn't allow my children to be anywhere near them.

Your second post is 100% correct nobody should be discussing genitalia with a child they don't know.

In terms of safeguarding, an adult discussing penises with a six year old without thinking how it might raise red flags isn't safeguarding.

Safeguarding isn't just about the child. It's also about protecting yourself from situations which can be misinterpreted.

Teachers have to follow certain protocols over certain issues to ensure they are not alone.

In terms of this situation, the fact that it sounds like there is no other present is very much part of the problem and demonstrates a lack of understanding of safeguarding by this adult.

That makes me ask questions.

@HappierTimesAhead Much as I thought

It leaves you still a man and with the same mental health issues that led you to remove a healthy part of your body.

Not sure, but you wont be a woman!!

Please feel free to Google his body of work I think you will find he does have data, he's been researching and publishing on this subject for decades.

There is also data which shows that 50-60% (depends on the year) of transwomen in prison are sex offenders but in the male prison population the percentage of sex offenders is 15-20%.

If you’ve had your penis removed then realise you’ve made a mistake where does that leave you

That’s where it begins and ends

You seem to believe that the other 90% of trans woman are not trans.

Where did you get that from?

I literally said “not all trans women have had surgery”.

The issue is not that it was a transperson. No adult should be taking about their genitals with children!

It's weird, creepy and I would say bordering on sexually abusive.

all people who have had surgery are transwomen.

This is not true.

• not all men who have had their penis removed is a transwoman
• not all men who have deliberately had their penis removed call themselves a transwoman
• men who have had their penis removed and realised they made a mistake are not transwomen

Less than 10% of transwomen have their penis removed. You seem to believe that the other 90% of trans woman are not trans. You don't have to have surgery to be trans. The truth is transexual men are quite attached to their penis.

The child finding it funny is not a sign it isn't grooming; it is a sign the grooming is working.

Exactly!

So many predator apologists in this thread

its a man in a dress

Yeah but in gender woo woo land, there are men without willys ( transmen) so perhaps he felt the need to clarify although I agree not appropriate to say to a chikd