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To think Primary School Teacher could be a great job?

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greyskiesandcarpet · 20/06/2024 08:05

I hear so many negative things about teaching nowadays, but I wonder how bad primary teaching is, in comparison to any other demanding corporate job? This isn't me washing over the fact that some of the job must be really tough, but I want to hear some positive stories. I know a couple of people that couldn't deal with the stress of corporate life, but have excelled in teaching.

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Covidwoes · 12/10/2024 17:30

@Stradlater it's totally my choice to do it unpaid! I can't stay mega late at work due to picking up my DC (age 6 and 3) from childcare (after school club and nursery). I also run an after school choir on a Friday, and every second Thursday is a meeting, which sometimes leaves me one day (Wednesday) to get a significant amount done! I don't ever work at weekends now though, which is great!

Goldenmemories · 12/10/2024 17:11

@Machiavellian my teaching assistant arrives at 8.45am with the children and leaves at 12pm. I am only allowed to deploy her to work with the children to support their learning. There is no time for displays. So I do them because otherwise I get pulled up on it.

FrippEnos · 12/10/2024 16:57

Roundthemoon · 12/10/2024 16:24

You said that many newly qualified teachers leave within five years.

I think that's pretty much the same in a lot of careers though.

People change careers a lot these days.

For example, I know a woman who used to work in business development, she is now training to be a nurse.

People have broken out of the old fashioned mind set of having to stay in one career for life.

People do lots of different jobs these days.

So that people only stay for five years in teaching, is kind of normal across the board

Edited

I would say that people stay in professions more than five years.
They don't stay with the same company.

Machiavellian · 12/10/2024 16:50

TheCentreCannotHold · 12/10/2024 16:28

@Machiavellian You're right, but when those are the expectations in black and white as specified by school leaders, it's really hard to not do what everyone is expecting and doing.
Out of interest, who does the displays in your school? We're double mounting and 'wow-ing' left, right and centre, and sure, it looks great, but my time would definitely be better spent planning for teaching and learning.

Teaching assistants. Displays are a waste of time. It should be minimal and non distracting.

Philandbill · 12/10/2024 16:34

ThrallsWife · 12/10/2024 11:32

This week alone:

  • register, then in-class live email trail about students missing from class (if a student isn't in my class I have to report it within the first 10min of the lesson - fun when other stuff kicks off at the same time): I have to start the trail, then keep an eye out for responses and repeat this after half an hour if the student is still not there: around 15x this week, taking up a total of 30min, excluding the register itself (only 2min/pupil)
  • email responses to parental questions re. homework and behaviour: 6x this week, taking up around 1.5h of my time in total (multiple emails back and forth between parent and me regarding one bit of homework because they had difficulty with the app)
  • phone calls to parents re. behaviour (required), star of the week (required), attendance (required) - around 45min/ day (they are "only a quick call" but I've had multiple sets of parents on the phone for 10-15min at a time), all also recorded on our communications platform to prove I have made said phone calls (because the phone log isn't enough, apparently)
  • we had a deep dive into my subject, which involved paperwork to show we had carried out student voice, book trawls, learning walks, staff voice, weekly subject updates, updating seating plans and annotations, updating SEND information because a few students had been moved classes this week - given that most of this was paperwork from other weeks, I'd say about an hour prep for this, gathering all the information, printing etc.
  • student information requests - 2 this week, taking 30min each to fill in as each required evidence
  • safeguarding - 2 incidents this week, taking 20min each to record with all the details the form requires and then follow-up with the DSL
  • data tracker updates with recent marking and grades - 10min per test (3 tests this week) - marking said tests around 45min each
  • updating the form board (required and monitored weekly) - finding information, printing, backing and actually attaching - around 45min
  • reporting yet another leak in my classroom (that has, apparently, been fixed twice in the 6 weeks we have been back) - 10min
  • daily pigeon hole checks and handing out paperwork to students - 3min/day (15min total)
  • logging all of the week's practicals and risk assessments on our online system - 1.5h
These are top of my hat; this does not include planning and adapting lessons (2h/day), actual teaching (4.5h/day), meetings (2 this week at 45min each and 2 briefings at 20min each), duties (2 a week at 20min/ day), tidying the room (10min/day), short updates with the head of department and technicians, restorative conversations at 15min/day, transferring books and information about new students, getting the week's attendance incentives etc.

We are on 14h 40min paperwork per week if my maths is correct, or 3h 6min/day on top of teaching, planning, meetings, duties and all the other bits, which take place between 8.30am and 4pm. Suddenly, taking all of these together, we are on over 10h 15min/day easily, and that is pure work, not any of the bits that make said work possible (walking between rooms, verbal updates with colleagues, booting up IT equipment, breaks/ lunches to go to the loo and shove food in, getting books/ pens/ textbooks etc.). So a school day ends up being around 12h/day.

This is spot on @ThrallsWife . But I expect you've had or will have somebody post to tell you to leave if you don't like it.... There is a huge lack of understanding about what teachers do as well as teach and prep lessons.

Stradlater · 12/10/2024 16:30

Covidwoes · 12/10/2024 07:48

Primary teacher of 15 years here. I am part time now (3 days), and it is MUCH better. I wouldn't ever go full time again. That said, I do a LOT of unpaid work (like marking on my days off). A LOT. That's the norm in teaching. What makes it a more bearable job is working in a great school. My school is amazing, and my colleagues are wonderful. Management is incredible. Anywhere with toxic leaders is a horrible environment, much like any work place.
Parents are getting way more difficult. The entitlement is off the scale. Many of them now don't want to do anything at home with their children (like read), as everything now seems to be the school's responsibility. Paperwork, safeguarding etc is time consuming.
However, would I do anything else? No. The actual teaching bit is still enjoyable for me, thankfully! It's bloody exhausting though. 😂

I went down to 4 days years ago. The only time I have ever worked on my day off was to do reports.
And that was very rare.
I spent my day off resting, relaxing or doing stuff about the house, going out, spending time with my DC when they were younger etc.

I’m sorry but if you reduced your hours and then worked on your days off, that’s on you.
I stopped doing tons of unpaid work many moons ago and my classes progressed just as well.

TheCentreCannotHold · 12/10/2024 16:28

@Machiavellian You're right, but when those are the expectations in black and white as specified by school leaders, it's really hard to not do what everyone is expecting and doing.
Out of interest, who does the displays in your school? We're double mounting and 'wow-ing' left, right and centre, and sure, it looks great, but my time would definitely be better spent planning for teaching and learning.

Roundthemoon · 12/10/2024 16:24

TheCentreCannotHold · 12/10/2024 16:21

Have you seen the current 'golden hellos' running into tens of thousands of pounds offered by the government for candidates to embark on teacher training? That is not 'joining the profession'.
A large portion of fresh-out-of-training ECTs (Early Career Teachers) do not complete their two-year probation period, and many newly qualified teachers tap out within five years. They see contemporaries who went into other sectors out-earning them and (work flexibly!) in other graduate jobs (or trades for that matter) while their own earnings plateau and stagnate almost as soon as they're out of the starting blocks.

You said that many newly qualified teachers leave within five years.

I think that's pretty much the same in a lot of careers though.

People change careers a lot these days.

For example, I know a woman who used to work in business development, she is now training to be a nurse.

People have broken out of the old fashioned mind set of having to stay in one career for life.

People do lots of different jobs these days.

So that people only stay for five years in teaching, is kind of normal across the board

TheCentreCannotHold · 12/10/2024 16:21

MasterBeth · 12/10/2024 15:09

And 48,000 people joined the profession!

I'm saying that, to some extent, the pay and conditions balance the stress and disadvantages. That's how recruitment/retention works.

It's stressful and difficult and long hours, but the pay is decent, and the pension and holidays are exceptional. Only an individual can say whether the balance is right for them.

"It's stressful." Yes, I'm sure it is. The package reflects that it's more stressful than working in retail or care

Have you seen the current 'golden hellos' running into tens of thousands of pounds offered by the government for candidates to embark on teacher training? That is not 'joining the profession'.
A large portion of fresh-out-of-training ECTs (Early Career Teachers) do not complete their two-year probation period, and many newly qualified teachers tap out within five years. They see contemporaries who went into other sectors out-earning them and (work flexibly!) in other graduate jobs (or trades for that matter) while their own earnings plateau and stagnate almost as soon as they're out of the starting blocks.

Roundthemoon · 12/10/2024 16:17

I'm sure she wrote that to try to ward off the influx of whingers.

Yet, it still happened.

She wants positive stories people.

Roundthemoon · 12/10/2024 16:15

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 12/10/2024 15:59

It's not uncommon on MN for a poster to ask teachers to explain the realities of the job and why people find it so hard, why so many quit etc. Sometimes because they are considering it as a career. Sometimes just because they are curious.

The OP of this thread specifically wrote that she wants to hear 'positive stories' about primary teaching.

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 12/10/2024 15:59

Roundthemoon · 12/10/2024 15:52

Im laughing at

"People who know the answer respond "

And the "we want to tell the truth" posts that were written here earlier.

Like we don't know these things.

Do you think that people genuinely don't know that teachers :
work during the day at school,
have parent teacher meetings outside school,
are marked by ofsted for quality,
and have to do lesson prep and marking in the evenings.

We all know that! Everyone knows a teacher.

Itd be like me saying "i want to tell you the truth of what a nurse goes through....you'll have to work night shifts".

Everyone knows that nurses work night shifts.

It's not uncommon on MN for a poster to ask teachers to explain the realities of the job and why people find it so hard, why so many quit etc. Sometimes because they are considering it as a career. Sometimes just because they are curious.

Roundthemoon · 12/10/2024 15:52

Inertia · 12/10/2024 15:39

Teachers are generally responding to OPs asking about the realities of the job.

People who know the answer respond.

If you don’t like reading it, don’t open the thread.

Im laughing at

"People who know the answer respond "

And the "we want to tell the truth" posts that were written here earlier.

Like we don't know these things.

Do you think that people genuinely don't know that teachers :
work during the day at school,
have parent teacher meetings outside school,
are marked by ofsted for quality,
and have to do lesson prep and marking in the evenings.

We all know that! Everyone knows a teacher.

Itd be like me saying "i want to tell you the truth of what a nurse goes through....you'll have to work night shifts".

Everyone knows that nurses work night shifts.

Cookiecrisps · 12/10/2024 15:50

ahemfem · 12/10/2024 15:36

Oh no! You can't suggest anyone leaves. I did that once and had my arse handed to me on a plate! But who will teach the kids? I dunno, but not the people who've left teaching clearly.

Unqualified teachers, cover supervisors and TAs are the norm in many classes now even in long term cases of classes needing a teacher. When the experienced staff have left, schools will have difficulty in finding someone to mentor new student teachers. Approximately 30% of new teachers leave within their first 5 years. That tells you a lot about the working conditions as the other perceived perks such as pension and holiday do not entice these people to stay.

Roundthemoon · 12/10/2024 15:43

Inertia · 12/10/2024 15:39

Teachers are generally responding to OPs asking about the realities of the job.

People who know the answer respond.

If you don’t like reading it, don’t open the thread.

It's not just this thread. Look at mumsnet. There's lots of threads about this topic.

Any time any poster on here talks about maybe going into primary teaching, there is a hundred posters from teachers saying how bad it is.

It's annoying that people are so consistently negative about a career.

And it doesn't make sense either. If you hate it so much, why don't you just leave.

ThrallsWife · 12/10/2024 15:40

Teachers are very much looked down on in this country. This thread alone has a lot of people shwing their disdain.

I am from a different country. When kids ask me, I will tell them quite freely that I have the equivalent of 10 A-levels at grades A and A*. The question is always "so why the hell did you want to become a teacher?" Whereas in my home country, teaching is a highly-regarded profession that would be perfect for this level of academic achievement. Kids here truly believe the old adage that only those who can't, teach. It's a dreadful saying, but it carries with it what society think of teachers. And they treat them accordingly.

Inertia · 12/10/2024 15:39

Roundthemoon · 12/10/2024 15:32

I think what pisses people off about many teachers on mumsnet - is they are always moaning and complaining,

When all of us know people in real life who have worse jobs, who don't complain at all.

Also the teachers on here who constantly moan and whinge, never seem to ever do anything about it. And people get fed up of listening to the same whinging.

If you don't like your job, leave! There are plenty of other jobs.

I know primary teachers who have moved into completely different jobs.

Edited

Teachers are generally responding to OPs asking about the realities of the job.

People who know the answer respond.

If you don’t like reading it, don’t open the thread.

ahemfem · 12/10/2024 15:36

Roundthemoon · 12/10/2024 15:32

I think what pisses people off about many teachers on mumsnet - is they are always moaning and complaining,

When all of us know people in real life who have worse jobs, who don't complain at all.

Also the teachers on here who constantly moan and whinge, never seem to ever do anything about it. And people get fed up of listening to the same whinging.

If you don't like your job, leave! There are plenty of other jobs.

I know primary teachers who have moved into completely different jobs.

Edited

Oh no! You can't suggest anyone leaves. I did that once and had my arse handed to me on a plate! But who will teach the kids? I dunno, but not the people who've left teaching clearly.

hookiewookie29 · 12/10/2024 15:32

A friend of mine used to be a primary school teacher- and a very good one! But she gave it up 2 years ago because of the impact it had on her family life. She said that when it got to the point that she was putting her own children to bed early so she could get on with some work and she'd be doing it until midnight, she then realised something had to give. She used to say that she loved teaching, but hated being a teacher....
She now works in insurance.....

Roundthemoon · 12/10/2024 15:32

I think what pisses people off about many teachers on mumsnet - is they are always moaning and complaining,

When all of us know people in real life who have worse jobs, who don't complain at all.

Also the teachers on here who constantly moan and whinge, never seem to ever do anything about it. And people get fed up of listening to the same whinging.

If you don't like your job, leave! There are plenty of other jobs.

I know primary teachers who have moved into completely different jobs.

Inertia · 12/10/2024 15:31

RaraRachael · 12/10/2024 13:05

It's funny how I went to the same school as a child that I ended up teaching in but when I was there in the 70s, the children managed to have full control of their emotions and actions The only difference is that they knew there were consequences. I've seen the same class behave perfectly well for their own teacher but the complete opposite for PPA cover.

Another difference is inclusion.

This was sold on the basis of children with SEND being fully funded and fully supported to join mainstream schools.

What has happened is that huge amounts of specialist provision in dedicated settings with high adult:child ratios has been has been lost. Children with high levels of need are expected to cope in settings where little or no finding is provided to support them

Roundthemoon · 12/10/2024 15:18

Waitingfordoggo · 12/10/2024 14:25

You make it sound easy to just walk into a teaching job. You do realise you’ve got to have a teaching qualification, right? That takes a year (unless you haven’t got a degree, in which case it’ll take longer), and for most people it will involve getting into some debt, unless they are already loaded, which would be very unusual. People who are independently wealthy don’t often become teachers. So having a ‘try’ at primary teaching is a pretty big commitment to make. I think teachers are right to tell the truth to someone who asks them if they’d recommended teaching, before that person commits a year of their life and accumulates a load of debt.

As for your surprise at a teacher saying they didn’t want to take a paycut…this is very common. I have a LOT of friends in teaching. At least half want to leave but feel trapped because they don’t necessarily have the right skills or experience for other roles, and those they could have a go at don’t pay enough. These are people who have mortgages and children to feed. Of course they don’t want to take a pay cut- they need to survive!

A poster said "Do I realise that people need to have a teaching qualification."

Yes amazingly I did know that people need to have a teaching qualification to be a primary school teacher!

A lot of people in this day and age have a degree. You only have to do one more year of study to be a primary teacher.

Any course costs money. One year of study is not that expensive compared to other courses.

I know of a good few people who went to do a PGCE in primary teaching in their thirties and forties.

PGCES are more flexible now too. For example some Unis do primary PGCES that are full online , except for the placements.

I also have met several people who used to be a primary teacher, and have moved the other way, into other careers. As they wanted a change.

We don't live in the old days where people used to do one career for life, anymore.

People want change and they move careers.

ahemfem · 12/10/2024 15:10

MasterBeth · 12/10/2024 15:09

And 48,000 people joined the profession!

I'm saying that, to some extent, the pay and conditions balance the stress and disadvantages. That's how recruitment/retention works.

It's stressful and difficult and long hours, but the pay is decent, and the pension and holidays are exceptional. Only an individual can say whether the balance is right for them.

"It's stressful." Yes, I'm sure it is. The package reflects that it's more stressful than working in retail or care

That's a lot. They'll all hate it and leave soon I'm sure. All you see on mumsnet threads about teachers is how desperately unhappy they are.

MasterBeth · 12/10/2024 15:09

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 12/10/2024 14:44

How is it unrealistic? I was talking about jobs that may be stressful, not salary. Again - teachers aren't idiots. We do in fact know that retail assistants are not paid as well as teachers Hmm. We are also aware that we have longer holidays than other jobs. And yet over 40,000 people left teaching last year. It's not a competition. For the umpteenth time - we are not EVER saying that teaching is the only stressful job. Or that lots of jobs aren't underpaid. Why is it that you persist in thinking we are saying this?

And 48,000 people joined the profession!

I'm saying that, to some extent, the pay and conditions balance the stress and disadvantages. That's how recruitment/retention works.

It's stressful and difficult and long hours, but the pay is decent, and the pension and holidays are exceptional. Only an individual can say whether the balance is right for them.

"It's stressful." Yes, I'm sure it is. The package reflects that it's more stressful than working in retail or care

JumpstartMondays · 12/10/2024 14:52

FrippEnos · 12/10/2024 13:49

You can change most to some if you like. It was an attempt to not generalise.

So you attempted not to generalise by.... generalising 😂

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