Who is being unreasonable?
I am doing a really stressful full time work and uni one year postgrad. I have previous form for getting very overwhelmed etc.
This year, I have no summer hols as will be working and studying the whole time.
DH is taking our kids camping, for a week in july with family member and their kids mon-fri , I am not going, as have full time work/uni, no time off etc.
Family member wants to come back to our house for the weekend after camping to prolong their holiday.
Family member will come to us and expect meals and activities for them and their kids for whole weekend. Wil not contribute a bean, (and tbh DH will not ask for it).
I have 4000 word assignment due the following week. Which I will be v stressed out about. I don't want them to come here.
I haven't got time, my studies are for 1 important year, I can't be organised and do everything.
DH knows having them to stay will put me under pressure with my work/uni but still wants them to come, he won't want to say no. He's kind.
DH says its up to me, but I will get the guilt trip if I say no.
It will be me doing all the prep/shopping/cooking etc if they come.
AIBU ? I feel I can't do everything.. its crap but its just this one year. I have to get through my postgrad, that takes priority to me.
Thanks for reading!