AIBU.. Reactions to walking to primary school?

Japan too (although elementary school starts at six here). They have little walking groups, but they walk without adults.

Where did I say OP is trying to have an argument about it? I said it's no wonder she's getting peoples opinions if she is asking lots of people about it, which she said she is 🤷‍♀️

If you have a child who is going to start school, people want to know what school, then they want to talk about how they are going to get there. I doubt the OP is TRYING to have an argument about it.

I walk my child to school every day. It’s a mile. I don’t have a car so no other choice.

In my part of London most people walk, the majority of those who drive are coming to & from work or live further away/have 2 different pick ups etc

Walking is seen as a radical act these days, which I find the most bizarre thing ever as a Londoner. We walk to school and back each day (0.60 mile each way) and other parents clearly think we’re absolutely mental. Personally I find the walk gives us both some chill time and also a chance to talk. I’ve lost count how many kids I see pulled from cars screaming. Whilst we calmly scoot past! If it’s snowing we catch an uber, if it’s pouring with rain the bus, both take longer than walking.

I find it odd when people say it's not fair in children to walk a long way or walk I'm bad weather. With the exception of severe wind and hailstone I've never known a child not enjoy being out in all weathers, they also have huge amounts of energy. It seems adults use this as an excuse for their own laziness or dislike for weather.

I agree, we do have a really close school (0.2miles) which we couldn't get into. One of the families a few doors down drives! Yet you also get people further away using our street to park as its so close, I cannot understand driving from there, it must be so much extra stress for the sake of a few meters closer

It seems odd to drive 0.2m as by the time you have got in the car & parked walking would be quicker plus there is likely still some walking involved as you can’t normally park outside a school. Are you sure some of these people aren’t going onto work?

People are lazy, that's the problem. Our local school, people drive from literally down the street - then moan they can't find anywhere to park. Walking is by far better for you and your child.

How on earth have you got 3-4 hours a day spare? I drive mine the 1/2 mile to school, aside from his disability that makes it an absolute ball ache to walk (carry him) that distance, the extra couple of hours a week it frees up make a real difference to what I can earn.

Describing ones family as outdoorsy is not in the least pretentious, plenty of families drive everywhere and prefer gaming to physical activity

This drives me nuts - they're more than capable of walking, even in the rain and cold.

It's the same with playing in the garden - the amount of people who stop them in the winter is ridiculous.

YANBU, if you have time to walk then that's the best thing to do, even, and perhaps especially, in bad weather (as it teaches them resilience). I've had conversations about walking to school with other parents, but we've all been in agreement that walking or cycling are the best options. DD has always walked (just over a mile to her primary school) except when its been colder than -30 (even then sometimes she has to walk), and next autumn she'll be walking/biking just over 2 miles each way to school. She is outraged that I'll be driving DS to school for the first 10 weeks but that's only because I won't have time to walk him there (and that's even with dropping him off at the very earliest time for before-school care, at 7) and get back again to get to my work placement in time, but once my placement is finished he'll be walking)

And children like walking when they're used to it and have built up their stamina. 6 year old DS is always wanting to go for walks - he's currently walking around the forest nearby, about a mile long round walk.

I think it sets them up great, we’re ridiculously rural (nearly get knocked down daily walking the dog along a non existent grass verge and because the kids are driven so much when we go for hikes they act like we’re killing them!!

If you can do it, great! I wouldn’t have have to get to work if I did it though lol.

As long as you have REALLY good water proofs, do your little one doesn’t have to sit in wet clothes all day. And you pick up with drinks in the heat then go for it!

So just ignore them? That's their opinion which they are entitled to and you have a different opinion. You don't need to mention the walking to people.
You can walk with him and see how it works out. If you find that he's too tired after a long day you can pick him up in the car. You can decide whether to walk or not based on the weather forecast. It doesn't have to be some kind of ideological "We are walking to school no matter what" kind of thing.
You can walk as it's good exercise but you can also talk him in the car as and when necessary.
I wouldn't be walking with him if the weather is very bad and he's likely to get cold and wet (and that can happen even with the best waterproofs) and he then has to sit in school all day.

My mother was by no means a helicopter parent but I remember even she was incredulous that the children of the family we were visiting in Switzerland walked alone to school in the dark (mid-winter).

The other element to walking/cycling to school is that children learn better after they've taken some exercise. They find it easier to settle and focus, sleep better and eat better. So whilst the fun of it is one thing, the education and health benefits make it more compelling. Just don't expect to win any 'smartest uniform' prizes as those will be swept up by immaculate children stepping out of cars at the school gate!

1.3 miles is close by. It's not even a walk. I think most children who live near a primary school would walk there and back. Don't worry about it.

@Giveupnow We are a no/low car use family, my kids haven’t got special personalities that make them more able to walk, what they have had is more exposure to walking than high car use kids get.
it took time to build up that stamina, to build up their tolerance. Patience and frequent low stress walking /cycling journeys from 2years means that now at 6 and 9 both my kids can cycle at least 5km without grumble.

but you can’t do a foot commute without having already built tolerance through low stress walks to shops/parks/friends etc

Walking is absolutely fine, of course. My only concern would be play dates. Sod's Law says his best friend will live a couple of miles the other side of the school. And after school clubs in the winter. And days when you are a little unwell-unwell enough not to want to add an extra 3.5 mile walk to your day.

Primary was about the same distance for us. Always walked DS to school but for the first couple of terms I did pick up in the car. He's pretty robust but it was so full on at school and everything being new he really struggled on the way home. Once we hit the summer term and he was more used to school life we walked both ways.

Your plan sounds brilliant. Far too many wimpy kids and precious parents who can’t walk more than 10 feet or get cold/wet.
As long as walking doesn’t make you late for work (sounds like you have that covered), crack on!

In Switzerland small children are all expected to walk to school. Alone.