Lighthearted, just wonder what people think. My partner is loving and generous with his time and affection. We split chores equally and he chooses nice thoughtful presents. He's not flashy as he doesn't earn lots and, yes, I probably want a more expensive ring than he'd be comfortable buying. I want to be proud of wearing my ring for the rest of my life and don't mind putting some money towards that. I think it's sort of weird he's expected to by me a very expensive gift without an equivalent. My friend thinks I'm mad! But the alternative seems a ring I might not like or an awkward and potentially hurtful conversation about budget!