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AIBU to try and find a love rat on a dating site.

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Slatkater · 19/06/2024 19:12

Long story short a very good friend of decades has been sucked in by a narcissistic bastard she met on a dating site. He is abusive and a text book narcissist. He has broken her and she believes everything he says no matter how ridiculous. She has lost her mind. I can’t give too many details because it would be very identifiable but trust me he is bad news and I am very worried for her.

I believe he is still on dating sites (possibly one’s that are for widows), I want to find him but after signing up to couple I realise it’s a long winded process. Is there an easy way to find people on dating sites, like a Right Move for dating that has everything in one place?

Any suggestions gratefully received.

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AllMyEggsInYourBasket · 19/06/2024 19:37

It sounds like an impossible task. Does she know who he is in real life?

Catza · 19/06/2024 19:33

Unless you have the exact profile picture or it is a site where you can filter by radius, I doubt it.