A few weeks ago, as a very special treat , I took DS(21) out for a meal for his 21st at a very smart restaurant.
There were lots of waiting staff and our water gasses were refilled ( with quite the flourish !) as soon as we had taken more than few sips.
We didn't order any drinks form the menu, TBH I could only cover the meal and not any "extras" .
A few days ago DS says
"If I had bought my own juice would they have kept refilling it ?"
I was confused by this, initially thinking " what ? bring squash so you could add it to the water" , but just generally a bit perplexed as to what he meant.
This was not a restaurant that sold " juice" ( whatever it was he actually meant by that)
I must have looked confused as DS was quite angry saying "WHAT don't you understand !"
He does have difficulty with making putting what he wants across and I try very hard to understand him, but he can be incredibly obtuse at times.
Would you have been confused by what he said ?
What he actually meant was , If he had ordered a drink from the menu would that drink have been refilled over and over , as was the case with the water.