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To think this house is too remote to be feasible

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HungryHouseHunter · 17/06/2024 17:04

Name change. Posting in AIBU for traffic. We are considering putting an offer on this house. It's exactly the style we want with more land than we wanted but I'm worried it's too far from Winchester where we started looking. To get the train station I'll need to drive, to get to the shops I'll need to drive! Does anyone do this ? Do you end up resenting the inconvenience? For example I couldn't just pop out for a big shop, I think I would need to drive to Winchester and pay for parking etc. Would need to pay for parking at train station when using it (at least twice a week). Do these things just get more and more annoying. Currently live somewhere where car isn't even really needed.

Also value for money?

https://www.rightmove.co.uk/properties/145236887

Check out this 6 bedroom detached house for sale on Rightmove

6 bedroom detached house for sale in Shepherds Lane, Compton, Winchester, Hampshire, SO21 for £2,450,000. Marketed by Savills, Winchester

https://www.rightmove.co.uk/properties/145236887

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schloss · 17/06/2024 18:04

@HungryHouseHunter Either you want to live rurally (not that this really is) or you do not - if driving, paying for parking and not having 1 or 5 coffee shops close by are really of interest to you then any rural property will not be for you.

To live rurally you have to accept there will be differences in how you live.

Large areas of grass can be mown with a ride on mulching mower, therefore no cuttings to worry about.

The property is a converted barn which would have been part of a farm, therefore you are always going to have other farms close by, so there will be silo's, combines working late at night, livestock noise and smells, tractors on the road etc etc - it goes back to by first point either you want to live rurally or you do not. Make your choice.

TiredDonut · 17/06/2024 18:01

I'd also check for noise as you're very close to the motorway 😐

TiredDonut · 17/06/2024 17:59

Doesn't look remote to me, you'll be fine.
We're 15 miles from the nearest (small) supermarket and manage perfectly well. You just learn to stock up and not rely on being able to pop out for things (although in this location I don't think that'd be a bit deal).

I've never looked back since moving to a rural location, I love the peace and quiet and being close to nature. If you like a drink though, bear in mind one of you will always be driving if you go out....although so close to a city maybe taxis will be ok...?
Where we are, taxis, takeaways and good internet speed are not an option, so check these kind of things out if they're important you.

The house isn't to my taste, for that price I'd keep looking, it looks cold and soulless and the land needs a lot of work to make it interesting, but if you love it then go for it 🤷🏻‍♀️

Roadaheadclear · 17/06/2024 17:57

Have you checked road noise? We rented about that distance from the M1 and it felt like a background roar.

PeonySeasons · 17/06/2024 17:56

HungryHouseHunter · 17/06/2024 17:46

I appreciate you pointing out those grain silos.

See also significant muck spreading onto grain crops every spring. Do not underestimate the scale of the work on that farm, it's clearly a very large and busy one.

NorthUtsireSouthUtsire · 17/06/2024 17:55

We live very rurally . Our view is to die for .. it makes me incredibly happy everyday whatever the weather.. so I had to do two ESSENTIAL things before moving .. teach all the kids to drive as am NOT doing pick ups .. and remind myself NEVER to moan about driving 5 miles for bread/milk..

I accomplished all that fairly swiftly.. and have never regretted a single moment ..

Teamarugula · 17/06/2024 17:54

CormorantStrikesBack · 17/06/2024 17:41

It’s like half a mile off the M3, it’s the opposite of remote! Anywhere you live you need to drive to a supermarket if doing a big shop.

No, not everywhere. Shopping trolleys ftw! Or panniers on a bike.

Thegreatgiginthesky · 17/06/2024 17:53

Are the surrounding fields organic? I would be worried about pesticide spray. Plus the epc is v poor so would need to look at investing in some renewable.

HungryHouseHunter · 17/06/2024 17:52

Mykittensmittens · 17/06/2024 17:50

I lived in a house where the kitchen and sitting room were on different floors. It was a bit of a pain in terms of constantly seeming to carry a mug or glass up or down. The most transition in houses is between kitchen and living spaces and that would be different here - stairs to move between those spaces. Worth considering if that would annoy you after a while.

Weirdly I've also lived in a house like that so that didn't put us off. Just that extra 5 seconds of thinking "anything else I need from here" before leaving the room is ingrained in me already !

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TiredDonut · 17/06/2024 17:50

Notsuchafattynow · 17/06/2024 17:07

You could get a supermarket delivery.

And if you can afford the house, parking costs would be inconsequential.

I'm not remotely rural, but everything is a car drive away. (Apart from the pub).

😂🤣😂😂😂

Mykittensmittens · 17/06/2024 17:50

I lived in a house where the kitchen and sitting room were on different floors. It was a bit of a pain in terms of constantly seeming to carry a mug or glass up or down. The most transition in houses is between kitchen and living spaces and that would be different here - stairs to move between those spaces. Worth considering if that would annoy you after a while.

UtterlyUnimaginativeUsername · 17/06/2024 17:49

We're selling a nice bungalow in the country on half an acre to move back into town. The travel is a pain and the garden is too big for me to keep under control.

LordPercyPercy · 17/06/2024 17:48

I'd very very worried about new build encroachment on my views of random fields, given your promiximity to some quite popular towns and the M3.

saveforthat · 17/06/2024 17:48

Wavesaves · 17/06/2024 17:12

It's almost as if OP posted it as she just wants some random Internet strangers to know she's pretend considering a 2.45 million house🤔

Or she could be selling it.

VickyEadieofThigh · 17/06/2024 17:48

HungryHouseHunter · 17/06/2024 17:31

Yes, small ones. We hope they would love the open space. Yes I'm also worried about that.

I'd be more worried about spending half my life ferrying my children tò school, activities, see friends - including when they're teenagers.

hidinginthegarden · 17/06/2024 17:47

Hahahaha! Rural?!?
You are about 3 mins drive from a corner shop (Nisa) in Otterbourne, 7 mins from Sainsbury's at Badger Farm (with Starbucks) and the same distance to hiltingbury and chandlers ford which is lovely and villagey with a good range of amenities or Romsey.

Parking in Winchester is expensive but you can also get a bus from the main road into Winchester or Southampton and there is perfectly adequate parking and ride. You are ten mins drive to Southampton airport and train direct to London (in an hour and 10 mins).

So not really rural until you turn off the main road (by the m3).

SweetLathyrus · 17/06/2024 17:47

@HungryHouseHunter I live a few miles from there, and work in Winchester - you need to consider that anywhere that doesn't need a commute to the train station will put you living next the main line to Waterloo - it runs very near to some of the most expensive houses in the city. Trains are very regular and very loud. The PP who said million pound town houses are a London thing has never been to Winchester (why I don't live there!)!

It's a lovely city, good schools, great transport links, but unless you are very central (less space, and very close to neighbours), you'll need to drive most places.

Deadpretty · 17/06/2024 17:46

HungryHouseHunter · 17/06/2024 17:45

Oh god. Had not even considered that!

We have a fast tractor and it takes DH 3 and a half hours to do a similar sized plot.

HungryHouseHunter · 17/06/2024 17:46

FOJN · 17/06/2024 17:40

The house is a bit further along the road than the other collection of houses but this house is really not remote at all. The neighbours all seem to have swimming pools.

Looks like the house is opposite some grain silos, be prepared for late night activity during harvest and lots of dust.

If you are accustomed to walking to all amenities and a short drive feels like it will be an "outing" then I'm not sure this is the house for you. For those of us who don't live in cities a short drive is normal.

I appreciate you pointing out those grain silos.

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Cattysm · 17/06/2024 17:45

What a ghastly little shack. Is it ex council?

Whowhatwherewhenwhy1 · 17/06/2024 17:45

I wonder why the listing does not show the other 4 bedrooms or bathrooms? At that price I would expect comprehensive details and images.

Deadpretty · 17/06/2024 17:45

@HungryHouseHunter the reason I mentioned about freehold is that we got all the way into conveyancing only to find the EA had misadvertised it.

HungryHouseHunter · 17/06/2024 17:45

Deadpretty · 17/06/2024 17:42

Oh, and one other thing - the cost of a tractor to mow the lawn (no gardener will bring one to you) and consider where you would dispose of the grass. That’d about 4 to 5 green wheelie bins in grass cuttings alone.

Oh god. Had not even considered that!

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ChristmasCwtch · 17/06/2024 17:43

I don’t think it’s that nice to be honest. I love barn conversions. I’d want it finished to a high standard for the price.

RobinEllacotStrike · 17/06/2024 17:42

The parking will break you 😁

YABU - everyone knows on a parking thread there MUST be a diagram