There's no such thing as an independent female

This would be a dealbreaker for me.
I couldn't be in a relationship with someone who clearly hates women.

He's wrong on women fighting in wars, but you are mistaken if you think a world run by women would be less warlike. Women have caused wars, fought in them (the women of Leicester fought from the walls during the English Civil War, for example, and were not the only women at the time to do such a thing) and plenty have taken armies onto the field, if not actually joined in the fighting - you need a lot of umph to wield a battle axe - e.g. (examples from Britain btw), Margaret of Anjou, the Empress Matilda, Aethelflaed, the Lady of the Mercians, Catherine of Aragon, Boudica, Margaret Tudor (had cannons fired on her second husband - they did not get on) and generally the chatelaine of a castle would have to defend them if attacked. And women have caused as many wars - and been as vicious during sacks. So we obviously do not need men to cling onto - suggest you tell him this.
And who wants to sign onto anything with nasty Andrew Tate? Rapist etc? He wants you to sign onto something produced by a rapist?

I suspect that he's always had these tendencies but they were probably hidden in subtle ways. Chivalry or just a natural tendency to have a more traditionally male/female set up at home and then you have a situation like this where you wake up one day and realise he's a raging misogynist. And stupid to boot.

It's probably time to start rethinking this relationship completely OP. I'm sorry.

Decent, normal blokes have no interest in Andrew Tate. He has nothing to offer anyone.
I have no idea how he casts this spell over some people. If you see him interviewed, he struggles even to make eye contact, so not sure why some people find him so charismatic and appealing.
I've seen the video where he is violent to a woman with a belt, the one where he admits he used to deal, and am well aware that he himself effectively admitted to grooming young women for cam work, despite his recent backtracking.
How do his 'fans' not know all this? Some people really need a guru to spoon feed them and are happy to take things at face value. Sad really.
Run a mile and then run a few more OP.

Plenty of lesbian communities where they do everything for themselves.

Agree to disagree, I think it’s pretty obvious that he’s a complete misogynist. Also hard disagree on calling him eloquent or compassionate!

He sounds like he’s got underlying insecurities!!

In the bin!!

Is he aware Tate has been charged with human trafficking and rape? https://apnews.com/article/andrew-tate-romania-trial-human-trafficking-rape-4dde5de557094c6eadde73722833327a#:~:text=A%20court%20in%20Romania's%20capital,gang%20to%20sexually%20exploit%20women.

Oh dont be daft

On average men are better at strength and speed and the best man will beat the best woman

I stand by that despite your examples which really prove the point

So what? It's just biology and it doesn't make a man better or superior really does it ? Women are better at giving birth - that's biology again

Biology is real - don't deny where it does matter as that just makes you look stupid and so weakens the case for women to be taken seriously where biology doesn't make a difference
Like logical thinking and factual analysis

Whatever he pretended to be like when dating, he’s now well down the Andrew Tate rabbit hole. It’s time to start planning for your exit.

Since you describe him as your DP not your DH, you need to be aware you are entitled to child support and assets with your name on them only. If he’s got the savings / the house in his name, you won’t get a penny (unless you manage to show your contributions in court - expensive, lengthy court proceedings and not guaranteed to succeed).

Giving up work will mean you are trapped. If he gets even more abusive, you won’t be able to leave. He sounds like the type to give you a card to make purchases and then check receipts (so you can’t ’steal his money’). Do you want to be begging for money for basic clothes for you and the children? Because this type of man will be happy to make you do so.

If Tate thinks women are intrinsically lazy he should read some of the threads on here. Fox example the one with the poor woman just home from an op whose husband is not lifting a finger to help her. I've seen too many other threads about useless waste of space husbands.

Reaching high things - I'm taller than most men on my family and half the men in DHs so I'm better at that.

Thumping things hard - Nicola Adams

Throwing things - Jessica Ennis-Hill

Running fast - Katarina J-T.

Just off the top of my head.

I actually like men (proper ones who aren't d!cks), but there's always women who can do things better than most men.

'No such thing as an independent female, DH? Why don't we put that to the test and you pack your bags and leave? Cheerio.'

I would leave to protect my DD from this sort of bullshit

This is more than being misogynistic, his treatment of you is classic gaslighting.

Anyway time to demonstrate what an independent female looks like

There are still some very simple tribes in various places in the world

They tend to hold women in high esteem and women have a place at the table when it comes to running the tribe

Because the men admit that they would starve if it wasn't for the women managing a regular supply of food - hunting is too unreliable

OP I would bet money that you haven’t prioritised your career due to your family. And now he’s wormed worked is way into to essentially the same career as you in order to better you.

dump his arse and start focusing on your career and what you want from it. He’s gone now, any views of you and women that he’s kept hidden so far are now in the open and he doesn’t feel the need to hide anymore

Men are generally better at reaching high things , at thumping things hard, throwing things and running fast

Not terribly useful overall and not things to be admired really but they do have their uses

I hear that as "oh you silly woman, you should have just been like me, a big man, and accidentally fallen into a job".

Before you leave him, point out that if he can only see worth in money, his value as a "man" is lower than those who can see value in happiness and family.

We would apparently perish in good time because we 'cannot hunt

He regularly slaughters a mammoth for the kitchen, does he?

Arsehole!

I'm planning a sit down chat tonight about this and other things

What “chat” do you think will address the fact he’s a misogynist cockwomble?

Don’t chat, run.

😁

I think the major red flag is listerning to anything Andrew tate has to say .

Sorry, I meant the part where you said "I think it's true men are generally better at some things". I'm curious to hear what things you think men are generally better at than women.