There's no such thing as an independent female

This. Did nt you talk at all before you married?

Honestly, these would be a total deal breaker for me! I’d fuck it off quicker than any man would change a tyre for me 😂 Andrew Tate is scum of the earth along with his cult of incels.

In truth, we're all interdependent as a pp said.

I'm dependent on the milkman, who will soon deliver the milk (I hope), he's dependent on whoever supplies that milk to him. I'm dependent on bus drivers, shop people, the pharmacist when I pick up my prescription later, that same pharmacist is dependent on doctors writing the prescriptions and big pharma for producing the meds, delivery drivers ...I could go on. We all could.

I don't need to change tyres, no car. Does your Andrew Tate fan boy hunt or mend roofs, OP? What he's said is rubbish, we all know that, but what is most concerning is that he was surprised you didn't want to sign up to the odious man's 'course' and the effects of men like this on your children. Their own father.

If he wants examples of lazy, he need look no further than AT who appears to think it's acceptable to take the money from women he's forced into prostitution and then attempt to rake in money from setting up 'courses' to teach others how to be like him.

Sex trafficking = living off women. So not such an independent man.

This

i am so sorry.
The upside is he’s shown his arsehole self after 9 years not 20!

If he likes Andrew Tate he's a fucking moron.

The ball's in your court.

If you stay with him, you've proved him right.

Not exactly the same but I had a partner who fell into conspiracy theory videos online (the moon landing was faked etc). I was shocked at the speed at which he was "brainwashed," and he was an intelligent person with no prior leanings towards that kind of thing. The relationship was in its death throes anyways but I still remember being blindsided by how thoroughly he believed it.

What your husband is saying is very frightening in his hatred towards women, I wouldn't feel comfortable and there's your daughter too.

I read as far as “Andrew Tate” and need to know nothing beyond that. Run. Run away screaming. Run far and fast.

So , your partner agreed with AT and wrote your daughter off as 'intrinsically lazy' in the process? I couldn't live with that.

They often wear masks when they walk among us.

Just like abuse frequently doesn't start until pregnancy.

It's not too late to prove him wrong: LTB.

Seriously OP, going by your updates it sounds like you won't just be happier, but you'll also thrive.

He's unequivocally a misogynist and unequivocally wrong. It's time to dump that loser. Keep in mind that men like this often become abusive. That Tate bastard is a rapist and sex trafficker and this guy defends him? Fuck a bunch of that. He looks up to scum because he's scum.

You have had blinders on for a very, very long time. You have been ignoring red flags for years. This shit that came out of his mouth isn't new, you've just glossed over it.

Prove him wrong by dumping his arse and fucking off into the sunset.

With the children, of course. I’m sure he’ll be shocked that you’re able to manage with them alone.

You can’t stay with this misogynistic and truly stupid cunt.

It would be rampantly self-destructive to remain in this gross relationship OP. Sorry you’re having a to deal with it.

To think he has finally revealed his true self after 9 years and 2 DC.
Whether you were blinded by love or manipulated and deceived,
at least you know now what kind of women -hating-twat he really is.

When they show you who they are, believe them .

Andrew Tate !?!?
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I'm so sorry you are with this moron/proto-hominid
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Does he still believe those things? Just wondering if he is trying to reconcile while still holding some of those views.

If AT is anything to go by, there's no such thing as an independent male, seeing AT makes a living from persuading women to enter the sex trade and to give him the money they make from it.

In my book, that makes AT a parasite, dependent on women.

Neither your daughter nor your son need that kind of influence from their dad. Can you imagine the kind of adults he'll shape them into? It's tragic.

@Yoyodiet You're clearly an educated woman with an income of her own so honestly, you'd be OK getting rid. I'm not saying it will be easy (having been there myself), but you deserve respect.

Well let’s look on the bright side, you’re not married, and you haven’t mentioned kids (unless I missed it), which is going to make it much easier when you leave to become, you know, an independent woman.

NGL I've been with my husband for 18 years and love him more than anyone else on earth and if he ever suggested to me that Andrew Tate is anything more than a sweaty gooch he'd find himself divorced quicker than a whippet with a bum full of dynamite.

@EBearhug similar - my father pissed off when I was a child, and I never bothered dating. Where is the man I'm supposed to have been dependent on for fifty years? I'm glad to say he never materialised. Shit-eating misogynists are ten a penny, and every time I see posts like this, I am even more grateful for being single lifelong.