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To think people don't use public transport as its so unreliable

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Outandabout43 · 15/06/2024 21:39

Have drove for the last 15 years so not really used public transport, however since moving area and now in walking distance to a train station have started to use this more.

It's actually cheaper to use the train to visit family if it's just myself and DD then it is to drive, and also takes an equal amount if time. Also cheaper to use the train into city centre then to pay for parking.

However, everytime I use the train, the train is either cancelled or delayed meaning we miss the connecting train and have to sit and then wait over an hour which is not fun with a 3 year old. Also nearest bus stop into the city is a 40 minute walk away.

Now I actually prefer public transport to driving, but not so much when an hours journey ends up taking 3.

We are being encouraged to use public transport more, but is there any wonder people don't.

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SlowerMovingVehicle · 17/06/2024 14:02

Yanbu but the main reason is because it stinks of pot and the people round here are rude, dirty, smelly, verbally abusive and/or miserable. Guaranteed to ruin your day.

lookes · 17/06/2024 14:01

We don't have a car and use public transport almost every day, and for holidays. It works fine for us, although we have always made sure that we've chosen our home/school/work so that walking is an option. We've also chosen to live in London where the network is extensive and there are good alternatives if one line is down.

But there are many families we know in London who never use public transport, so reliability is not the only factor. I think people like to be in their own space in their car where they can chat without people overhearing or play music out loud, they don't want to do a bit of extra walking to stations, don't like being close to other people and potentially have to stand, or sit next to a stranger, don't want to carry their belongings and have to sit with it on their lap instead of tucking it in the boot

OonaStubbs · 17/06/2024 13:47

There needs to be bike paths which are ENTIRELY separate from the roads which are full of dangerous drivers and people distracted by their phones.

LameBorzoi · 17/06/2024 13:18

Auburngal · 17/06/2024 06:32

There are people like me who can’t ride a bike

Can't ride a standard two wheel non assist bike under current road conditions, or can't ride any type of bike under actual bike friendly conditions (which don't really exist in the uk)?

If we had real bike friendly conditions, almost anyone who could drive could ride a bike, and many people who can't drive could ride bikes.

daffodilandtulip · 17/06/2024 12:47

Allfur · 17/06/2024 12:38

Or a 20 min bike ride

Unfortunately, using a bike in our city is a death wish.

PricklyPearNoThornsPlease · 17/06/2024 12:46

Allfur · 17/06/2024 12:36

If the roads aren't safe you're allowed to cycle on the pavement

a) not according to the Highway Code
b) not everywhere has pavements anyway

Chersfrozenface · 17/06/2024 12:43

Allfur · 17/06/2024 12:36

If the roads aren't safe you're allowed to cycle on the pavement

No, you're not.

Highway Code Rule 64
You MUST NOT cycle on a pavement.

Unless it is a designated shared use path, which will be shown by signs and surface markings. The vast majority of pavements are NOT shared use paths.

Allfur · 17/06/2024 12:40

kitsuneghost · 16/06/2024 15:11

For me it's cost. Time is similar
Train £145
Flight £68 + £16 local train to airport
Driving £100

Have you added in annual car costs to that £100

Allfur · 17/06/2024 12:38

daffodilandtulip · 16/06/2024 14:34

DD college is 2.5 miles away. She will often walk but during bad weather / exam days I've been taking her - it takes ten minutes to drive. A bus would take a 5 minute walk then 55 minutes on the bus plus a 9 minute walk and is £4 each way.

Or a 20 min bike ride

Allfur · 17/06/2024 12:36

LameBorzoi · 16/06/2024 12:48

So true I would love to use public transport. I would love to sit and read instead of battling traffic. But the services just aren't there.

In a similar vein, I would love to ride my bike to work. However, the bike lanes we build are unusable, and traffic is terrifying. So I use a car.

If the roads aren't safe you're allowed to cycle on the pavement

Allfur · 17/06/2024 12:35

MariaVT65 · 17/06/2024 03:01

Ha. I knew there’dbe someone.

Point of this thread though isn’t it. I value my time more than anything else. I can’t afford to spend an extra 2 hours a day on public transport.

Edited

You didn't mention the time aspect before

BabySnarkDoDoo · 17/06/2024 08:44

YANBU. I prefer getting the train to work as it builds in some extra exercise walking from home to the station then the station to work. However, at least a couple of times a month the train gets cancelled at the last minute and I have to rush back home to drive in. I work somewhere where I have to be there on time to open up.

I've heard that soon you won't be able to buy a train ticket from machines as moving towards digital tickets. At this point I'll stop using trains as I don't want to be faffing with my mobile at the last minute trying to buy a ticket just before the train arrives. No point buying one too far in advance as I can't guarantee the train will get me in on time!

GOTBrienne · 17/06/2024 08:21

We can’t have faster trains because of the type of tracks we have/number of stops. Apparently for the size of country we have loads of stations compared to European places.
i know on the east coast the mainline trains stop at Newcastle, Durham, Darlington, York - I don’t think it’s enough distance inbetween to gain any speed.

LlynTegid · 17/06/2024 07:44

Smelly people are a factor too, and sometimes anti-social behaviour.

Badbadbunny · 17/06/2024 07:41

camelfinger · 17/06/2024 06:25

There really needs to be as much investment in public transport as there is on roads. There is an extensive road network that covers the whole of the UK. Someone must have decided to spend money to make that happen and maintain it over the years. People willingly spend thousands on their cars but expect public transport to be low cost/free and go everywhere that cars do. I hope driverless cars will be the longer term solution to make the most of the existing road network that has been prioritised over public transport.

The uk spends far more on public transport than it does on roads.

Auburngal · 17/06/2024 06:32

There are people like me who can’t ride a bike

camelfinger · 17/06/2024 06:25

There really needs to be as much investment in public transport as there is on roads. There is an extensive road network that covers the whole of the UK. Someone must have decided to spend money to make that happen and maintain it over the years. People willingly spend thousands on their cars but expect public transport to be low cost/free and go everywhere that cars do. I hope driverless cars will be the longer term solution to make the most of the existing road network that has been prioritised over public transport.

northernballer · 17/06/2024 06:12

I have epilepsy and can't drive, the awful public transport is really limiting.

PurpleWhiteGreen123 · 17/06/2024 06:00

I live in South London and work for Transport for London.

As long as you are heading for Zone 1, you are golden. Many buses head there and the trains are...satisfactory.

But despite improvements, going from one neighbourhood to another in South London can involve several changes and a loss of the will to live. It's also very expensive for the distance covered.

I'm considering investing in my own transport, so I don't have to wait in bus stops for ages whilst the service "regulates".

It's honestly quicker to do some journeys by bike or car.

In the outer boroughs like Bromley, engagement with public transport is much lower because it's so poor. The Mayor is trying to tackle this by introducing pay-per-mile (in 2025, I think) but tbh, you need good alternatives put in place first^^ before taking away your right to drive a car. We keep being told, get on your bike, but London is HUGE and not everyone can!

Roeland · 17/06/2024 05:58

Agree entirely. Would rather use the train to get to work but can't take the risk

Honourspren · 17/06/2024 05:35

Allfur · 16/06/2024 21:53

A 10 min drive is possible to cycle

I used to be an avid cyclist before I came to this country.

Then I tried cycling here. No safe routes (the few there are randomly start and end after a few metres and often get walked on), enough impatient arseholes who'd overtake way too fast and too closely and roads in such a state that my last tyre lasted less than a month before it got a puncture.

LameBorzoi · 17/06/2024 04:49

MariaVT65 · 17/06/2024 03:01

Ha. I knew there’dbe someone.

Point of this thread though isn’t it. I value my time more than anything else. I can’t afford to spend an extra 2 hours a day on public transport.

Edited

Well yeah, in this case the incentive would be making public transport actually usable. Which means as fast as driving (or close), reliable, affordable, and comfortable.

If it takes half a day to get to work, then people CAN'T use it.

Upgrading public transport would cost serious money, but it could be considered a great investment. Mobility and independence for those who can't drive. Employment. Cut back on health costs due to pollution and lost productivity due to traffic.

MariaVT65 · 17/06/2024 03:01

Allfur · 16/06/2024 21:54

And that's why our roads and environment are fucked

Ha. I knew there’dbe someone.

Point of this thread though isn’t it. I value my time more than anything else. I can’t afford to spend an extra 2 hours a day on public transport.

LameBorzoi · 16/06/2024 22:50

Cooper77 · 16/06/2024 14:41

I stopped using the bus because I couldn’t stand the people. Obviously the majority were fine, but over the years I was groped, sworn at, had men press themselves against me, and often got jammed next to people who stank. The lack of personal space in this country is awful. I’d rather sit in traffic but have my own car, just as I’d rather have a tiny private garden than a giant communal one.

I think that if we had enough buses that people weren't crammed in together, this would be less of a problem

Zanatdy · 16/06/2024 22:47

I live in zone 6 London and in general the trains are fairly reliable and run regularly. Yes there are delays, and strikes and cancellations. But I’d rather 12 mins on the train than 40 mins in the traffic. I grew up in North Wales and the public transport is awful, so when I came to london and saw people cramming into a tube when there’s another 2 mins later I couldn’t believe it. So I try not to moan about the transport here as it’s pretty decent