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Driving on motorways

33 replies

anon3738 · 15/06/2024 16:58

I’ll keep this short cos there’s a lot of background. I don’t have much of a relationship with my mother. I speak to her when I have to and very little details are given because she’s a control freak.

I’m passed my driving test in October 23 and she found out this morning I had planned to take my two kids (13, 8) so not babies on a ‘fun’ day trip a 2.5 hr drive away on the motorway. She absolutely booted off, shouting down the phone at me like I’m a fucking child. Telling me how irresponsible I am, to have some common sense and how she’s clearly the only one looking out for my kids. She said I need experience I’ll end up killing us all and it’ll be on my head.

im a good driver I don’t speed, I drive daily on dual carriageways. I have driven myself to Scotland and back from the Yorkshire area without an incident.
she wants me to do pass plus. I work full time am a single parent and don’t have the ££ or the spare time to take additional lessons.
am I been unreasonable to want to go where I want when I want without having to run everything past my mother.

OP posts:
anon3738 · 15/06/2024 17:06

She’s definitely hard work. She doesn’t know I drove to Scotland I had to lie and say my friend was driving 😂 im 37 years old fgs and I ‘neeeeeeded’ to msg her when I arrived and before I get off then again when I got home. It’s absolutely ridiculous.

OP posts:
DaughterNo2 · 15/06/2024 17:06

Edited as didn’t read your post properly. Sorry!
Your mum is batshit

DappledThings · 15/06/2024 17:06

She's crazy. You're doing an entirely ordinary and normal thing.

QualityDog · 15/06/2024 17:05

She's being ridiculous.

Abaracadabara · 15/06/2024 17:04

Is she quite well in the head?

Savoydone · 15/06/2024 17:04

Sounds like you need even less of a relationship with her.

Floralnomad · 15/06/2024 17:03

Just ignore her , or better still don’t tell her anything .

ThePassageOfTime · 15/06/2024 17:02

Block your mum, enjoy your day!