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Visited parent and house smelt of weed- should I report?

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smellysaurusmum · 14/06/2024 22:20

I work in one of the caring professions and visited the house of a family where the 7 year old daughter has severe medical needs. The house was a state, daughter was on the floor and moved around by crawling everywhere- she seemed happy and crawled over to me for a cuddle. Nothing in that home seemed like there were any safeguarding needs. However, from the minute I walked in, the smell of weed hit me between the eyes and stayed there until I left. Am I within my rights to report the family for drugs being on the premises or should I let go? I have really empathy for the parents dealing with what they are but also feel duty bound to report them. Having said that, other professionals will have been in and smelled the same and not reported the family- should I let it go?

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Scottishshortbread11877 · 14/06/2024 23:46

Surely you wrote a report following home visit ?

GuessingGownaGoGo · 14/06/2024 23:40

I agree this is a breach of child and vulnerable adult safeguarding legislation. I'd be contacting your local authority LADO to report the agency you work for, for sending you into this role, and in to someone's house, with no training.

Having someone in the family home around a child that is also vulnerable due to disabilities, with no safeguarding training, is dangerous for them. They have been put in a dangerous situation and it could happen again.

LADO - report the agency and organisation you are temping for.

OnceICaughtACold · 14/06/2024 23:35

And don’t confuse “reporting” with “judging”. You report facts, to someone else who judges the situation. Keep that straight in your head as it makes it much easier to figure out when to report.

OnceICaughtACold · 14/06/2024 23:33

Sending you to houses of vulnerable children with no safeguarding training is absolutely atrocious.

I would strongly recommend you look for a new job, if the agency don’t protect their clients they sure as hell won’t protect their workers. And when you’re not properly trained, the shit will hit the fan sooner or later.

Your agency must have a safeguarding lead, who is not necessarily your supervisor. But given the situation you’re in, yes I would report in writing to their social worker. Just because something is normal, that doesn’t mean it’s ok.

mathanxiety · 14/06/2024 23:32

Follow the protocols of your role as you've surely been trained to do?

If you have a manager, flag it with him or her.

The house is a state and the parent/s or some other adult smokes weed there - this would add up to a problem to me. FWIW...

NewName24 · 14/06/2024 23:22

MiriamMay · 14/06/2024 22:54

It’s just really concerning that you feel it’s an appropriate to ask this question on social media rather than speak to your boss.

This, absolutely.

As everyone else has said, discuss this with your safeguarding lead and about the house being “a state”. How do you know that no other professional has reported concerns?

and this.

I really hope this isn't real.
It is incredibly worrying that you claim not to know, and that you then don't know who to ask, at work.

AstonMartha · 14/06/2024 23:21

Concerning both that you are asking whether to let it go and posting it on here.

Agency or not you know what to do. If you really don’t you need to get gone and I really hope to never come across you in my role.

Loubelle70 · 14/06/2024 23:18

Im a qualified social worker. If you are in the caring profession you know this is a safeguarding issue that needs reporting.

ShowerOfShites · 14/06/2024 23:15

smellysaurusmum · 14/06/2024 22:48

I'm an agency worker. I'm new. They haven't provided safeguarding training for me yet. I've hit the ground running in this new job. Drugs are rife where I am. This wouldn't be anything out of the ordinary for the families my team work in. I have a supervisor in theory but they're off on long term sick and there's no one else to report to in their absence.

I meant reporting drug use to the family's social worker not the police.

It doesn't matter if you're new or an agency worker.

You KNOW who your manager is/person you report to.

Look to them for an answer, not a public parenting website.

HemmAyes · 14/06/2024 23:14

If you are in a caring profession, as you said in your first post, it doesn't matter whether you're with an agency and thrown in at the deep end.

You will still be a trained or qualified person in order to be doing the role so you should have an idea of risk assessments, what to escalate, who to report to etc. You need to find out who that is for your new area of work, but no-one here can tell you who that is. You'll need to find that out locally

Copperoliverbear · 14/06/2024 23:14

Report

BobbyBiscuits · 14/06/2024 23:13

Of course you should mention to both your employer and the social worker that the house smelled of weed, and you were concerned about cleanliness and safety. You don't need to say they are drug addicts who are neglecting their kid. But it's the truth and it's part of your job to note down and report the conditions your clients reside in surely?

Greenlittecat · 14/06/2024 23:11

I would report this. Follow the safegaurding procedure and have a chat with your line manager if you still aren't sure.

I'm really disappointed in your company for allowing you out without completing safegaurding training! Im a nurse and its always one of the first parts of the on boarding process

mitogoshi · 14/06/2024 23:05

If you have not done the safeguarding training you should not be visiting houses alone. Reporting a possible concern is always the right thing to do, the authorities can then decide whether to pursue more investigation

5475878237NC · 14/06/2024 23:01

OlderGlaswegianLivingInDevon · 14/06/2024 22:51

in that case report both the weed and your agency to the social worker.

And "the state of the house".

This is a terrible agency. Find a new one.

Luminousalumnus · 14/06/2024 23:00

This is crazy op. Of course you know what to do. Even if you are agency you know what to do because it's the same everywhere.
If you feel there were drugs in the house in the presence children or other vulnerable people (rather than say in the lobby of a block of flats) you reported it as a safeguarding each and every time.Not to the police or social services unless you think there is a real and immediate risk of significant harm occurring.
If you don't know the procedure involved in doing this then ask your manager today. Go and email them now. If you are professionally registered failing to report safeguarding incidents will find you in trouble with your professional body.

FatmanandKnobbin · 14/06/2024 22:54

You're in a caring role, supporting vulnerable families, but had no training and have no one to report to, so resort to social media to ask advice?

I would be reporting the company before even thinking about this family.

You're clearly ill equipped to do this job, and have no support or training. How many others are there like you?

These families deserve better.

ButWhatAboutTheBees · 14/06/2024 22:54

Sounds like a dodgy agency to send you out without any training and with no supervisor

Report it then get out of dodge before you end up being scapegoated by this dodgy company

MiriamMay · 14/06/2024 22:54

It’s just really concerning that you feel it’s an appropriate to ask this question on social media rather than speak to your boss.

GoodVibesHere · 14/06/2024 22:53

You should report it, because on balance not reporting it could have more serious repercussions than reporting it.

OlderGlaswegianLivingInDevon · 14/06/2024 22:51

in that case report both the weed and your agency to the social worker.

smellysaurusmum · 14/06/2024 22:48

I'm an agency worker. I'm new. They haven't provided safeguarding training for me yet. I've hit the ground running in this new job. Drugs are rife where I am. This wouldn't be anything out of the ordinary for the families my team work in. I have a supervisor in theory but they're off on long term sick and there's no one else to report to in their absence.

I meant reporting drug use to the family's social worker not the police.

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FatmanandKnobbin · 14/06/2024 22:44

Follow training and safeguarding procedures 👎

Have a little gossip about a struggling family on MN in the hope of a pile on for them 👍

You know many, many families who need support are on here, right? They would absolutely recognise themselves from this thread.

Honestly, just do your job, and stop talking about your clients online where they could easily see it.

MiriamMay · 14/06/2024 22:42

This can’t be real.

There’s no way you could work in a role like that without having done safeguarding training.

Whizzgosh · 14/06/2024 22:40

As everyone else has said, discuss this with your safeguarding lead and about the house being “a state”. How do you know that no other professional has reported concerns?