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If you WFH, what's your Friday afternoon like?

238 replies

OldPine · 14/06/2024 15:32

This week has been full on. 12 hour days Monday & Tuesday. Lots to sort Weds & Thursday so am not gonna lie, I'm now lying on my bed periodically tapping the track pad on my laptop while Mumsnetting and holiday shopping. DH is mowing the lawn! Anyone else taking Friday afternoon a bit easy?

OP posts:
SocoBateVira · 14/06/2024 18:43

FloatyBoaty · 14/06/2024 18:31

I wfh 90% in a creative role. My job isnt a 9-5 - sometimes it’s practically 24/7, or I’m working between time zones so very extended hours, others it’s relatively quiet and I do work roughly 9-5, or I’m in a project phase that needs lots of thought and not much action. Sometimes working means I need to go for a walk and think things over. Sometimes it means I need to sketch or read or watch something, so it would look to someone peering in my window like I’m arseing around. Other times I’m sifting data or bashing out documents and emails with steam coming off my keyboard.

Fridays are different only in that I try not to schedule meetings if i can help it as many of my colleagues are 4 days (off on Fridays) so it’s a good day for deep work, as I’m mostly left alone.

The irony is, success in my industry is measured by results and output not hours, and none of my senior colleagues would give a shit if closed my laptop and went to the pub on a Friday afternoon, as long as I was delivering (and when I worked in the office, that was far from unusual)…. But now I just can’t bring myself to do it (probably because of thread responses like these!)

Blimey, if it's something you'd actually want to do then don't be put off by people who know fuck all.

AhBiscuits · 14/06/2024 18:43

Mine are always frantic. I realise I've run out of time to get everything done and just smash through as much as possible.

CoastalCalm · 14/06/2024 18:43

A lot of people have Friday as a non working day whereas mine is Wednesday so it’s quiet and time to organise emails etc before finishing at 4

Ponderingwindow · 14/06/2024 18:42

It’s one of my most productive times. People try not to schedule meetings. It’s a good chance to get an uninterrupted block of focused work time.

CuttingMeOpenthenHealingMeFine · 14/06/2024 18:41

ll09sm · 14/06/2024 17:30

Any manual workers here also having a lie in or going for lunch with the hubby on Friday afternoons, instead of, you know, working? Checkout operators, shelf stackers, healthcare workers, construction workers, you get the picture.

Who cares? They don’t like it they can get different jobs surely? Why do I have to worry about what others are doing?

TippedOverTheGravyJug · 14/06/2024 18:40

Prepare for weekend. Any shopping , housework and sometimes an hours kip to re set.

I get paid the same salary and incredibly lucky regarding my hours

JLou08 · 14/06/2024 18:40

I work in an office and Friday afternoons are often a lot of chatting and not much work getting done. Most people have had enough by Friday and motivation is lagging.

Stompythedinosaur · 14/06/2024 18:38

Normally Fridays are a slog to catch up all the stuff I haven't finished earlier in the week. I've still got my laptop open, although I'm obviously intermittently on my phone as well as writing letters, since I'm not being paid.

OneTC · 14/06/2024 18:36

POETS day 🍺

Blanketison · 14/06/2024 18:34

Quiet day for meetings so it’s the day I get work done… I don’t work on a Monday so the last couple of hours are frantic emailing to keep the plates spinning until Tuesday!

FloatyBoaty · 14/06/2024 18:31

I wfh 90% in a creative role. My job isnt a 9-5 - sometimes it’s practically 24/7, or I’m working between time zones so very extended hours, others it’s relatively quiet and I do work roughly 9-5, or I’m in a project phase that needs lots of thought and not much action. Sometimes working means I need to go for a walk and think things over. Sometimes it means I need to sketch or read or watch something, so it would look to someone peering in my window like I’m arseing around. Other times I’m sifting data or bashing out documents and emails with steam coming off my keyboard.

Fridays are different only in that I try not to schedule meetings if i can help it as many of my colleagues are 4 days (off on Fridays) so it’s a good day for deep work, as I’m mostly left alone.

The irony is, success in my industry is measured by results and output not hours, and none of my senior colleagues would give a shit if closed my laptop and went to the pub on a Friday afternoon, as long as I was delivering (and when I worked in the office, that was far from unusual)…. But now I just can’t bring myself to do it (probably because of thread responses like these!)

SocoBateVira · 14/06/2024 18:25

FlabMonsterIsDietingAgain · 14/06/2024 18:19

This kind of comment is bullshit because it's 2 completely different and incomparable situations.

I don't do a manual job, I have a leadership role in a global company and WFH permanently. The fact that it's global means I'm on calls at 6am with Australia or Dubai, and at 8pm with US colleagues. The fact that it's a leadership role means I get pulled into urgent issues with little to no notice at whatever time or day the issue occurs.

So if I find myself with a quiet Wednesday morning or Friday afternoon then yes, I'll have a nap, or go for a walk or the shops, because I can't guarantee that I'll be able to do any of those things after 5.30pm as I'll likely be on a call.

Quite.

Unfortunately, we aren't allowed to have threads on here about the terms and conditions of remote workers. It's impermissible. Someone always comes along to whatabout over completely different jobs instead.

FlabMonsterIsDietingAgain · 14/06/2024 18:19

ll09sm · 14/06/2024 17:30

Any manual workers here also having a lie in or going for lunch with the hubby on Friday afternoons, instead of, you know, working? Checkout operators, shelf stackers, healthcare workers, construction workers, you get the picture.

This kind of comment is bullshit because it's 2 completely different and incomparable situations.

I don't do a manual job, I have a leadership role in a global company and WFH permanently. The fact that it's global means I'm on calls at 6am with Australia or Dubai, and at 8pm with US colleagues. The fact that it's a leadership role means I get pulled into urgent issues with little to no notice at whatever time or day the issue occurs.

So if I find myself with a quiet Wednesday morning or Friday afternoon then yes, I'll have a nap, or go for a walk or the shops, because I can't guarantee that I'll be able to do any of those things after 5.30pm as I'll likely be on a call.

Thursdaygirl · 14/06/2024 18:16

Friday is usually for catching up and prepping for the following week, but there was some drama yesterday(not relating to me!) and I have spent a lot of today arranging meetings to get it sorted out

Paulettamcgee · 14/06/2024 18:12

I can barely string together a sentence by Friday. I keep the day free to pick up the admin slack from across the week and to do thinking and problem solving which is what my job should mostly be. I'll only have calls, no online meetings, if absolutely essential. I logged off 10 mins ago so I still do a full day's work.

Echobelly · 14/06/2024 18:02

In my last job, pretty quiet - I was frankly underemployed, in a team of two and I would be mostly just online on my home laptop on a Friday as I was usually out of work that needed doing. I wasn't surprised when I was made redundant at a few months ago as I just don't think there was as much work as they thought there would be for me (it was a new post) - I did try to find some more to do but as it was a big and bureaucratic organisation I couldn't just opt go and do stuff for another team, it all had to be approved and come out of budgets etc so I couldn't make it happen.

About to start a new job which will, at points at least, be a lot more intense than any job I have had before, but then it pays well.

SocoBateVira · 14/06/2024 17:59

ll09sm · 14/06/2024 17:30

Any manual workers here also having a lie in or going for lunch with the hubby on Friday afternoons, instead of, you know, working? Checkout operators, shelf stackers, healthcare workers, construction workers, you get the picture.

Could you tell us why that matters? Just so we get the picture.

Portfun24 · 14/06/2024 17:58

No I just work as productively as any other day and only stop at tea break and lunch, but I'm counting down the hours till our early finish at 4pm. I actually get more done at home because on our two office days there's more chat and tea runs.

StormingNorman · 14/06/2024 17:58

MartyFunkhouser · 14/06/2024 17:04

I always wfh on a Friday so that my husband and I can go out for lunch. I write off the afternoon. I lead a team and I’m happy for most of them (apart from admin) to do the same.

Why not admin? It sounds like they’re getting shafted.

SocoBateVira · 14/06/2024 17:58

I'm part time and don't work on Fridays anyway, but my employer wouldn't care if I arranged my work to have a quiet one/early finish if I did. Long as everything got done, fine. Some of us just don't have jobs where that would be an issue.

OldPine · 14/06/2024 17:57

ll09sm · 14/06/2024 17:19

These thread always go a long way in enforcing the view that businesses have about mandating people back to the office. Where there are pisstakers like OP, there will be genuine people impacted by their behaviour.

I was online at 5.47am Monday morning sorting out a crisis and remained online sorting that, bar a ten minute walk to and from the train station until 21.14pm that evening. Slightly shorter hours on Tuesday but still working on the train at 19.00pm. So no, I don't think having a few easier hours at the end of the week can really be classed as 'taking the piss'.

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Zanatdy · 14/06/2024 17:57

I wish, I’m busy from first thing Monday to finish Friday. I did wfh today as been in 3 days already but usually go to the office on a Friday.

buffyslayer · 14/06/2024 17:56

Same as ever. Answering the phone all day! Expected to be fully working for the full day every day

Huifen · 14/06/2024 17:55

I like Fridays - a lot of my team are p/t and don't work so it's much quieter and I can get quite a bit done! Always wfh

FTPM1980 · 14/06/2024 17:55

No Friday is always manic because everyone else wants to clear their desk before an early finish so I get loads of crap dumped on me and urgent requests for info.