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If you WFH, what's your Friday afternoon like?

238 replies

OldPine · 14/06/2024 15:32

This week has been full on. 12 hour days Monday & Tuesday. Lots to sort Weds & Thursday so am not gonna lie, I'm now lying on my bed periodically tapping the track pad on my laptop while Mumsnetting and holiday shopping. DH is mowing the lawn! Anyone else taking Friday afternoon a bit easy?

OP posts:
hellesbells · 14/06/2024 19:50

FrancisSeaton · 14/06/2024 18:48

lol and people wonder why companies are insisting everyone gets back in the office

They aren't

CordeliaNaismithVorkosigan · 14/06/2024 19:49

I'm senior (Board level) and lead a team. I have to be available to deal with urgent problems at any time, including if I'm on leave. My view is that flexibility absolutely has to cut both ways: I expect a lot of my team, and would be deeply unimpressed if they didn't deal with something important because they'd done their hours for the week, but equally I don't expect them to hang around pretending to look busy when there isn't much on. In our organisation Fridays tend to be quiet but Tuesday to Thursday are hell on roller skates; I would be deeply unreasonable to complain because someone knocked off at 3 or 4 on Friday after working into the evening earlier in the week.

WhatDoIDoPeople · 14/06/2024 19:45

When I worked in an office full time before the pandemic, there was no one to found on a Friday afternoon. I regularly had to stay on site for cover and the only other people there were also 24/7 on site, and/or people running the clock down to make up their hours. Just presenteeism basically.

SpringYay · 14/06/2024 19:42

OldPine · 14/06/2024 17:57

I was online at 5.47am Monday morning sorting out a crisis and remained online sorting that, bar a ten minute walk to and from the train station until 21.14pm that evening. Slightly shorter hours on Tuesday but still working on the train at 19.00pm. So no, I don't think having a few easier hours at the end of the week can really be classed as 'taking the piss'.

Exactly! I work condensed hours 5/4 and I'm meant to have Fridays off but did a few hours today to make up for taking a few hours for kids' Sports Day earlier in the week. When they did a WFH pilot at my work several years before Covid productivity actually went up, offices are full of distractions.....

Mumsnet full of "you are clearly the devil incarnate, if you have the audacity to put on a wash or do a quick hoover, WHEN YOU SHOULD BE WORKING!!!!!!!"
Oh piss off, and calm down!

Hotnamehere · 14/06/2024 19:40

fieldsofbutterflies · 14/06/2024 19:02

If you hate your job so much, you're always free to find another.

I don't hate my job. I quite like it.

Hotnamehere · 14/06/2024 19:38

SisSuffragette · 14/06/2024 19:24

When do admin get to write an afternoon off then?

Only the bosses are allowed to skive.

Hotnamehere · 14/06/2024 19:37

CuttingMeOpenthenHealingMeFine · 14/06/2024 19:26

literally no one would care

I think my customers might.

SisSuffragette · 14/06/2024 19:28

FTPM1980 · 14/06/2024 17:55

No Friday is always manic because everyone else wants to clear their desk before an early finish so I get loads of crap dumped on me and urgent requests for info.

I'm a personal assistant so this is what my Fridays look like too!

CuttingMeOpenthenHealingMeFine · 14/06/2024 19:26

Hotnamehere · 14/06/2024 18:51

Do people start these smug WFH threads just to piss off the people who can't WFH? Imagine if I started a thread saying I'd been for a Friday afternoon kip in the store room.

literally no one would care

SisSuffragette · 14/06/2024 19:24

MartyFunkhouser · 14/06/2024 17:04

I always wfh on a Friday so that my husband and I can go out for lunch. I write off the afternoon. I lead a team and I’m happy for most of them (apart from admin) to do the same.

When do admin get to write an afternoon off then?

OohCookedPerfectly · 14/06/2024 19:23

Hotnamehere · 14/06/2024 18:51

Do people start these smug WFH threads just to piss off the people who can't WFH? Imagine if I started a thread saying I'd been for a Friday afternoon kip in the store room.

I WFH but do travel into the office sometimes and also have some very long days including overnight trips (which are exhausting, not glamorous). For sure I'll take a chilled Friday afternoon WFH if the opportunity presents.

You're free to find a WFH job. HTH.

ballroompink · 14/06/2024 19:18

Quite often my Friday afternoons are busy as there is a rush to get things done before the weekend. I have had a really full on few months at work and this month things have started to calm down a bit. This afternoon I didn't really have anything urgent to do so I responded to messages when needed, did a bit of admin but also did a food shop and booked some dentist appointments for the DCs. I don't feel bad about it - on the days I go to the office I work on my commute (an hour each way on the train) and I also worked Tuesday evening in order to prep for an important meeting first thing on Wednesday.

SocoBateVira · 14/06/2024 19:17

Hotnamehere · 14/06/2024 18:51

Do people start these smug WFH threads just to piss off the people who can't WFH? Imagine if I started a thread saying I'd been for a Friday afternoon kip in the store room.

Well, you probably wouldn't be inundated with responses from remote workers who were outraged you hadn't placed their circumstances at the centre of your post.

fieldsofbutterflies · 14/06/2024 19:02

Hotnamehere · 14/06/2024 18:51

Do people start these smug WFH threads just to piss off the people who can't WFH? Imagine if I started a thread saying I'd been for a Friday afternoon kip in the store room.

If you hate your job so much, you're always free to find another.

BellaBobbins · 14/06/2024 19:02

Our standard contract is 37 hrs per week/148 over four weeks.

There have been times when I've done my weeks "hours" by Wednesday lunchtime, and could pretty much take week four off.

We are an agile organisation; I expect my team to deliver projects on time, within budget and to meet the customer expectations and they do it very well.

People who are lazy and unproductive while WFH will be lazy and unproductive in an office.

ZZTopGuitarSolo · 14/06/2024 19:00

ll09sm · 14/06/2024 17:30

Any manual workers here also having a lie in or going for lunch with the hubby on Friday afternoons, instead of, you know, working? Checkout operators, shelf stackers, healthcare workers, construction workers, you get the picture.

I'm in construction and we give our installers Fridays off because they work so hard Mon-Thurs.

obsessedwithfreshbread · 14/06/2024 18:56

Fridays have always been a laid back day in my work.
Even when in the office the whole team would go down to the canteen for breakfast together for an hour or so, back to our desks and keep an eye on the motorway traffic out of the window and slope off as soon as it started to build (no later than 2pm)

Now we are all remote we have team catch up for an hour or so, half work half catching up usually! All usually wander away from laptops just after lunch

We all work hard and there is an understanding that when required we work late (I've done 10hr days mon-thur this week) and when it's slack we make the most of it (when my mum was dying I did a couple of hours a day) so we're very lucky to have such flexibility

TarantinoIsAMisogynist · 14/06/2024 18:55

ll09sm · 14/06/2024 17:19

These thread always go a long way in enforcing the view that businesses have about mandating people back to the office. Where there are pisstakers like OP, there will be genuine people impacted by their behaviour.

Ah yes, people like the OP, such pisstakers that they were working 12 hr days earlier in the week?

The OP clearly works very long hours some days, why shouldn't the flexibility and goodwill go in both directions?

MummyInTheNecropolis · 14/06/2024 18:53

I’m a teacher so obviously can’t WFH but I do much less on a Friday afternoon than any other day. The kids are knackered by then (I teach little ones), they’re not gonna take much in, and I’ve already read with them all, they’ve done all their writing etc so Friday afternoons are down time for all of us. I go to the cafe for lunch with my colleagues, come back, teach a fun, easy lesson then spend the rest of the afternoon reading stories, playing outside, just having fun with them. Then I leave early and get home by 4pm. I work bloody hard the rest of the week but I love Fridays, and so do the kids.

OohCookedPerfectly · 14/06/2024 18:53

Mine can vary depending from chilled to bonkers depending what comes in.

But my company does summer hours where you can finish on a Friday lunchtime if you've done your hours for the week, so looking forward to that kicking in soon!

culturevulture1984 · 14/06/2024 18:53

Wfh on Fridays. Finish at 4pm if it's quiet,work till 6pm if busy. Today finished 4.30 pm. Made a chilli. All good.

Hotnamehere · 14/06/2024 18:51

Do people start these smug WFH threads just to piss off the people who can't WFH? Imagine if I started a thread saying I'd been for a Friday afternoon kip in the store room.

FrancisSeaton · 14/06/2024 18:48

lol and people wonder why companies are insisting everyone gets back in the office

calamariqueen · 14/06/2024 18:47

I’ve only just finished. Last 1.5 hours has been with the company of a single whisky that arrived with the shopping 😁 happy weekend everyone!

ImFuckingPerfect · 14/06/2024 18:44

MartyFunkhouser · 14/06/2024 17:04

I always wfh on a Friday so that my husband and I can go out for lunch. I write off the afternoon. I lead a team and I’m happy for most of them (apart from admin) to do the same.

Why apart from admin?