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If you WFH, what's your Friday afternoon like?

238 replies

OldPine · 14/06/2024 15:32

This week has been full on. 12 hour days Monday & Tuesday. Lots to sort Weds & Thursday so am not gonna lie, I'm now lying on my bed periodically tapping the track pad on my laptop while Mumsnetting and holiday shopping. DH is mowing the lawn! Anyone else taking Friday afternoon a bit easy?

OP posts:
findingmoi · 15/06/2024 08:11

buffyslayer · 14/06/2024 22:11

@Jeannie88 but not all WFH jobs are like that
I am "on" for the whole time I'm working, and have to account for if I am making a cup of tea etc
My break and lunch is timed and I can't go over it. It's a busy stressful job and I'm mentally wiped by the end of the week
And yes I do know what stressful/physical work is having done it previously but mine is a brain mush kind of wiped now

How do they track you?

SocoBateVira · 15/06/2024 08:07

Jeannie88 · 15/06/2024 00:01

Sorry, from MN it's never come across as this. How do employers check? I was just responding to the OP who felt that having to work hard for a couple of days felt entitled to taking the Friday off. She clearly doesn't represent or give justice to you and others who do. Xx

The lack of understanding screams out from every word of that post.

BernardBlacksBreakfastWine · 15/06/2024 08:06

RishiIsACuntWaffle · 15/06/2024 06:27

How on earth are you able to go to a cafe for lunch. do you work in the UK?!

I wondered this too! No teacher I know has more than about 15 mins to eat lunch!

fedupwithbeingcold · 15/06/2024 07:49

It's a catch up day and I tend to have an "easy" meeting with my senior team at 3pm. After that, we all log off or just keep an eye on things while handling personal stuff

TheFlis · 15/06/2024 07:45

I do more work if I’m at home on a Friday. If I am in the office we usually go out for lunch then crack into the beers around 4.30. If I’m at home I generally eat at my desk and wait until at least 6 for a wine!

tooscaredandtired · 15/06/2024 06:56

If I have work to do I'll do it, if people put in meetings I'll attend but generally by lunchtime there are no meeting and after I've sorted my to do list most stuff can wait until Monday. I think a lot of office jobs are more about output than hours and if the work you need to do is done then no one really cares if you are working 8 hours a day. I'm in the office twice a week and even on those days if I feel I can leave an hour or so early because my work is done then I will, no point just sitting there for the sake of it. Work peaks and troughs through the week and some days are longer than others. Fridays at home seem generally accepted as more chill day even by senior leadership. Output over hours!

notprincehamlet · 15/06/2024 06:35

Started at 7.30 finished at 19.00. Ten minute break for a coffee and a pee. Same as every other day. We've twice as much work and half the number of people to do it as this time last year.

RishiIsACuntWaffle · 15/06/2024 06:27

MummyInTheNecropolis · 14/06/2024 18:53

I’m a teacher so obviously can’t WFH but I do much less on a Friday afternoon than any other day. The kids are knackered by then (I teach little ones), they’re not gonna take much in, and I’ve already read with them all, they’ve done all their writing etc so Friday afternoons are down time for all of us. I go to the cafe for lunch with my colleagues, come back, teach a fun, easy lesson then spend the rest of the afternoon reading stories, playing outside, just having fun with them. Then I leave early and get home by 4pm. I work bloody hard the rest of the week but I love Fridays, and so do the kids.

How on earth are you able to go to a cafe for lunch. do you work in the UK?!

Codlingmoths · 15/06/2024 06:06

I’m with you op. I have meetings mon to wed pm next week, 8:30pm, 7-10pm, 6-8pm and 8:30 - 9:30, so am thinking of finishing early the Friday. I won’t be pretending anything though, I’ll be quite transparent about it! There is no argument for getting people back into the office here, colleagues can see I’ve been actively working all these evenings and I bloody well wouldn’t do it if I had to go to the office every day.

barfotoliv · 15/06/2024 06:03

I'm a teacher so don't work from home, but take Fridays easier in that I leave as soon as lessons are done (2.30pm). Monday-Thursday I leave sometime between 4 and 5. I love the Friday feeling!

Wallywobbles · 15/06/2024 05:48

I work to my best out put. Monday and Tuesday I could easily do 10+ hours. Friday we pretty much avoid meetings but I try to network, finish up outstanding issues and if I'm lucky prepare for my 9am team meeting on Monday. Then go to the Gym + swim.

GeneralMusings · 15/06/2024 00:24

@MrsWidgerysLodger sounds great! What job did you do.

Its so hard when looking at career changing to be able to see by the type of flexibility and atmosphere in the job.

I see "busy" and "fast paced" in ads and then think of threads like this and wonder if it's all relative.

CharlotteBog · 15/06/2024 00:20

Oh the places I have opened a laptop. On a kerb outside a pub. In the dentists waiting room. Restaurant tables obviously, that’s quite civilised. A field once as I had a day off and we went on a day trip to Sheppey

My hair dresser used to have a home salon so I'd walk to her house (2 mins) and do some work while the dye worked its magic. She bloody well moved and now I have to go to the actual salon at the w/e. It's more of a treat I suppose, but it worked so well before.

MrsWidgerysLodger · 15/06/2024 00:19

Can't currently work due to health issues but when I did we used to kick off Friday AM with a quick recap of the week then use the rest of the day if general admin catch up, tidying of those little loose ends, double checking next week's schedule etc. So not particularly arduous stuff but all work nonetheless.

There was an understanding at work that if you got everything done before the working day was finished then that was fine and you were good to "clock off" as it were while being paid for the full day on the proviso you were contactable to jump back in if shit hit the fan.

CharlotteBog · 15/06/2024 00:14

Fridays are no different to other days really. I suppose there's the anticipation of the w/e, but that comes with a feeling of "yay, it's the w/e" and "oh crap, I really wanted to get such a such done" and "I'd better write a list for next week".
In reality, at the moment it depends on what DS2 (15) is up to.
I'm a lone parent and live rurally and my flexible work means I can collect him from town (where his school is) if he's gone to the gym and then to friends or not. Today he didn't need collecting until 7.30pm so I worked until 6pm and then lay on the sofa playing Candy Crush trying not to fall asleep did jobs around the house.
Other days I'll collect him a bit earlier and go back to my desk.

I work in an international team and Friday afternoon tends to be the day people will sign off early if we've had early or late meetings during the week.

buffyslayer · 15/06/2024 00:12

@Jeannie88 call centre
Our status is on a screen so lunch/break etc and you can see how long you've been in each status, if you're on a call or available
Rest time (toilet/drink) needs to be less than 10 mins per day
Calls come through automatically (incoming and outgoing) so you can't leave your desk

Yes I can MN/read if not on a call but can't leave my desk (time between calls is few and far between!)

MissTrip82 · 15/06/2024 00:06

Three times as productive as an officer-worker’s Friday afternoon, if WFH threads are to be believed.

Lol at the busy stressful job that involves a two hour admin clean up and ends at 4pm.

Noshadealltea · 15/06/2024 00:04

MartyFunkhouser · 14/06/2024 17:04

I always wfh on a Friday so that my husband and I can go out for lunch. I write off the afternoon. I lead a team and I’m happy for most of them (apart from admin) to do the same.

Why are you happy for everyone except admin to do this? Doesn’t seem very fair at all.

Famfirst · 15/06/2024 00:02

The same as every other afternoon. I've no idea why it would be any different.

Jeannie88 · 15/06/2024 00:01

buffyslayer · 14/06/2024 22:11

@Jeannie88 but not all WFH jobs are like that
I am "on" for the whole time I'm working, and have to account for if I am making a cup of tea etc
My break and lunch is timed and I can't go over it. It's a busy stressful job and I'm mentally wiped by the end of the week
And yes I do know what stressful/physical work is having done it previously but mine is a brain mush kind of wiped now

Sorry, from MN it's never come across as this. How do employers check? I was just responding to the OP who felt that having to work hard for a couple of days felt entitled to taking the Friday off. She clearly doesn't represent or give justice to you and others who do. Xx

Jeannie88 · 14/06/2024 23:52

CuttingMeOpenthenHealingMeFine · 14/06/2024 21:58

Is it really so difficult to realise that jobs are all different? I don’t expect my days in my current job (not saying what it is but has been wfh since loooong before Covid) to look the same as when I worked in a supermarket as a student or when I worked in a betting shop or when I worked customer facing in a bank because they are different? I wonder about people honestly…

Of course, so many jobs have become wfh, but the response to OP was that she's fortunate to be able to have downtime on a Friday and choose to do so. That's the difference, people who don't have office jobs can't do this. You've had the experience of student jobs dealing with the public, so I'm sure you understand the other side to this?

'I wonder about people honestly' as well, those who don't get others who can't take downtime as they are physically present and active at work, not sat behind a screen at home, with all the advantages that come with it. So taking a Slack day isn't an option for many, hence the response to post.

SocoBateVira · 14/06/2024 23:13

Funny how the people telling remote workers to think about emergency services who can't work from home never apply the same principle to benefits the other way round. If you're eg a remote worker in the private sector, anyone working in the emergency services is likely to have much better pension, sick pay and maternity pay than you. But none of the finger waggers ever have anything to say about that.

CuttingMeOpenthenHealingMeFine · 14/06/2024 23:10

ImFuckingPerfect · 14/06/2024 22:50

I think a LOT of the replies on this thread have been made to be goady tbh. Admin staff having to work while the “professionals” swan off for lunch with husbands and the rest of the team having the afternoon off, glasses of wine at 12pm, going swimming in work time etc etc. Some people must have a real alcohol problem drinking at 12 noon on a Friday…

I’ve noticed there’s been a few WFH threads recently. Do those posters never give a thought to our emergency service/retail or other people who don’t work from home? It’s not very nice to gloat tbh and some posters are nasty with it. There really is no need.

Not a single thought no.

Marblessolveeverything · 14/06/2024 23:08

Today I was out on an interview panel so lots of sitting around.

Usually my Friday is a bit of mentoring for my trainees in the morning, reading and planning in the afternoon. I always finish at four, start early in the morning.

CutthroatDruTheViolent · 14/06/2024 23:07

ImFuckingPerfect · 14/06/2024 22:50

I think a LOT of the replies on this thread have been made to be goady tbh. Admin staff having to work while the “professionals” swan off for lunch with husbands and the rest of the team having the afternoon off, glasses of wine at 12pm, going swimming in work time etc etc. Some people must have a real alcohol problem drinking at 12 noon on a Friday…

I’ve noticed there’s been a few WFH threads recently. Do those posters never give a thought to our emergency service/retail or other people who don’t work from home? It’s not very nice to gloat tbh and some posters are nasty with it. There really is no need.

Many of the ones that can swan off for lunch with their husbands might be called at 7pm to firefight situation that can only be dealt with by them. And because they will be salaried, they won't get OT for that, because it's "business needs".

Sure some people take the piss. But some don't. Being jealous isn't going to change that. Personally I work hard for the flexibility my job gives me, so the times I'm late in I might have been system testing at 3am. But you wouldn't know that.

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