But on MN it seems to be one in the same, someone who has 46k available for school fees but couldn't possibly find the extra anywhere else. Who are these people that can afford to spend 11k more than the median household disposable income PA on fees but haven't got any kind of buffer zone?
I mean that's just bad financial planning to start with.
Lets be really honest here, most will find the money, those that haven't started yet will maybe reconsider, but those who view PE as a necessity will just change consumption patterns, slightly to save for it.
I don't know who said that it was becoming a trend, but the state primary followed by private secondary has always been a fairly common move, many, many people I know both from way back when as a child, and later as parent followed this route.
"Oh and you still haven’t provided any examples of a £10k per year secondary school"
I'm not going to scrabble around to get one, but people kept going on about he small, lower priced schools that would be badly effected as the parents really only just scraped the money together. Not spending the average fee for one child on secondary school, which is more than half the median household disposable income. I used the figure as being significantly lower than the average.
I actually think a lot of people have no idea what "average incomes" are, or just how much money you have to have to spend the average fee on one child. Assuming Year 8-13 it would be well over 100k in 6 years, the one DC fees you have mentioned would mean that you are spending 132k, that's nearly half of the average house price in the UK in 6 years! This is not average.
Yes people may not have expected the cost of living crisis, yes some people ( a minority) may have to make decisions on whether they continue. I truly don't believe it will be many, but I feel sorry for those that do.