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That restaurants should know parmesan isn't vegetarian?

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SpikyCoconut · 13/06/2024 16:11

My Mum has booked this restaurant and asked if I want to come along.

Surely the chef should know this?

https://www.315barandrestaurant.co.uk/

Wibu to get in touch with them and ask if it is actually a parmesan substitute (in which case it should be labelled correctly!) Or if they can develop a different dish that actually IS vegetarian? There are two dishes with parmesan on the vegetarian menu.

315 Bar and Restaurant, Lepton, Huddersfield – 315 boasts fine dining, luxury accommodation, an invigorating health spa and so much more

https://www.315barandrestaurant.co.uk

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KirstenBlest · 13/06/2024 23:28

VJBR · 13/06/2024 21:17

Just ask for it without the cheese. It does say on the menu you can request a vegan version. Seems a fuss over nothing.

@VJBR , I don't want to eat fake milk, fake cheese, fake meat etc.
Something like 'Feuile de Brick Parcel Filled with Goats Cheese & Caramelised Onion with Mediterranean Vegetables & Pesto Dressing (Vegan Upon Request)' without the cheese isn't exactly appealing.

It's Feuille de brik not Feuile de Brick so it's also not suitable for pedants.

Goldiefinch · 13/06/2024 23:12

Velvian · 13/06/2024 19:48

YANBU. Drives me crazy! I've known for decades that parmesan is never vegetarian, nor is Lea and Perrins or most pesto.

Sacla Organic pesto is vegetarian and has actual cheese in it. That's my top tip.

Someone that cooks for a living should really know this stuff.

If only vegetarian marshmallows weren't so hard to get. 😭

@Velvian
marks and Spencer’s do vegan marshmallows!

also Tesco and Morrisons both do their own range of vegan pesto now - it’s pretty good and half the price of the sacla stuff.

and if you want a vegan Lea and Perrins options Hendersons relish is vegan (and superior!!) x

Aria999 · 13/06/2024 23:09

So a vegetarian could eat honey but not a vegan?

I am pretty sure vegetarians don't eat vegans 🤣 misses point of thread

Goldiefinch · 13/06/2024 23:03

YANBU its shocking how often dishes labelled as veggie have Parmesan in, and then when you ask if it is veggie Parmesan the waiting staff/ chef don’t know (therefore it probably isn’t if it’s the same as what they are using for non veggie dishes). It’s really bad - everyone has the right to know what is in the food they are eating, regardless of the reason and a chef should know what is in their dishes.

as a general rule I don’t touch veggie dishes with Parmesan (unless at a veggie restaurant) or I ask for it to not be added if it is just on top. I’ve been to the restaurant you’ve mentioned OP, and generally the restaurants and country pubs in and around Huddersfield are bad for veggie options (and impossible for vegan!). - I usually go for a curry or for Mexican!

what also pisses me off is when the veggie or vegan option is when they just remove things from the dish (meat, fish, cheese etc) and don’t replace it with anything else. And then you’re charged the same price for half a meal and you’re still hungry!

mathanxiety · 13/06/2024 23:01

SnakesAndArrows · 13/06/2024 22:50

Bacteria are not animals.

And we are not fully 'human' either.
There isn't the hard and fast divide between life forms on earth that some vegetarians and vegans think there is.

FunZebra · 13/06/2024 23:00

marmarmalade · 13/06/2024 22:43

What's wrong with avocados for a veggie?

Fine for veggies. Not strictly okay for vegans.

https://www.veganfriendly.org.uk/is-it-vegan/avocados/

mathanxiety · 13/06/2024 22:59

Parmigiano Reggiano is the only type of parmesan that you can be certain is made with rennet.

Outside of AOC or PDO registered food products you can't be certain of ingredients used in processing. As a rule, rennet is more expensive than other means of curdling milk in cheese production, and manufacturers tend to prefer low costs.

Contemplation2024 · 13/06/2024 22:52

Velvian · 13/06/2024 19:48

YANBU. Drives me crazy! I've known for decades that parmesan is never vegetarian, nor is Lea and Perrins or most pesto.

Sacla Organic pesto is vegetarian and has actual cheese in it. That's my top tip.

Someone that cooks for a living should really know this stuff.

If only vegetarian marshmallows weren't so hard to get. 😭

I got vegan marshmallows. I THINK it was Morrison's but don't quote me. Definitely a big supermarket chain.

They were pretty tasteless but nice with some melted vegan chocolate!

SnakesAndArrows · 13/06/2024 22:50

mathanxiety · 13/06/2024 22:12

The harmless bacteria on all food and cutlery makes it all non-vegetarian.

Bacteria are not animals.

mathanxiety · 13/06/2024 22:45

TriesNotToBeCynical · 13/06/2024 22:21

If you think bacteria are animals then you are sadly deluded.

Since most humans, birds, fish, and animals are partly composed of bacterial matter, maybe we should label ourselves prokaryotic-mammals? We could throw in viruses and maybe even parasites too in the interests of accurate labeling. We are all ecosystems.

marmarmalade · 13/06/2024 22:43

What's wrong with avocados for a veggie?

vanillaalmondlatte · 13/06/2024 22:42

YANBU. As a life long veggie this drives me mad!! I often have to ask for the Parmesan to be removed (e.g off a pizza) and I always worry it makes me look fussy because a lot of people don’t realise it’s not veggie.

SnakesAndArrows · 13/06/2024 22:39

FrivolousKitchenRollUse · 13/06/2024 19:47

Even some sweets aren't suitable for vegetarians - haribo and turkish delight for instance contain beef gelatine.

Turkish delight doesn’t usually contain gelatine. The texture would be all wrong if it did.

Mykittensmittens · 13/06/2024 22:36

S0livagant · 13/06/2024 18:17

I do wonder how many genuine vegetarians there are? Those who make sure cheese, wine, pesto, sweets etc are vegetarian, even when eating out, yet are not working towards going plant based so happy to choose the vegan option? IRL I know none. I know 'vegetarians' who don't eat actual meat but don't check packets, and I know vegetarians switching out dairy for plant based options and only eating high welfare eggs. No just vegetarians.

Me. 40 years of this

I absolutely check everything - pudding pots are risky - so are haribo or jelly sweets, cheeses, wine, anything with the potential for gelatin, rennet or cochineal (so red velvet cake for example). I also don’t use leather products. That’s a miniscule example.

yes it’s a pain but after this long it’s just what I do! Processed jelly sweets are no loss to go without , as per puddings - I avoid over processed foods anyway. Flavoured low fat yogurts don’t appeal. Pesto and cheeses you have labels which can easily be checked.

TriesNotToBeCynical · 13/06/2024 22:23

mathanxiety · 13/06/2024 22:17

It's a capitalist system.

Restaurants are not obliged to cater for everyone.

People who don't fancy what's on a menu have the option of taking their business elsewhere.

I think the point was that they might fancy what was on the menu were it not incorrectly labelled. I think it is reasonable to expect restaurants to know something about what they are selling, and what food description mean.

JuneIsBustinOutAllOver · 13/06/2024 22:21

FunZebra · 13/06/2024 22:12

Rowntree = Nestle. hell will freeze over before I give them money and likewise M+S.

Oh, dear. Must I stick to a sweetie-free healthy diet, then? At least it will be good for me.

TriesNotToBeCynical · 13/06/2024 22:21

mathanxiety · 13/06/2024 22:12

The harmless bacteria on all food and cutlery makes it all non-vegetarian.

If you think bacteria are animals then you are sadly deluded.

mathanxiety · 13/06/2024 22:17

LikeABondVillanDipshit · 13/06/2024 18:14

many vegetarians are sick of restaurants thinking vegan is acceptable to vegetarians because they can’t be bothered to cater to vegetarians, vegans and meat eaters.

It's a capitalist system.

Restaurants are not obliged to cater for everyone.

People who don't fancy what's on a menu have the option of taking their business elsewhere.

Floorbard · 13/06/2024 22:16

FunZebra · 13/06/2024 22:11

Nope. My food choices have nothing to do with animal welfare.

I don’t want shitty fake cheeze or Beyond Meat burgers.

Then my comment doesn’t apply to you, and you didn’t really need to reply to it :)

mathanxiety · 13/06/2024 22:12

uhOhOP · 13/06/2024 16:16

The people who are voting that OP is being unreasonable, is it that you think all cheese is vegetarian? Because I think OP's points are valid, about the correct labelling of vegetarian dishes and that restaurant cooks ought to know parmesan is not vegetarian.

The harmless bacteria on all food and cutlery makes it all non-vegetarian.

FunZebra · 13/06/2024 22:12

JuneIsBustinOutAllOver · 13/06/2024 22:10

In better news for vegans and vegetarians, Rowntrees Fruit Gums, Fruit Pastilles and Jelly Tots don’t contain gelatine - I think they used to. They are soft, unlike some other vegetarian sweets like Candy Kittens. Also, Percy Pigs used to have a specific vegetarian range shown by Percy having one green ear, but I think all Percy Pigs are vegetarian now. A quick Google seems to confirm this.

In general this might be because the ingredients lists for some jelly-type sweets include (specifically) beef or pork gelatine. Making them without gelatine altogether opens up their markets to faiths which allow meat-eating but forbid beef or pork products.

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Rowntree = Nestle. hell will freeze over before I give them money and likewise M+S.

FunZebra · 13/06/2024 22:11

Floorbard · 13/06/2024 22:01

I think this is so silly. Surely vegetarians would be happy to have the vegan option! Since the majority of vegetarians don’t eat meat because they (misguidedly, since they pay for dairy/eggs) want to avoid animal cruelty, why not cut out even more animal cruelty by choosing the vegan option?

Nope. My food choices have nothing to do with animal welfare.

I don’t want shitty fake cheeze or Beyond Meat burgers.

JuneIsBustinOutAllOver · 13/06/2024 22:10

In better news for vegans and vegetarians, Rowntrees Fruit Gums, Fruit Pastilles and Jelly Tots don’t contain gelatine - I think they used to. They are soft, unlike some other vegetarian sweets like Candy Kittens. Also, Percy Pigs used to have a specific vegetarian range shown by Percy having one green ear, but I think all Percy Pigs are vegetarian now. A quick Google seems to confirm this.

In general this might be because the ingredients lists for some jelly-type sweets include (specifically) beef or pork gelatine. Making them without gelatine altogether opens up their markets to faiths which allow meat-eating but forbid beef or pork products.

FunZebra · 13/06/2024 22:07

S0livagant · 13/06/2024 20:41

I know that not everyone is like people I know. I just think genuine vegetarians who are not trying to cut down on dairy are uncommon these days. I'm curious though, if it's about the taste and texture of meat for you, not animal rights, then do rennet cheeses taste different?

I’ve no idea. I’ve not eaten them for years.

(Not sure why it matters to you. I’m perfectly entitled to not eat whatever I want not to eat.)

TeenLifeMum · 13/06/2024 22:07

Chickenuggetsticks · 13/06/2024 22:00

All the vegetarians I know eat cheese tbh and I know people raised as vegetarians all their lives. If it were a problem for me I would always look for a vegan option tbh.

Lots of cheese is suitable for vegetarians but Parmesan has animal in it. That said, I know plenty of vegetarians who turn a blind eye and eat haribo and desserts with gelatine. Dd adores pigs and hasn’t eaten pork since she was 4. That includes sweets and anything with pork gelatine… beef gelatine is absolutely fine and M&S has a great range of non gelatine alternatives.

Strict labels and competitive vegetarianism isn’t needed. Make your own rules what you’re comfortable eating!