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I read his messages

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cupsandcupsoftea · 13/06/2024 12:37

I know I shouldn't but we've been having some ups and downs recently.

I thought we were back on track but I just read a message to his mate saying he never sent me the finishing text as he got laid!!! And also that we aren't back together, we are more like fwb.

I don't know what to do, as far as I was aware we are back together. I think it's disrespectful saying he got laid too.

Thoughts please! I obviously can't say I've been snooping.

OP posts:
worryinglike · 13/06/2024 12:42

cupsandcupsoftea · 13/06/2024 12:41

Hes the opposite when with me though, says he loves me blah blah.

Is this just how guys talk to their guy mates?

No, not decent men, he's a twat

cupsandcupsoftea · 13/06/2024 12:41

Hes the opposite when with me though, says he loves me blah blah.

Is this just how guys talk to their guy mates?

OP posts:
MILTOBE · 13/06/2024 12:40

"I won't be seeing you again, Dave. I'm just not feeling it. I hope you find what you're looking for."

Then block.

MumHouseDilemma · 13/06/2024 12:38

You don't need to tell him you snooped, just end it, because he clearly isn't as invested in you, and you don't trust him hence the snooping.

EatCrow · 13/06/2024 12:38

With your self respect intact, end it with him. No need to give a reason.