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DD kissing all the boys…….

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adviceForMyDd · 13/06/2024 08:30

Dropped my daughter aged nearly 9 to school today and as I was walking I was stopped by 3 boys in her class (DD was in breakfast club so didn’t hear). One said to me “X has a crush on all the boys in the year group and kisses the boys in class”. He said she kisses her hand and blows kisses at them, I don’t know this boy but know the other 2. I explained she’s the youngest in class and doesn’t understand what she’s doing.

DD is very childish and immature and teachers have often said she’s very young in terms of behaviour but it’s expected as she’s one of the youngest in year group.

i’m really worried she will get a reputation. I don’t know how to handle this. Any advice please?

OP posts:
adviceForMyDd · 13/06/2024 08:37

Are u lot for real? The boys are all talking about her. I haven’t caused anything why do I need therapy? I can see the crazies are out in the morning lol!

any normal rational people about to give advice?

OP posts:
LauderSyme · 13/06/2024 08:36

When children don't know what they are doing it their caregivers' responsibility to explain.

FluentRubyDog · 13/06/2024 08:36

"i’m really worried she will get a reputation"

Your poor DD.

THERAPY. For you. Now. Before you damage her forever.

LauderSyme · 13/06/2024 08:35

"a reputation"?!

Gosh, that's a dated sexist phrase to apply to a nine year old.

In your own terms, she already has one, given that children are stopping you to tell you about it.

What you do is talk to dd, ask her why she is doing it, address her response and explain that it isn't appropriate and may make other people uncomfortable and prevent her making strong friendships with her peers.

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