Basically just comparing to some friends.
DH works physical job one hour away from home. 6 days a week Leaves 7am Home at 5 pm and farms for 2 hours. Home 7pm for dinner made by me and shower. Then generally takes over I have kids pj's on 1 x aged 4
1 x 9 months old
He does bedtime I then have from around 8.30ish to myself but also dishwasher uniforms etc.
However I don't work, well I don't have a paid job! Child 1 at school until 2pm and baby at nursery 2 x mornings 9-12.
I help to care for elderly in-law and do shopping bit of cleaning etc for her.
Visit my family and friends. Few lunches out.
My family are all saying I'm ridiculous and do nothing. I feel like I do so much?! Am I really spoilt??? I don't really care what they say but just wanted outsiders opinion. It's okay for them husbands working from.home etc but mine is literally away 13/14 hours everyday and we aren't financially struggling. Of course I could work a few evenings or weekends but he earns more so surely it makes more sense for him to work. Am I being called spoilt for being traditional?
Thanks if u got this far lol