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How much would you pay for this bouquet?

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Disappointedflowers · 12/06/2024 11:34

I ordered a bouquet online to be sent to my DP's and my DM sent me a picture of them to say thank you.
I was extremely disappointed considering what I had spent and said so. Only then did my DM say that she hadn't thought they weren't all that thinking I had probably spent £x amount to which I then said I spent considerably more.
She did say that there was also a hydrangea head that didn't really go with the rest of the arrangement, so she put that elsewhere, and a ridiculous amount of foliage, some of which she used in another bunch of flowers she received and the rest ended up in the green bin as it was too much.
I'd really appreciate some thoughts from you lovely bunch (see what I did there! 😜) as to what you think I should have been charged for these flowers? 🙏🏻

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hellywelly3 · 12/06/2024 14:37

£50 I think.

LuluBlakey1 · 12/06/2024 14:34

There are 3 large pale pink rises plus at least 12 , of what I think are, smaller cream roses plus carnations and chrysanthemums (such serviceable flowers) plus the hydrangea and all the greenery. I don't like them but would bet they were at least £60.

CoffeeCantata · 12/06/2024 14:32

That is a shocker, OP. I agree it's a pathetic offering for that price.

Personally I don't like fancy florists' bouquets and I've trained my family about this! I hate:

loads of scratchy, irrelevant greenery
acres of cellophane
rafia or ribbon
showy but not particularly attractive flowers (those South African orange things, for eg)
Out-of-season flowers flown in from Kenya etc

I hate it when the detritus fills half my bin before I've even put them in water. Yes, I'm an ungrateful cow about poncey bouquets!

I go to M & S or similar, or a local florist, and buy a bunch of the same flowers in season. daffs, narciss, hyacinths, tulips, anemones, ranunculus, dahlias, larkspur etc etc. Much nicer and a fraction of the price. You can keep the lilies and tight, scentless roses.

umberelladay · 12/06/2024 14:31

Disappointedflowers · 12/06/2024 11:53

What she threw out was a whole bunch of leaves. I don't think charging £20 extra for filler foliage is really on!

Why do you think foliage is cheap? It takes time to cut, it's harder to condition and takes longer to grow. It's a premium product.

If you just wanted a mass of flowers, you should have got a few cheap Tesco bouquets.

An artisan bouquet will have lot's of greens.

She ripped it apart and arranged it badly.

Runsyd · 12/06/2024 14:30

I'm not much at flower arranging, but I do comprehend that the foliage often makes or breaks the arrangement. Very odd to see it as dispensable or a cheap filler.

Meagainreincarnated · 12/06/2024 14:30

£20

horseyhorsey17 · 12/06/2024 14:29

As others have said, it sounds like your mum chucked away half the bouquet! So it might have been value for money after all. At the moment it does look a bit like a standard £10 supermarket bouquet, but at least half of it is missing!

mrspaulhollywood · 12/06/2024 14:26

I always order from Bloom and Wild now they are really good value, even the hand tied bouquets they do for £45 are really nice

Shambles123 · 12/06/2024 14:26

Plus hydrangea and foliage that will be a £50 plus bouquet. Flowers are expensive anyway and you have roses and Delphs in there. Plus the hydrangea.

candycane222 · 12/06/2024 14:19

@Bonbon21 those are lovely and a great price!

KreedKafer · 12/06/2024 14:19

That's a fireplace behind them, right? So that's actually very big bouquet, and you said she's taken out a hydrangea head and some foliage, and also, it looks like a lot of the flowers are still in bud (which is a good thing because means the bouquet will last longer). So I'd expect to pay £60 for that. The issue here isn't the bouquet itself, it's the fact that half of it's been chucked away so it now looks straggly, and that you haven't considered that some of the flowers haven't opened yet.

My guess is that, if you'd shown us a photo of the bouquet before it got put in a vase that's too small and half of it got put in the bin, people would be giving you much higher estimates.

candycane222 · 12/06/2024 14:18

I've given up sending people flowers, they have definitely got a lot more expensive recently. I'm guessing it's going to make it harder for florists to make a living but there's psychological barrier for me at about £45 beyond which I'm just - HOW much???

GrannyOgre · 12/06/2024 14:12

A similar number and selection of flowers loose in a box from somewhere like Freddies Flowers costs £29 (you arrange them yourself with instructions). If you bought them online from a florist/Interflora and they were tied/wrapped, I would expect they would cost about £70.

I think it’s always a bit of a lottery buying flowers online unless you know the florist. At least with M&S, Next etc, what you see is what you get.

Personally, I am a fan of Freddies Flowers for value and quality because the money you spend goes on the flowers, not the florist’s time and skill, but not everyone wants to arrange flowers themselves and it’s not so impressive a gift to receive a box of flowers rather than a bouquet.

C1N1C · 12/06/2024 14:07

£70 is nuts! I'd have said double what a supermarket charges. For that arrangement, I'd say £20 in a supermarket, so £40 from Interflora, plus postage, so at most £50?

I mean, you can go on eFlorist and get 50 roses for £30!

Waitformetoarrive · 12/06/2024 14:05

Hard to say if this is good value if she has chucked the foliage and used some flowers in a different vase. I would say minimum of £45 plus £10 delivery but this is based on what is included in the photo only.

ichundich · 12/06/2024 14:00

I just ordered a bunch from Fleurop for €54. Website vs. reality...! Never again.

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Magnastorm · 12/06/2024 13:57

The flowers have been really badly presented in the vase and half of it chucked out.

£70 I think is about right. Flowers are expensive and people do actually need to make a living.

Springwatch123 · 12/06/2024 13:54

On the basis that some of the display was chucked away, I’d say £40-50.

Bonbon21 · 12/06/2024 13:54

I paid £30 for this from a small local florist, collected from her shop, amazing perfume.

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Puzzledandpissedoff · 12/06/2024 13:48

There was no picture on the website, just said florist's choice and then could choose how much to spend

Unfortunately that's a recipe for disappointment; it can work with a really reputable florist, but too often it means shoving in whatever rubbish they can get away with

To my mind the content you described should have been £40 at the very most, so at a ridiculous £70 plus delivery I'd be leaving an honest and factual review

EatCrow · 12/06/2024 13:43

Disappointedflowers · 12/06/2024 11:53

What she threw out was a whole bunch of leaves. I don't think charging £20 extra for filler foliage is really on!

I’ve always found they do this, such a rip off. There’s never any perfume either.

muddyford · 12/06/2024 13:40

I have used Scilly Flowers and Cornish Blooms successfully. Other friends have said M&S are good. I have also rung a florist local to the recipient and come to an arrangement with them (forgive the pun!).

theferry · 12/06/2024 13:29

I paid £35 for something better than that from Next recently. Only annoyance was that the delivery company just dumped them outside the front door when nobody answered.

TillyMills · 12/06/2024 13:22

£60+

Wry · 12/06/2024 12:16

'Filler' foliage isn't cheap, and often lasts a few weeks longer than the flowers - when the feature flowers die off in a bouquet, I pull them out and replace with basic supermarket roses/tulips/freesias, and the arrangement's good for at least another week.