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How much would you pay for this bouquet?

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Disappointedflowers · 12/06/2024 11:34

I ordered a bouquet online to be sent to my DP's and my DM sent me a picture of them to say thank you.
I was extremely disappointed considering what I had spent and said so. Only then did my DM say that she hadn't thought they weren't all that thinking I had probably spent £x amount to which I then said I spent considerably more.
She did say that there was also a hydrangea head that didn't really go with the rest of the arrangement, so she put that elsewhere, and a ridiculous amount of foliage, some of which she used in another bunch of flowers she received and the rest ended up in the green bin as it was too much.
I'd really appreciate some thoughts from you lovely bunch (see what I did there! 😜) as to what you think I should have been charged for these flowers? 🙏🏻

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mitogoshi · 12/06/2024 17:39

£70! No

Use bunches next time, I paid £30 for a similar selection and included chocolates too

TwixOwl · 12/06/2024 17:37

Also there's about 26 flowers which haven't bloomed yet and going to look daft without the padding.

TwixOwl · 12/06/2024 17:36

Your mum has basically murdered the whole present, taking out the main feature and fillings and then commenting negatively that it wasn't much. Sorry flower sender's mum, you mucked up here.

CaribouCarafe · 12/06/2024 17:33

They seem like good quality flowers at least - sometimes when they arrive they look horribly wilted and half-dead. But yes, difficult to estimate a fair price without seeing how they were originally arranged. Based on what you'd posted I guessed £55+

Hazelville · 12/06/2024 17:28

Disappointedflowers · 12/06/2024 11:53

What she threw out was a whole bunch of leaves. I don't think charging £20 extra for filler foliage is really on!

Foliage costs a lot as do hydrangeas. However, I think £70 is steep.

HonoraBridge · 12/06/2024 17:23

£70 is too much even allowing for the removal of sone greenery and a flower. There are not many flowers there. This bouquet should have been no more than £40.

DarkForces · 12/06/2024 17:15

Calliopespa · 12/06/2024 17:14

We don’t know this wasn’t hand tied - before op’s DM modified it.

Edited to say I see now they were delivered as stems. That makes the resulting “ bouquet” slightly less of a mystery. But I’d get her hand tied in future OP: I don’t think flower arranging is her vocation.

Edited

True! If it's hand tied you definitely can't judge it once it's taken apart.

Calliopespa · 12/06/2024 17:14

DarkForces · 12/06/2024 17:01

I get hand tied bouquets that don't have to be arranged because I'm also a crap flower arranger. You could get a lush one for £70!

We don’t know this wasn’t hand tied - before op’s DM modified it.

Edited to say I see now they were delivered as stems. That makes the resulting “ bouquet” slightly less of a mystery. But I’d get her hand tied in future OP: I don’t think flower arranging is her vocation.

FuckTheClubUp · 12/06/2024 17:13

£70?!! You’re honestly better off buying flowers from MoonPig! They look better than the ones in the photo that’s for sure

EclairsAndDoughnuts · 12/06/2024 17:11

Foliage is what makes the bouquet and it can be expensive.

It can also look lovely arranged on its own if there really is too much of it but, to be honest, it looks as if there was space in the vase-it would have made it all look so much more luxurious and she should not have chucked it in the bin,.

Your mum could have used the single hydrangea surrounded by foliage to make a very pretty arrangement.

A more gifted arranger could have made those blooms look magnificent, so part of the fact that they do look substandard isn't the florist's fault.

It is sometimes better, if you're not confident, to split the bouquet and make smaller arrangements.

Beachballplayer · 12/06/2024 17:08

Don't ever buy flowers on to be delivered what you get for the money you pay is ridiculous.

NigelHarmansNewWife · 12/06/2024 17:07

DarkForces · 12/06/2024 17:01

I get hand tied bouquets that don't have to be arranged because I'm also a crap flower arranger. You could get a lush one for £70!

Looks to me as though a hand tied bouquet has been untied and things taken out. I used to be a florist. On these kinds of threads someone always says it's a rip off and they could get x from Y Supermarket for £5. There's a huge difference in the both the products, the flowers and foliage, and the skill in arranging them.

StaunchMomma · 12/06/2024 17:02

Disappointedflowers · 12/06/2024 11:51

£70. Plus delivery.

Wow.

Absolutely not!

Granted, she's thrown some foliage away, plus the hydrangea, but 70 quid?!

Absolute joke.

DarkForces · 12/06/2024 17:01

I get hand tied bouquets that don't have to be arranged because I'm also a crap flower arranger. You could get a lush one for £70!

dunkdemunder · 12/06/2024 16:59

LivingDeadGirlUK · 12/06/2024 11:53

I think its just not looking its best because not all the flowers are open yet, in a few days it will look splendid!

I think splendid is a bit of an exaggeration.

Those plus a hydrangea and more foliage is a bit crap for £70 in my view. And I live in London

umberelladay · 12/06/2024 16:58

cheezncrackers · 12/06/2024 16:11

I wasn't boasting @umberelladay - I was pointing out that the OP had been ripped off! And you don't know that it was prepared any more lovingly than that Sainsbury's bunch I linked to. You can order a bunch of flowers off the internet and have absolutely no idea where they come from. The OP said I ordered a bouquet online so she could've ordered them from Amazon!

My head hurts, you can't see the difference between what you bought and a floral bouquet delivered? It's like complaining the hamper you ordered and had delivered cost more than if you popped in Tesco and bought a few bits!!! You bought a service and skill.

You were boasting.

I have to leave this thread as Op has posted a fraction of what was received, which her mum, ripped apart, binned and badly arranged.

NigelHarmansNewWife · 12/06/2024 16:58

£50+. Foliage costs as much as flowers. Hydrangeas and delphiniums are premium flowers. The arrangement looks nothing like it did when it was delivered as your mum's taken things out of it, meaning it's not fair to judge the value based on the photo. Also, what she thinks is foliage may not yet have opened?

ifIwerenotanandroid · 12/06/2024 16:57

Disappointedflowers · 12/06/2024 11:53

What she threw out was a whole bunch of leaves. I don't think charging £20 extra for filler foliage is really on!

Foliage is not just 'a bunch of leaves' when it comes to flower arranging. It's part of the whole bouquet/arrangement & can be quite beautiful or interesting in itself. And florists don't get foliage for free!

What your mum should've done is used a bigger vase & arranged the whole bouquet in it. But I agree that for the money I would've liked a few more flowers (though I've just remembered that she took out the hydrangea 🙄.)

Lamelie · 12/06/2024 16:55

You’re all mad!
It’s the equivalent of docs sing the value of this!

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Howbizarre22 · 12/06/2024 16:55

I’d be questioning wtf your mum sabotaged them? Weird. I bet it was more than one hydrangea too. What is she up to OP?

WhichEllie · 12/06/2024 16:53

I agree that it’s impossible to say since your mum was delivered a bouquet not in a vase which she then tore apart, decided the centrepiece hydrangea “didn’t go” so removed it and left a gap, and stuffed the rest in a too small, too short vase where they are leaning drunkenly at all angles. Of course it looks shite, she’s ransacked it. 😂

My instinct is that the £70 may have been a bit much but also that chocolates are perhaps a better choice for her as a gift.

dietagain24 · 12/06/2024 16:47

The reason they get away with this is people don’t want to say they got rubbish flowers and just say thanks! After my gran died my mum got a horrendous bunch delivered she gave them all the details and wouldn’t deal with her because ‘they didn’t recognise the order number’. She didn’t want to contact her work colleagues as she felt it was rude.

Getonwitit · 12/06/2024 16:46

£30 max and i hope that includes delivery.

Castle0 · 12/06/2024 16:42

£25

parentfodder · 12/06/2024 16:40

£70 is daylight robbery

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